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FriendOfZeus 08-14-2007 02:11 AM

HeartBreack
 
Does anyone have a cure for a broken heart? Plz help if someone does....

sarah32 08-14-2007 08:16 AM

Re: HeartBreack
 
unfortunately there's no cure .. but once ur heart broken u should start using ur mind and fgt about ur heart. try 2 use ur logic .. try 2 avoid thinking about what happened and think about how u'll go on because trust me thinkin about the past w tendob 7azak is only gona hurt U and i mean it YOU and no 1 else coz ur ex Gf/Bf might be enjoying her/his time already ... and he might get over it real fast .. so u do the same .. go out , meet new people , LIFE GOES ON ... thats how it works for me

No One 08-14-2007 01:16 PM

Re: HeartBreack
 
dont think abt what happened, but try to find what happened and try 2 learn from it
maybe its hurting u but u shld think in this way:
1- maybe its better for u, cz he/she doesnt deserve u
2- thx God it happened now, cz maybe later on ull attached to him/her more and more
3- God put him/her in ur side and God also end it bcz its for ur benefit
4- think abt what u did for him/her, and wht he/her did for u?
5- we all come once to this world and we do all have only one chance, so try 2 keep ur life easier and enjoy it, and think that tmw always hides for u smthg new
6- it was a nice exp for u, and life in general its not more thn a lesson for al of us
7- U shld survive, go out, have fun, meet new persons, try 2 show others that i exist and i dont give a shit to what happened, let them c that U're the one... the most important is to survive, believe me, its all abt surviving
8- try 2 make some change in ur life
9- believe in urself, and believe that u can do anythg u want and u can get what u really want
10- at the end u shld always say: "Thx God, thats its only abt heartbreak" maybe its hard for u, bas its not the end of the world, lezim each one yo2ta3 bi hek exp, la ya3rif 7alo houwe min
Hope u get my pt
Merci

SysTaMatIcS 08-14-2007 01:28 PM

Re: HeartBreack
 
welcome to my life man :D :p , me 3 till now , a 4th is coming ;) , well u can do nothin 2 bad , u need to find coop resources , be buzy , do stuff , if u dont ull be depressed :( , hear metal music, id prefer TriviuM , and children of bodom , if u need links tell me , i assure u , they erase the pain!! sucks away ur pain! aint kiddin , u should try em
and kill heartbreak w inti b 5er :p , w kil heart break w ana b 5er 2 :D
life doesnt suk eh

Jess 08-14-2007 01:37 PM

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well ana i say eno the best cure is to think bout the negative things that person made for me.... w dont b sad cz its over just smile cz it happened :)

M|ch 08-14-2007 04:07 PM

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the best cure is suicide :D :p

FriendOfZeus 08-18-2007 12:29 AM

Re: HeartBreack
 
Damn i just found out that this person is thinking about another person just 3 days after weve broken up. To think that weve been together for 1,5 years, to think about all those love words....You know what guyz.....now its not her parting that bothering me, its my pride......i cant accept the fact that i begued someone to be with me because i adored him and that persons thinkin bout somebody else in 3 days.....my pride and dignity hurt too much.....:(

General 08-18-2007 12:41 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by friendofzeus (Post 92861)
Damn i just found out that this person is thinking about another person just 3 days after weve broken up. To think that weve been together for 1,5 years, to think about all those love words....You know what guyz.....now its not her parting that bothering me, its my pride......i cant accept the fact that i begued someone to be with me because i adored him and that persons thinkin bout somebody else in 3 days.....my pride and dignity hurt too much.....:(

this means you're better than her :)

nothing to add when you're better ;)

FriendOfZeus 08-18-2007 12:49 AM

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The thing is that its just hurt too much, when i think about all i did for her, i just shrink and....i dont know........i feel like i got stabbed by the suposedly closest person to me....i just dont know how i can trust anybody anymore.

Grim 08-18-2007 01:04 AM

Re: HeartBreack
 
She's seeking for another partner just after 3 days of the 1.5 year's relationship. This mean that she don't deserve a sh*t :) It's her mistake, not yours. I don't know how's your brain's orientation and feelings one; but what I know is that I'm avoiding relationships from about 1 year and refusing any chance to have a new one.. You should decide what to do and what's the best for you. Don't request anyone's guidance.

