In Love?! How?!

[hegma]

There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but If you agree with these statements you are probably in love.

. You know, because you have been told by your significant other, that your deep feelings are returned in kind.
. The object of your affections makes you feel special and good about yourself.
. If/when you feel jealous,but you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
. You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.
. When you fight with your partner, because you both want to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).
. If you do choose your partner over your loyalties to your family and friends.
. If sex is part of your relationship it is by mutual desire and agreement without the slightest hint of commitment testing or persuasion.

[Sheriff Ice]

Originally Posted by Justin

Alright, I'm having a small problem in here . Basically everyone likes to fall in love or to have someone to love them back. My case is in the contrary: im finding hard to 'love' someone else though some ladies are amazing, great hearts, understandable, fresh soul, etc... I have reached a point where nothing can complete me but MUSIC . Call me crazy or whatever but its very very easy to make anyone fall in love with you and its very very much harder to fall in love with them (which is my case). and i hate that kinda feeling, sometimes i feel empty.

Totally wrong
Justin i think we both know what i am talking about.
We just felt on our heads together

[Sheriff Ice]

Originally Posted by hegma

There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but If you agree with these statements you are probably in love.

. You know, because you have been told by your significant other, that your deep feelings are returned in kind.

Well Kinda, this time is pretty different that all other times, it is kind of mature relationship accompanied with respect and classy feelings

. The object of your affections makes you feel special and good about yourself.

Yeah, I am going through the best days of my life.

. If/when you feel jealous,but you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.

100% true, sometimes i do feel too jealous but i just dont talk because i really trust her and i know she wont betray, and vice versa, she is acting the same, we are building our relationship on trust

. You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.

Right i feel what i want to be, even with my family my friends i dont act like this, i feel that total freedom

. When you fight with your partner, because you both want to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).

Yeah we fought once lol, i ignored her all day long, and i was outside lebanon.

. If you do choose your partner over your loyalties to your family and friends.

This is affecting my social life alot, specially that my family friends and my entourage is used to the "single" me who is very active and keep going out to multi places with multi ppl

. If sex is part of your relationship it is by mutual desire and agreement without the slightest hint of commitment testing or persuasion.

I dont find sex a necessity for a successful relationship, it will come alone.


Summary: it seems i am deeply in love

[xcoder]

To me, 70% of love is based on friendship of being open to your partner; the fact of knowing that someone cares about you, listens to you, help you when you fall and does his best to keep you happy and stay around you, are most signs of love.
When you really feel uncomfortable to know that he's sad or in negative situation.
When these are valid; betrayal, hate, jealousy won't really happen unless you doubt your partner and don't fully trust him/her.

Time is a major player, the more you stay with your partner the deeper you get to know them and more attached you get just like everything that becomes part of your life especially if it's as frequent.

=)