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Old 04-10-2007   #11
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maybe it will not pain ur attention but i think abt this subject a lot do u think that the divorce is a solution or a problem?
i think that divorce should come when there's no more solutions ,and hopefully it will be a solution, the last one, the sad part is that in most cases it's causing even more damage, battle for kids custody, splitting money and common belongings,.. but sometimes divorce can be better to the children than being in an enviroment full of dispute and parents fighting all the time!
do u think that when u got married and ur marriage will no succeed can u leave ur husband/wife, with/without children?
i'll probably do my best to keep my marriage working and if it is hopeless i'll battle fearlessly for kids
do u accept to marry a women/man who is divorced?
sure why not it's not the end of the world if one got into a bad marriage


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maybe it will not pay ur attention but i think abt this subject a lot do u think that the divorce is a solution or a problem?
do u think that when u got married and ur marriage will no succeed can u leave ur husband/wife, with/without children?
do u accept to marry a women/man who is divorced?
plz share with us ur ideas

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divorce is sometimes justified and some times ta2 7anak

a man who beats his wife, treats her like (insert bad word here) she can't continue living with him
bas enno divorce for dumb reasons especialy if they have children is wrong
some people are just horrible
I heard stories about women who leave their children with their husbands to go cheat on him
husbands who don't give their wives any money
cheaters, beaters etc.. ma bye3ach ma3on
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Divorce is rapidly increasing .
i have lived here for 20 years , never heard of a divorce before.
now 5 cases .
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sara7a lamma tektar el mashekel ben el mara w el rejel el tala2 houweh el 7al el afdal.... specially if u have kids, I mean do u imagine if a kid must focus on his studies w fi mashkal kel yom bel beit

it sucks to see parents separated but ya heik ya mashkal kel yom
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so guys new answers?

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I stand by my answer, divorce can sometimes be a solution, the lack of divorce in Lebanon is actually a bad thing sometimes couples wait until they cannot take it anymore, and until it becomes so horrible they cannot stand the sight of each other anymore and go to divorce, then the children get really traumatized, they visit their mom and hear bad stuff about their dad, and vice versa, and the parents never see each other again. It does not have to be this way, divorce should not be that bad. I think if 2 people separate on good terms, and take care of their kids and alternate visits, it would not have a bad effect. And for those who say divorce is not a solution, what do you think is better for kids? to sleep every night after hearing their parents yell at one another, one of them is sleeping on the sofa, every one of them talks to you in private and tries to get you to be on his side against your other parent, nkeyet biba3ed, sometimes on your expense(the mother won't cook to piss of the dad and you end up without food )

the problem also in our societies is that getting married is a duty, when a woman reaches the age of 30, if she is not married, society betsir te7ké "ya 7aram ra7 t3anis" etc... they make people feel wrong and bad about themselves for being single, so they rush into meeting someone, and marrying within the same year that they met(which is not enough time to know someone if you ask me) and things get ugly
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I used to think that Divorce is a problem but now after living in a different country I'm starting to see that Divorce is the right solution. u can't force two people to live together forever if they don't want to anymore.

do u accept to marry a women/man who is divorced?

I don't know 7asab chakhes
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