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Jess 11-25-2007 09:45 AM

Does love die?
 
When 2 people who used to be really in love and break up , not because they dont love each other anymore: family reasons etc
do any of you believe we carry that love with us long after we've parted ways? WHY?

Are there some connections we never really forget or get over?

Medusa 11-25-2007 09:52 AM

Re: Does love die?
 
Of course love stay in our heart if really we loved each other but there was some reason more strong than us ! :( and love is beyond evrything and i beleive that if it's real or true love it will last forever and maybe someday we will be together forever O_o
and of course it still some connections between us , we think of the other text him , mc him ask som1 how he's doni .. still our herat with him

Kain 11-25-2007 09:57 AM

Re: Does love die?
 
Well that love does stay with us. But as time goes by that feeling might dwindle. And all you're left with is part of what you felt. Certainly not enough to keep a relationship going:p
Once you break up for family, religious reasons or what not. I suggest you go look for someone else and forget about this relationship.

koukiazzzz 11-25-2007 11:12 AM

Re: Does love die?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by jess (Post 107395)
When 2 people who used to be really in love and break up , not because they dont love each other anymore: family reasons etc
do any of you believe we carry that love with us long after we've parted ways? WHY?

Are there some connections we never really forget or get over?

Yes, you really never forget.
You go on living your life and you can be happy but one day you wake up and you will have this person in your mind. A sense of saddness sweeps for minutes untill you go back to your real life.

Even if you are happy with another person and all that, as life do go on, you never forget, if your love was sincere and you broke up for outside reasons.

xcoder 11-25-2007 11:59 AM

Re: Does love die?
 
no it fades with time,
In fact time is a very effective, staying together or away love doesn't last forever just like everything else.
However the first period will be hard but it's only matter of time as i said before. the first feelings will be that life is nonsense but later u ll see it as a passing phase.

Sogelec 11-25-2007 12:24 PM

Re: Does love die?
 
I dnt feel it fades with time, we see many situations were for some reasons couples break up but they return after some period and in their inside they are full of passion and love and awaiting and dreaming of this moment, maybe it depends on the personality of the person, but for me, if any reason like family or whatever, ill never forget, and ill be waitn to be back and continue what the family prevented me of,

The Queen 11-25-2007 12:27 PM

Re: Does love die?
 
That love stays with us, but not forever... it stays in our hearts not minds, our mind tries the impossible to forget it, but our hearts (specially us women) r so weak and it's so hard to forget... but it will be forgotten, when, another love come and smash the first one...

Justin 11-25-2007 12:49 PM

Re: Does love die?
 
There's always a love story that would be unforgetable.. Basically long story short, no one can stand in front of a true love's face.. w eza family reasons? if ur family does love you they should support you, same thing as ur true friendz & others... so the reason why family problems cause a break up is as a reason of jealousy or the person that u r in love with is BAD... so u c, there's always 2 sides for a break up...

The more u are away/far from that lover the more u r attached to him... but the only solution to forget about him is to find someone better than him... The End...

koukiazzzz 11-25-2007 02:35 PM

Re: Does love die?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Sheriff Justin (Post 107462)
There's always a love story that would be unforgetable.. Basically long story short, no one can stand in front of a true love's face.. w eza family reasons? if ur family does love you they should support you, same thing as ur true friendz & others... so the reason why family problems cause a break up is as a reason of jealousy or the person that u r in love with is BAD... so u c, there's always 2 sides for a break up...

The more u are away/far from that lover the more u r attached to him... but the only solution to forget about him is to find someone better than him... The End...

What I always say IF a person is replacable to you then it was never love. It might be many things that we by mistake take for love. But it is not.

When you love a person, she is really irreplacable.

You may love again many times but with true love that person stays inside you as I said in my previous post . The face will suddenly pop out , the voice .. Not daily , maybe once in a year, but there is something that will stay.

I beleive to be so because the causes are from the outside so it was not your decision. Maybe this is reason. If it were your decision when you break up you suffer and khalass. But when break is imposed on you it is different.

Gilgamesh 11-25-2007 03:34 PM

Re: Does love die?
 
"Our heart doesn't forget","Love stays forever"....These statements are simply untrue...

Time and another relationship will do the trick...What people usually confuse as "unforgettable" is the what we can call "regret by comparison". Since no one is perfect, your second lover will have some weaknesses that were not in your first lover; you,uncontrollably, will compare between them. If that weakness is something you place big importance on, you will not be able to forget your first lover. Sheriff said " a better person"; we are talking about the same thing but the point is that everyone is better than others in a certain aspect. Your priorities will play a major role in the process...

Peace


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