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Jess 10-09-2007 10:07 PM

After marriage
 
Do you think that after having a baby the woman must dedicate her life to her famille,so she simply must remain at the house?

In other meanings, should she quit her job & stay at home....

Share wit'us your opinions and mention why :D

SysTaMatIcS 10-10-2007 11:00 AM

Re: After marriage
 
sure she should quit her job , unless if its not taking all of her time , then she could give the baby for her mother in the mornin , nd when she comes back she takes it back , jst like my sister do :D , but if her job needs alot of time , then its really haram to give her child to some maid or someone else...

FriendOfZeus 10-10-2007 12:39 PM

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Depends on the mother really, things have changed nowadays. Some women just cant accept the fact of staying at home all day and caring for the kids, they need to set and have goals for themselfs in order to feel accomplished.

Sniper 10-10-2007 02:42 PM

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If her husband can fully support the family financially, with no trouble, or to put it in other words, the father is loaded:p, then the mother should focus her time on the children and taking care of the family emotionally and all that, stay at home...

Crystal Soul 10-10-2007 03:10 PM

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SURE notttt she can t quit. as a girl i m not gonna quit my job for anybody either my baby anno why i m going to school than to my uni???? as a woman i m not playing :@ :@:@:@

J()e 10-10-2007 04:55 PM

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akiid no :crazy:...girls are equal to men....they go to school,university and learn and occupy majors not for giving it away when they have baby!!

this doesn't mean that the women shouldn't care abt her child bass chi w menno:)

No One 10-10-2007 08:35 PM

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same for man, he shld quit his job, eno leh ba2a l mara bada trabe wleda eno rejel chou na2so dont stay home?
since men & women are equal so they can share there responsibilities, i stil remember when we were kids my parents are both teachers, in the morning we were stayin at home wiz grandpa, in the afternoon mami was teachin us kel chi litteraire w dad neyim, so you3a dad tnem mami w houwe y3alemna kel chi sciences :D
I doubt eno in Lebanon if the woman wasnt working she cant get married cz she has to help her partner cz as we know ma fi wala chab adir wa7do y2asis 3ayle, same thing after gettin married, responsibility btekbar w lezim mara teshteghil to help her husband w at the same time mech eno when she comes back home l Philippiniye daris l wled w tnayemoun w t7amemoun w ta3miyoun, eno akid its the mother's role, so fiya t2asim dawra
Merci

Justin 10-10-2007 09:29 PM

Re: After marriage
 
actually, I have 2 different REASONABLE reasons

1- With Woman Quitting her job:

a. she just cannot handle the fact of raising a kid & working at the same time, she's a human being she cannot last for long, she's not a machine...

b. another simple REASONABLE reason of why a woman should quit her job: well... when she helps in the duties for soo long, the man will start counting on her aktar + bi sir fi 2 dyuk bel 3ayle..

2- Against Woman Quitting her job: woman rights, provides knowledge for her kidz (that's why its gd to be an educated person), and sometimes u get paied much better than a man lol :D

SysTaMatIcS 10-11-2007 11:22 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Sheriff Justin (Post 102520)
actually, I have 2 different REASONABLE reasons

1- With Woman Quitting her job:

a. she just cannot handle the fact of raising a kid & working at the same time, she's a human being she cannot last for long, she's not a machine...

b. another simple REASONABLE reason of why a woman should quit her job: well... when she helps in the duties for soo long, the man will start counting on her aktar + bi sir fi 2 dyuk bel 3ayle..

2- Against Woman Quitting her job: woman rights, provides knowledge for her kidz (that's why its gd to be an educated person), and sometimes u get paied much better than a man lol :D

abt a. its so true , my sister comes from the work exhausted and she cant even control her children cuz shes soo tired , so most of the times the family takes care of the twins , till shes relaxed , nd usually that would take hours .... but wat if the woman ddnt live near her family?? then shell look like a 60 years old woman when shes 30!

The Cheese 10-12-2007 10:27 AM

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It's all a personal choice..If the girl feels like she can handle two responsibilities then she shouldn't quit,and no one should make her.But if keeping her job means that her family might suffer,then it's not worth it.Besides,we're in lebanon O_owhich means that the man can't take care of the financial things all by himself.They can both work and still have a happy family...it's all a matter of priorities :)

sam88 10-16-2007 09:44 AM

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well guys i don no about u but as for me, i think that the woman should work a part job so she can help her husband and take care of her baby. especially theese days in Lebanon where the living have been very expensive. the man can not handle every thing alone.

Jess 10-19-2007 07:10 AM

Re: After marriage
 
Ana i agree with most of you guys....
I dont think that a woman must remain at house whenever she gets married or even having kids....why?
As Sam said, due to the awda3 in lebanon, sometimes, both the man and the woman work, and ma bila72o....
Ba3den, if her kids go to the skewl everyday from 8 till 3, she can work between these hours :)
So am against this idea.

Mandy 11-08-2007 06:00 PM

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a part time job is the best solution (8-2 for eg) ya3ne i dnt think i should arrive home at 6 while i have a baby waiting with sinkara or if my kids arrived at 3 from skul :| but i'll never quit my job and stay all day home

Gilgamesh 11-08-2007 08:07 PM

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Depends on her,and the stupid stud she is married to....If I get married and have children, I expect that we(herself and me)should somehow raise our child not a nanny....As long as somehow we can work that out, I prefer that she works as opposed to sitting home watching every TV series available

Sheriff Ice 11-08-2007 09:12 PM

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i think its very necessarly that a women continue working after having a baby, but sure after maternity vacation,, enno why should she leaves her job?!
if she thinks eno she is not able to continue she have the choice but i dun think eno it shoud leave her job just bcz her husband told her so


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