Take care pal.

sarah32 08-18-2007 01:38 AM

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u'll get over it soon ... it hurts .. but she gave u a reason to hate her n to move on ... so life goes on ;)

Justin 08-18-2007 11:02 AM

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if u've been together for 10 years or 1 week, its same... sometimes it takes u days to know the person's reality, sometimes it takes years... so it doesnt matter how long u've been brotha'... Just calm down, try not to think about it, Im sure u learned a deep lesson that u will make sure that it wont happen again... Just smile, keep ur head up & I think that u'll find someone who deserves u much better then her:)

Recover soon, very soon:)

Josee 08-18-2007 02:24 PM

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Friendofzeus,calm down,there's nothing worth it...Try to avoid thinking about what happened,and live your life,enjoy every moment of it,be happy...
She doesn't deserve you and you deserve someone much better,someone y2adir what you'll do to him :)

PS TO MYSELF:p: lek min 3am yehke w ya3te nasayih abt this subject:p

Sheriff Ice 08-18-2007 06:24 PM

Re: HeartBreack
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by friendofzeus
Damn i just found out that this person is thinking about another person just 3 days after weve broken up. To think that weve been together for 1,5 years, to think about all those love words....You know what guyz.....now its not her parting that bothering me, its my pride......i cant accept the fact that i begued someone to be with me because i adored him and that persons thinkin bout somebody else in 3 days.....my pride and dignity hurt too much.....:(

man just shoot her:p:D, heyk ull feel more comfortable:D, kiding man dont try it,

man i have one solution for you, a bottle of vodka and a trance CD,
turn on the music loud, and after the scond drink ull never remeber :D:D, the best cure ever

FriendOfZeus 08-20-2007 08:21 PM

Re: HeartBreack
 
Thank you all for the advice! I decided that if i should sit around at home all day, burning my head thinking about what happened i would go into a depression, because i was already taking xanax from lack of sleep, so i took a job, as a waiter, at a restaurant in a hotel. Maybe if i get tired i wont think about it, if i work as hard as i can it wont stick in my head 24/7. Thank you all for for all the advice.

n72 08-23-2007 11:30 PM

Re: HeartBreack
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by sarah32
but once ur heart broken u should start using ur mind and fgt about ur heart.

am still tryin to forget... tryin...

What i'm afraid of most is that she'd have forgotten so easily... it would really hurt

Jess 08-23-2007 11:46 PM

Re: HeartBreack
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by n72 (Post 94282)
am still tryin to forget... tryin...

What i'm afraid of most is that she'd have forgotten so easily... it would really hurt


Iza she forgot bout u ya3ne she is the right one :) cz ma tensa wlo eno life goes on w if bada tdal remembering the sweet nd lovely days that you both lived 2gezer ra7 tdal tet3azzab:) for sure eno this chi ra7 ydeya2k bas you have to tetkhatta hal amer :)

sarah32 08-23-2007 11:55 PM

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if u really mean to her she'd never fgt ... :) dont worry ...

Josee 08-24-2007 03:55 AM

Re: HeartBreack
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by sarah32 (Post 92192)
but once ur heart broken u should start using ur mind and fgt about ur heart.


What if mind and heart are completely related to him?

Justin 08-24-2007 11:40 AM

Re: HeartBreack
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Aurora (Post 94339)
What if mind and heart are completely related to him?

Let's say, u smoke (which u do :@ :p), & u wanna quit, u dont use ur heart neither ur mind... u just have the ability to leave it... & u'll leave it.. so same thing goes to forgetting.. If you insist on forgeting someone/somebody, you will eventually succeed:)

Josee 08-24-2007 11:44 AM

Re: HeartBreack
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Sheriff Justin (Post 94389)
Let's say, u smoke (which u do :@ :p), & u wanna quit, u dont use ur heart neither ur mind... u just have the ability to leave it... & u'll leave it.. so same thing goes to forgetting.. If you insist on forgeting someone/somebody, you will eventually succeed:)


You forgot to mention drinking :D:(
Well,I kno I have to leave it but it's just too hard for me..:(

J()e 08-24-2007 11:50 AM

Re: HeartBreack
 
thanks god till now i haven't had a heartbreakO_o
just remember enno ma fi "i cant" and bla bla bla ....u can adapt but it's up to u ...!
lezim ykoun 3indak 2iradé!

sarah32 08-24-2007 12:40 PM

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your mind isnt related to him ... ur only thinkin about him because your heart tells u 2 and because YOU dont want to get over him ... people fight cancers with their mind ... we only use un petit pourcentage men our brain so if we really want something and we really try so hard we can do it ... we can even fly if we really believe in it (just like the buddhist) so u cant say " i can't" because u can but u just dont want 2 ;)

Sheriff Ice 08-24-2007 08:24 PM

Re: HeartBreack
 
these words i said them today for someone and ill say them again for you:

u should not be so hopless
enno ba3dak b 2awal hayetak

"i was feeling the same
bass halla2 its ok
ma3 enno thgyaret mfehime lal deni men tene mel"

"i just beleive b "masla7a" i use my brain not my heart"

dont be depressed just get over it and go on
enno do the best for you
dont try to forget u have to change somthing big in ur life heyke u wont be thiking abt ur lover anymore
u have to find chou yalle byeze3jak w change him somthing basic
i dunno maybe a habbit/diet/stuff

FriendOfZeus 08-25-2007 01:11 PM

Re: HeartBreack
 
Its hard to forget when everything, everyone and everywhere seems to remind you of that person. Its seems that ur life has been split into 2 periods, the one before the reliationship and the one during, everything u remember makes u think if that happened during our before. Its hell


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