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Have you ever stop to think...
Sometimes you are or think you are sooo crazy in love with one person, you feel like there's no one else who can replace him/her. So you waited...days, weeks, months, even years thinking he/she will come around and realized that you've been following them for all this time. In other words, you were sooo busy chasing this person that you forget to look behind you because someone else is busy chasing you.
Has it ever happen to you? OR Have you ever given up all those people trying to pursue you, while you were pursuing that one person whom you deem soo madly in love with??? Share wit' us :p |
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No...I think this scenario is kinda hard to happen on the magnitude of years...It certainly hasn't happened to me. The thing is, when usually something like this happens, the person we are chasing is imaginary. We are looking for some person who often doesn't exist and passing on all the opportunities to be with real people who want to be with us.
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yea it happened to me i was so blinded by love that i didnt understand nor wake up 2 anythin around me and too bad it ended to be a fake but i thank God that he rewarded me with a better or let me say a non-comparable husband
finally a person never learns until he tries i believe that failin experience must make us stronger and stronger |
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I think ,the main problem is that we have a leak of comminication, this is the main problem in our society, eno if u have this ability to commonicate franchly we wasnt here discussing such kind of relations, eno in a relation in lebanon we need about 2 month to know where the relation is going, nor the guy tell what he wants cuz he is affraid of the girls reaction, neither the girls says what she wants cuz she is not raised to share her feeling in an easy way |
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Don't think so.... I am not the type of guy that stays a long time before saying "I love u" to a person, so I will imediatly figure it out if there is anyone chasing me :)
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Yeah actually that happened wiz me :) it took me months to realize that there are so many people out there who are better than this one person.
I piece all the things that has been puzzling me during those times we were together. People say "love" is blind. Yes, it really was. When you truly love someone, you tend to ignore the bad and focus on the goods thinking that person will come to their senses and realize what they did wrong. I spent almost 7 months men chi 3 years chasing after a guy...but ended up having my heart broken. Within these years, I kept brushing off guys who came along and told them I already have my heart set out to this one guy and am waiting for him... Some dissappeared while others remain on friendly terms. Now when I think back, I've wasted all these years on someone who doesn't give a damn about me... This will be one big lesson I will never forget... Sometimes you lie to yourself and even find excuses just to assure yourself that what you see and hear isn't true. Well, I've come a long way to realize how blind I was... Sometimes, people just needed that "slap in the face (metaphorically speaking)" to open their eyes and snap out of their fantasies lol! كل واحد بيتعلم من اغلاطه و ما في حدا ما بيغلط .... بس المهم ما نكرر الغلط |
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dont u think that saying it fast may lead that u regret it?!?! what makes u sure that u r really in love or this is the right person, personly i dont abuse this word i do respect it very much |
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Unfortunately,it happened to me...Chasing a guy,ending it with a broken heart...Took me till last tuesday to realize that many other guys are way better and that this guy doesn't deserve me...But realized this after breaking the heart of 3 other guys :O
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Anywayz, About The Subject, It Happened To Me Once, I Did Give up All Those People Trying To Pursue Me, While I Was Pursuing Someone Who I Deeply Falled In Love With... And The Reason Was Because She And Her "BoyFriend" Was Always Fighting And Stuff, And She Always Came To Me When She Was Upset, So I Always Had Hope :p :lool: But I Did Not Regret It :Tawa: I Learned A Lot From That Experience ): |
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cuz this reason always leads to a relationship , enno ur always nxt to her and she needs someone nxt to her, and ur helping her, so u fall in love with her and vice versa without nowing that , but at the end u tell her what u feel at 1st she will be surprised and tells you that u are just friends, but after thinking she will come back and tells you that she feels the same, this kind of relations is the most beatiful one |
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So guys :) any new replies in here ): ?
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The first part of the story happened with me :D
and the second part, ya3ne mish m2akkad minna bas maybe..... |
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Sooooooooooooooooooooo guys :D missed me eh :p ?? what do you think about this issue? |
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Well, most of the time you see me in the technical sections of this forum...
The thing is that I don't like to talk in forums about things like "Love", I feel like "be333... ma 2ele jlede let 7ake"! But this time, I liked to post in this thread... just for... don't know why... Anyways...:) "Sometimes you feel tired, feel weak, and when you feel weak, you feel like you wanna just give up. But you gotta search within you, you gotta find that inner strength and just pull that shit out of you and get that motivation to not give up and not be a quitter, no matter how bad you wanna just fall flat on your face and collapse." (EMINEM) Quote:
No one can change the other, we change ourselves! - "Chasing someone" != "Waste of time" - Satisfaction is the most important thing in life! Since I'm satisfied than no problem! - Why do you want to kill your feelings? Let your feelings kill itself! - Who can tell what is right and what is wrong? Sometimes the worst thing we think of is the best thing we can do! Even if things seems to be wrong, it might be right in some cases! - Say "I Love You" as much as you feel it! And do not hesitate to say it so you won't regret in the future... But if you don't then don't! - Do not destroy her/him, let her/him destroy you... Because you won't win unless you were destroyed! Destruction brings power! - No one can tell if you deserve him/her... Who said that you deserve somone better?!... Who said that you deserve someone worst?!... This is something relative to you, to what you see by your mind, to what satisfies you! ;) In all of this I'm not saying "khallou 2el bsayne tekelkon 3ashekon", I'm just saying "If you have a goal then fight for it, die for it, unless you become not satisfied with what you do!" I had a love story, and today I share Elvis his song by saying: [ I've loved, Ive laughed and cried I've had my fails, my share of losing And now as tears subside I find it all so amusing To think I did all that And may I say, not in a shy way Oh, no, no not me I did it my way ] Finally, I want to end by: "Love is free for all!". So do not restrict yourself and be yourself! |
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