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Old 01-08-2008   #1
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Default Have you ever stop to think...

Sometimes you are or think you are sooo crazy in love with one person, you feel like there's no one else who can replace him/her. So you waited...days, weeks, months, even years thinking he/she will come around and realized that you've been following them for all this time. In other words, you were sooo busy chasing this person that you forget to look behind you because someone else is busy chasing you.

Has it ever happen to you?

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Have you ever given up all those people trying to pursue you, while you were pursuing that one person whom you deem soo madly in love with???


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Default Re: Have you ever stop to think...

No...I think this scenario is kinda hard to happen on the magnitude of years...It certainly hasn't happened to me. The thing is, when usually something like this happens, the person we are chasing is imaginary. We are looking for some person who often doesn't exist and passing on all the opportunities to be with real people who want to be with us.
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Default Re: Have you ever stop to think...

yea it happened to me i was so blinded by love that i didnt understand nor wake up 2 anythin around me and too bad it ended to be a fake but i thank God that he rewarded me with a better or let me say a non-comparable husband
finally a person never learns until he tries
i believe that failin experience must make us stronger and stronger
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Sometimes you are or think you are sooo crazy in love with one person, you feel like there's no one else who can replace him/her. So you waited...days, weeks, months, even years thinking he/she will come around and realized that you've been following them for all this time. In other words, you were sooo busy chasing this person that you forget to look behind you because someone else is busy chasing you.

Has it ever happen to you?

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Have you ever given up all those people trying to pursue you, while you were pursuing that one person whom you deem soo madly in love with???

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I think it was almost gonna happen with me, but i noticed that, and I stoped the pursuit, if she really cares about me, like i am, i think she should show that, she should give signals, im not gonna follow her anymore, i did what should i do,

I think ,the main problem is that we have a leak of comminication,

this is the main problem in our society,
eno if u have this ability to commonicate franchly we wasnt here discussing such kind of relations, eno in a relation in lebanon we need about 2 month to know where the relation is going,
nor the guy tell what he wants cuz he is affraid of the girls reaction, neither the girls says what she wants cuz she is not raised to share her feeling in an easy way
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Don't think so.... I am not the type of guy that stays a long time before saying "I love u" to a person, so I will imediatly figure it out if there is anyone chasing me
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Yeah actually that happened wiz me it took me months to realize that there are so many people out there who are better than this one person.
I piece all the things that has been puzzling me during those times we were together. People say "love" is blind. Yes, it really was. When you truly love someone, you tend to ignore the bad and focus on the goods thinking that person will come to their senses and realize what they did wrong.

I spent almost 7 months men chi 3 years chasing after a guy...but ended up having my heart broken. Within these years, I kept brushing off guys who came along and told them I already have my heart set out to this one guy and am waiting for him... Some dissappeared while others remain on friendly terms. Now when I think back, I've wasted all these years on someone who doesn't give a damn about me...
This will be one big lesson I will never forget...

Sometimes you lie to yourself and even find excuses just to assure yourself that what you see and hear isn't true. Well, I've come a long way to realize how blind I was... Sometimes, people just needed that "slap in the face (metaphorically speaking)" to open their eyes and snap out of their fantasies lol!

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Don't think so.... I am not the type of guy that stays a long time before saying "I love u" to a person, so I will imediatly figure it out if there is anyone chasing me
dont u think that saying it fast may lead that u regret it?!?!

what makes u sure that u r really in love or this is the right person,
personly i dont abuse this word i do respect it very much
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dont u think that saying it fast may lead that u regret it?!?!


what makes u sure that u r really in love or this is the right person,

personly i dont abuse this word i do respect it very much
Don't worry I think about it alot, plus I never do something and regreted it later
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Default Re: Have you ever stop to think...

Unfortunately,it happened to me...Chasing a guy,ending it with a broken heart...Took me till last tuesday to realize that many other guys are way better and that this guy doesn't deserve me...But realized this after breaking the heart of 3 other guys
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Default Re: Have you ever stop to think...

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Don't worry I think about it alot, plus I never do something and regreted it later
Nobody's Perfect You Know? And People Do Change Sometimes...

Anywayz, About The Subject, It Happened To Me Once, I Did Give up All Those People Trying To Pursue Me, While I Was Pursuing Someone Who I Deeply Falled In Love With...
And The Reason Was Because She And Her "BoyFriend" Was Always Fighting And Stuff, And She Always Came To Me When She Was Upset, So I Always Had Hope ::
But I Did Not Regret It I Learned A Lot From That Experience
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