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Gilgamesh 12-14-2007 10:39 PM

Buy a husband/wife?
 
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A survey by Prince & Associates, a Connecticut-based wealth-research firm, finds two-thirds of women and half of the men are "very" or "extremely" willing to marry for money. The Wall Street Journal reports 74 percent of women in their 30s were the most likely to tie the knot for money while men in their 20s were the least likely at 41 percent. Sixty one percent of men in their 40s would marry for money.
The survey polled 1,134 men and women who make between $30,000 and $60,000 a year.
So how much money? On average men and women said they would marry for $1.5 million.
What do you think of this?


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TAREKŪ 12-15-2007 08:54 AM

Re: Buy a husband/wife?
 
Only three letters comes to my mind right now: WTF

FriendOfZeus 12-15-2007 06:15 PM

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That is depressing actually.

Gilgamesh 12-15-2007 06:22 PM

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Guys I dunno about u....but honestly the only reason I am alive today is that after I read this article yesterday and looked around, I didn't find a gun, razor, or rope. My psychiatrist has often warned me of such articles but what can I do? They just keep coming out more and more every day :(

FriendOfZeus 12-15-2007 06:29 PM

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I understand from where these feelings come from... Athegan....just keep on hoping and have patience....im sure ull find what u deserve and searching for :)

Gilgamesh 12-15-2007 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by FriendOfZeus (Post 111386)
I understand from where these feelings come from... Athegan....just keep on hoping and have patience....im sure ull find what u deserve and searching for :)

It is not that man....But now I know why I keep meeting this brand....they are 74%!!

abousoun 12-15-2007 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by article
On average men and women said they would marry for $1.5 million

who wouldn't get married for 1.5 million $ !!!!!!!!!!

eno i don't know why you are surprised ... but one of the reasons of marriage is the money

Thank You ...

Gilgamesh 12-15-2007 06:38 PM

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Originally Posted by abousoun (Post 111392)
who wouldn't get married for 1.5 million $

eno i don't know why you are surprised ... but one of the reasons of marriage is the money

Thank You ...

I wouldn't....I would prefer to sell my right kidney, my left arm and my right eye for money and not spend my life with someone just for their money...

P.S. If you are wondering why the left and right, the left arm cuz i need to write with the right..The right kidney and right eye to try to keep the weight balance

FriendOfZeus 12-15-2007 06:43 PM

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Athegan u just took the words out of my mouth.
I would rather commit suicide than to act so cheaply and sell myself for money.

abousoun 12-15-2007 06:49 PM

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looooooooooooooool one wants to commit suicide and other want to sell his body organs lool lool lool

why you are considering it as an act of selling yourself for money ??? ...
eno when you commit suicide you are selling yourself for nothing and when you sell body organs you are literally selling yourself for money :p

consider it as a common benefit between 2 people ... one for getting married and one for getting money

Thank You ...

Gilgamesh 12-15-2007 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by abousoun (Post 111397)
looooooooooooooool one wants to commit suicide and other want to sell his body organs lool lool lool

why you are considering it as an act of selling yourself for money ??? ...
eno when you commit suicide you are selling yourself for nothing and when you sell body organs you are literally selling yourself for money :p

consider it as a common benefit between 2 people ... one for getting married and one for getting money

Thank You ...

We are just being extreme....But no seriously, I will stay single all my life which is better...Remember these people interviewed are not homeless, they make 30 to 60 grands a year...not a lot, but they can live with that as single people instead of selling their precious time

FriendOfZeus 12-15-2007 06:54 PM

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Thank you abousoun but its me,
Can u care to explain how if i commit suicide i would be "selling" myself for something?
As for marriage, well man, i still believe in love, call me corny call me gay, i dont care, but i would rather believe in love that may or may not happen, then to have money as a cause of marriage and bonding to someone for the rest of my life.

I would like to believe that i am worth more than a number "20" printed on a paper bill.

abousoun 12-15-2007 07:02 PM

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okey to be serious too:
وصية الرسول لراغبى الزواج
عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال :
تنكح المرأة أي تتزوج لأربع : لمالها ، ولحسبها ولجمالها ولدينها ، فاظفر بذات الدين تربت يداك

so as i said in my first post one of the reason to get married is the money ... and as shown above not the favorable one

Thank You ...

Gilgamesh 12-15-2007 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by abousoun (Post 111402)
okey to be serious too:
وصية الرسول لراغبى الزواج
عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال :
تنكح المرأة أي تتزوج لأربع : لمالها ، ولحسبها ولجمالها ولدينها ، فاظفر بذات الدين تربت يداك

so as i said in my first post one of the reason to get married is the money ... and as shown above not the favorable one

Thank You ...

Yeah...that might convince FriendOfZeus, unfortunately not me....I was wondering if he said that before he married Khadijah bint Khuwaylid or afterwards?

In addition to that, clearly the standards have changed since
حسبها doesn't seem a matter of concern these days....



FriendOfZeus 12-15-2007 07:08 PM

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وصية الرسول لراغبى الزواج
عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال :
تنكح المرأة أي تتزوج لأربع : لمالها ، ولحسبها ولجمالها ولدينها ، فاظفر بذات الدين تربت يداك


so as i said in my first post one of the reason to get married is the money ... and as shown above not the favorable one

Thank You ...

