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Sex and/or Love
What Do u Think ?!
Some Think if you love someone you prevent sleeping with them, the other thinks the opposite!! Sex or Love ? Sex and Love?! Waiting Your comments |
Actually a sexual relationship is one of many manifestations of love and in my opinion it is one of the most intense ways to show your love to other people.
But as i always say ,and I'm waiting for Mr. J rebuttal, one should take into consideration the society and the environment one lives in and the look of the other person towards this issue. In my opinion it is a matter of being ready to take this decisive step but I also think that sex in the first stages of love can be destructive to the relationship. |
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Nah I'm just messing with you. Back to the topic. Sex is one of the advanced stages in a love path, first the couple have to love each others for the simple non physical stuff, then the morals and all the rest, and late comes the Sexual relationship between then. So, you ask if "Sex or Love?" or "Sex and Love?", I simply say that at the beginning, it's either Sex or Love, but later on, it has to turn into Love and Sex. And keep in mind, if someone truly loves his/her partner, he/she would be willing to wait for sex until after marriage. So love doesn't stop if sex was not made before marriage. In addition, as I said sex is one of the advanced stages in a love path, usually when people advance with their love, their love is strengthened up by each stage, and sex could be one of the very critical factors to boosting their love. Oh and btw, sex could lead to breakups and heartbreaks :p partners might not like sex with each others, and sometimes it's late because they didn't make it before marriage lool just kidding :p |
sex with someone who you dont love is simply disgusting.
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I would like to add sth to what systa said or actually wrote, sex without love is some kind of prostitution in my opinion
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anw, I am personally against sex before marriage this should tell u how i feel about sex without love :p |
Sex is good
Love is great Sex and Love Awesome :W |
giggity giggity!
i say that sex shouldn't be the start of a relation, neither the end of it lool, but somewhere in the middle, so love and then giggity!! |
I don't believe in love as a permanent state. that is the main difference between us. sex adds more responsibility and commitement to the relationship, it makes breakups more awkward and messy...
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What's the big fuss about sex?
I don't mean to underestimate of its importance, but people tend to give it too much importance. A relationship that is based on sex is a sexual relationship, a relationship that doesn't include sex isn't a complete relationship whether married or not. It's also okay if the couple is fine with either outcomes, it's their lives and decisions after all; of course after knowing that sex isn't the privilege of life but a normal human need just like food, water, fun... |
what is love?
do you guys really believe that there is one person that you are destined to live with the rest of your life and that you will love him forever? I believe in the economic principle of scarcity, that applies to both people and objects, anything you desire, you lust after, you dream of. once it is at your disposal, it is a matter of time till you get tired of it that's why you notice people are in love when they are engaged, ad they fight frequently ater marriage, the desire is gone, love does not exist |
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Love does exist, if you havn't felt it yet, it doesn't mean it's not there. It's easy to fall in love, it's difficult to stay in love. ^^ This quote explains some ideas you need to know. It's easy to fall in love, cause you know, Love is a feeling, now you might come and interpret that feeling after the principle of scarcity, hormones, or however you like, but it does exist. So love starts as a simple feeling, if you don't work on it, sooner or later, it will disappear. Most of the people don't know that fact, this is why you hear stories about people in love while engaged, and they fight after marriage and all that stuff. In addition, not all people believe that love is when there is one person they are destined to live with for the rest of their lives. There are different point of views towards love. For me, and I think it should be the case for everyone, love is not destiny, love is a work of our own hands. We make it work, we make it Exist. We create Love, it's not a magical gift that lasts forever. We take care of our love so that it would last. Now, if you are not able to do all that :p it's your problem, just don't say love doesn't exist, cause people were able to make it work. PS: No I'm not mad at you :p |
wat do u need sex for? :P well i recon every single1 of u is ready 2 have sex with the 1st girl that offers it,only if im talkin 2 some saints.... same 2 me...in my view, sex is a must, 4 every1 2 know wats life abt.... i didnt love every1 i had sex with seriously...... bt the most important point is: IF U HAD SEX WITH A GIRL FOR THE 1ST TIME IN UR LIFE, ND SHE WAS GOOD ENOUGH, U'LL LOVE HER ND FEEL U WANNA STAY ARND... nd vice versa, BT experiencing sex, makes u more mature 2 choose the girl or guy who'se good enough,nd who u love.....
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You don't have to be a Saint to not sleep with a girl. For instance, you wouldn't sleep with a girl you hate? Would you? Even if she offers it. Or you wouldn't sleep with a stupid girl that doesn't know what she's doing? Would you? :p I know I wouldn't Quote:
I totally agree on this part, especially when it comes to choosing the partner. |
According to maslow , food , water , shelter and SEX are 4 basic needs for the humans to survive.
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again I repeat my supply and demand theory :p if a girl is too easy, she's cheap and thus undesirable same goes for men there is no thril in sleeping with someone you know anyone else can sleep with her too |
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I have a reputation to maintain :huh:
plus limitations may save your life considering the almost infinite number of diseases that can be transmitted sexually |
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I was going to add this part to my post, #14. But I thought that people my say I'm crazy, or I'm just saying cause it never happened to me :p Well it did, you wouldn't want to sleep with a stupid easy-to-get girl. |
usualy the chicks that tease me and don't return my calls/messages are the ones I can't resist :hawhaw:
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Sex is a physical act, love is an emotional act. What is common about them, is that they are both natural human needs. I totally refuse to link sex to marriage or to any other social/religious commitment (which means I'm totally with sexual relationships before marriage for BOTH sexes).
Now when those two are combined (sex and love), one can get the best outcome of a relationship. |
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Love in the theoretical meaning of the word does exist. It's like I meet someone, I have strong feelings for her, we have stuff in common, and bang! Now all i can do is think about her and I'm thinking to myself that "damn! I'm so in love with that girl". In fact the feeling of love here is nothing but a combination of needs, needs that I can fulfill with one person (Among others I mention the need for affection, protection, care, sex...) and with time when all those needs disappear, the concept of love will disappear to. In some cases (long happy marriages) those needs are constantly replaced by one new pattern: The Habit--> The two sides of the couple are now only used to be together, and are simply happy and satisfied! So, love in the practical common sense of the word does not exist! |
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