And your point is?
I believe Athegan intentions were to extract our personal opinion on this matter, and not to draw facts from religious teachings.

abousoun 12-15-2007 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by athegan (Post 111405)
Yeah...that might convince FriendOfZeus, unfortunately not me....I was wondering if he said that before he married Khadijah bint Khuwaylid or afterwards?

In addition to that, clearly the standards have changed since حسبها doesn't seem a matter of concern these days....



it was afterwards giving you the doubt you well understood his quote ...
and since you mentioned khadija el koubra, it would be a positive argument for me

second, concerning el 7assab i don't know why you don't consider it as a matter of concern ... i think it will be one of the first things your parents will ask about when you want to get married (bent min w chou assla w chou fassla ) ...

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Originally Posted by FriendOfZeus
believe Athegan intentions were to extract our personal opinion on this matter, and not to draw facts from religious teachings

facts drawn from religious background or any background remain facts ...
When Jesus says "shall not steal" ... it means stealing is wrong ... your personel opinion could be that stealing is alright and you give many excuses ... but that doesnt change the fact that's wrong ...

Thank You ...

FriendOfZeus 12-15-2007 08:26 PM

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facts drawn from religious background or any background remain facts ...
When Jesus says "shall not steal" ... it means stealing is wrong ... your personel opinion could be that stealing is alright and you give many excuses ... but that doesnt change the fact that's wrong ...

Thank You ...
Their are no FACTS in a personal opinion. I believe that marrying for money is wrong, because it is moraly not acceptable for me....now u can bring forth all of the facts that state that it is okay to marry for money...but for me it is a value that i will stand against because for me it represents everything wrong thats happening in the world.

wewe 12-15-2007 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by athegan (Post 111393)
I wouldn't....I would prefer to sell my right kidney, my left arm and my right eye for money and not spend my life with someone just for their money...

P.S. If you are wondering why the left and right, the left arm cuz i need to write with the right..The right kidney and right eye to try to keep the weight balance

well for 1.5 millions , betjawaz and maybe i get the divorce ba3den with some money if tlo3et shatir :p
and u can make some EXTRA relationships :D, ye3neh i'm being honest here , u cant just refuse 1.5 millions :S , shou 7abeh w 7abteh 1.5 millions:S , halal2 maybe if el a7wel el mediyeh kenit gher hek , kenet ba3mol gher reply

ps: fi kam shaghleh bel thread ma fhemta:$

abousoun 12-15-2007 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by FriendOfZeus (Post 111430)
Their are no FACTS in a personal opinion.

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that's why they are called personal opinions which could be right or wrong unlike FACTS.
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Originally Posted by FriendOfZeus (Post 111430)
I believe that marrying for money is wrong, because it is moraly not acceptable for me....now u can bring forth all of the facts that state that it is okay to marry for money...but for me it is a value that i will stand against because for me it represents everything wrong thats happening in the world.

i said people can marry for the sake of money, but it's not a favorable reason ...
i think you missunderstood the quote of the prophet, it doesn't mean it's okey to marry for money
قال الرسول صلى الله عليه وسلم :
" من تزوج امرأة لعزها لم يزده الله إلا ذلاً ومن تزوجها لمالها لم يزده الله إلا فقراً ، ومن تزوجها لحسنها لم يزده الله إلا دناءة ، ومن تزوجها لم يرد بها إلا أن يغض بصره ويحصن فرجه بارك الله فيها وبارك الله لها فيه "

back to the first quote, it states the reasons why people get married ... one of them is money, that's why i said why you are surprised in the first place ...
but as mentioned above it shows it's not a favorable choice ...
I hope i cleared what i meant :p

Thank You ...

FriendOfZeus 12-15-2007 08:56 PM

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Clear :)
Well surprised didnt quite put the finguer on my reaction, appauled would fit in nicely :).
I know that this thing exist and is spread out within societies like a parasite...im just stating that im 100% against it.

wewe 12-15-2007 09:04 PM

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we're all against men jouwwa
but you cant judge others , a fik ta3rif ghayrak kif 3eyish and what's his motives etc...

FriendOfZeus 12-15-2007 09:13 PM

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Im not judging anyone wewe. Im just stating my personal opinion that it is something wrong.

xcoder 12-15-2007 09:29 PM

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Saba7 is a good example lol, all her young husbands wished her death to get her money but that woman is made of plastic.

wewe 12-15-2007 11:29 PM

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Originally Posted by xcoder (Post 111475)
Saba7 is a good example lol, all her young husbands wished her death to get her money but that woman is made of plastic.

:hawhaw: and the best part is , that she married mr. lebanon :hawhaw: rej3o tarako :crazy:


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تنكح المرأة أي تتزوج لأربع : لمالها ، ولحسبها ولجمالها ولدينها ، فاظفر بذات الدين تربت يداك
i have a question , the word تنكح
in ur sentence it's mfasara like "tankaf" means "get married" , wich is wrong i think
i read a big part of "1000 layla wa layla" the famous story and they use the word "tanka7" a lot , (it's used in islamic books i think) and the word "tanka7" means have sex or "do " like they say :p , for example " 3aziz naka7a jamila" wich means that he had sex with "jamila" ,
i'm not trying to make an arabic lesson coz i s*ck in arabic aslan , but i'm saying that this sentence that u used is wrong

amma bel nesbeh lal mawdou3 , ye3neh offering a wife for sale is humiliating , but i do'nt understand people who make big deal about marrying for money , 75% of moujtama3na is like that and they're proud of it , th e problem is that they do'nt confess , it's all about money and those shallow stuff believe me
these days there's no romance without a brand new car and a 500$ cell phone

SysTaMatIcS 12-15-2007 11:37 PM

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is hind hareeri available ?? :p

Gilgamesh 12-15-2007 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by wewe (Post 111512)
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amma bel nesbeh lal mawdou3 , ye3neh offering a wife for sale is humiliating , but i do'nt understand people who make big deal about marrying for money , 75% of moujtama3na is like that and they're proud of it , th e problem is that they do'nt confess , it's all about money and those shallow stuff believe me
these days there's no romance without a brand new car and a 500$ cell phone

wewe I hate you :p

If something is widespread and mainstream it doesn't make it right....public support for an idea is never the best criteria by which you can show the validity of the idea.... I agree that we live in a world with perverted standards and sick minds, and the standards are getting sicker every minute, but that doesn't mean we have to give in....I will prefer to live the way I see fit even if I will do it alone....And instead of thinking of yourself as a weird outcast when swimming upstream, remember this quote ," You laugh at me because I'm different, I laugh at you because you're all the same."

wewe 12-16-2007 12:10 AM

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wewe I hate you :p
:hawhaw: join the club :p
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Originally Posted by athegan (Post 111515)
If something is widespread and mainstream it doesn't make it right....public support for an idea is never the best criteria by which you can show the validity of the idea.... I agree that we live in a world with perverted standards and sick minds, and the standards are getting sicker every minute, but that doesn't mean we have to give in....I will prefer to live the way I see fit even if I will do it alone....And instead of thinking of yourself as a weird outcast when swimming upstream, remember this quote ," You laugh at me because I'm different, I laugh at you because you're all the same."

look i'm not saying that such people r right
i respect ur thoughts about love and all this BS:p, nut all what i'm saying is that we should'nt be suprised , u're right we should be against it , but it;s all relative to what kind of people u're talking about
poor people do'nt mind those kind of deals , and there's also women who are hard 7atta terdiyoun , they'll not mind these things
there's women who talk and talk and talk about romance and love , but in the end everything has a limit , they cant live poor
there's also people who dont even believe in love (metel 7adret janebeh:p)
this does'nt mean that i would take any rich girl , there's always some minimum requirements:D , but man when we're talking about millions of dollars :32: u cant just say no
and u can always have affairs while in a marriage:p , it's not a problem with me and i do'nt think that it's a problem with u coz u're an atheist so u do'nt have any religious rule that prevent that:p

Gilgamesh 12-16-2007 03:59 AM

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Monsieur Wewe, I never thought I will ever be debating this bas yalla shoo badna nsawwe....

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i respect ur thoughts about love and all this BS:p, nut all what i'm saying is that we should'nt be suprised , u're right we should be against it , but it;s all relative to what kind of people u're talking about
Love is not BS....what really distinguishes us from other animals is our emotions, their intensity, and their sophistication...you can't trash the most important of these emotions...Everyone is so eager to divide people on same basis...let see what is yours!

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poor people do'nt mind those kind of deals , and there's also women who are hard 7atta terdiyoun , they'll not mind these things
there's women who talk and talk and talk about romance and love , but in the end everything has a limit , they cant live poor
there's also people who dont even believe in love (metel 7adret janebeh:p)
Oh on class basis! I should have guessed!!! Again, 30 grands to 60 grands a year is not poor...I live in the US, I am within this category and I pay for everything including full time study in an expensive ass university...no one asking is them to be poor, just not to be so FSMdamn greedy....I pity u for not believing in love (although I would differ myself with most people on how to define it4D)

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his does'nt mean that i would take any rich girl , there's always some minimum requirements:D , but man when we're talking about millions of dollars :32: u cant just say no
Graduate, come to the US and work your ass off ( which is basically about 70 hours a week)...you will have a million and a half dollars in no time, if that is all ur after...U might be 40 by then...u can buy a wife thenO_o and probably the other requirements are solely looks O_o

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and u can always have affairs while in a marriage:p , it's not a problem with me and i do'nt think that it's a problem with u coz u're an atheist so u do'nt have any religious rule that prevent that:p
BRB...ok..back...I went to throw up...semi-digested lubya...

No comment man, if you think the only reason I wouldn't cheat on my gf/wife is fear of some fire...You are wrong.... The following is a quote by Einstein, very relevant here:
A man's ethical behavior should be based effectually on sympathy, education, and social ties and needs; no religious basis is necessary. Man would indeed be in a poor way if he had to be restrained by fear of punishment and hope of reward after death. ( Albert Einstein)


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