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Jess 04-16-2008 09:13 PM

Killing the Flame?
 
I heard from a lot of ppl that saying "I love you" daily would kill the romance, cause you will get used to it, and it will lose its meaning, so you should say it rarely, but show your love in actions..

is this true?What do you think guys?


Share wit's us w ma tenso specify the reason plz :)

abousoun 04-16-2008 09:34 PM

Re: Killing the Flame?
 
Yeah i think actions proove love more than words ...
but it won't hurt if you say I love You daily and you mean it ...

for example:
(By Words) : I can say I love you for 100 girls daily ... okey t5ine 100 girls daily ma 7a tetsadda2 :p ... tayyib for 10 girls daily ... so what ?
(By Action) : but i can't buy them all flowers daily wa ella benkissir ... I'll buy only for the one i really love (P.S : I'm not a kind of guy that buy flowers just an example lool)

in conclusion : words are cheaper to the pocket ... actions are usually directed towards the one you really love .. words and actions a7ssan combination

Thank You ...

Jess 04-17-2008 06:00 PM

Re: Killing the Flame?
 
"Love" It's a strong word. People want to hear it.
Its definitely good to hear it! I love to hear it :$

If you can't see a person :luv: and you only have to text him or even mail him :( , you have a limited way of telling them you love them...

Putting limits on how often you can say "I love you" is silly, and looks a bit like game playing to me. We say it whenever it occurs to us ):

If you really mean it when you say it there is no chance of it getting old ;)

Sogelec 04-17-2008 07:03 PM

Re: Killing the Flame?
 
Hey Guys
Da Hardest Thing is Feeling that the Price and Value of Ur Love words is 0!!!
I Agree With Abousoun, its not a matter of words only, and it cannot be a matter of actions only!
The Love Words have no Useful Life, they are Forever, if this love is true, it wont die
how come we see old men n women in the age of 80's, still show love to each other
how come when an old man dies, his wife cries and misses him
isnt that love?
if Love Doesn't die, then its Words Wont Die Also
Hearing a Love Word is Like Breathing Oxygen, Day n Night with non Stop!


Sheriff Ice 04-17-2008 08:32 PM

Re: Killing the Flame?
 
well honestly in my whole life i said the word just 0 times, i prefer not to abuse it , its better to keep the "i love you" her majesty :)

abousoun ur right my friend, i agree with you but i think eventhough the word is important.
y?
cuz if words hurts so they can also heal :D and give joy

Ninoz 04-23-2008 07:45 PM

Re: Killing the Flame?
 
no love cannot be killed, if love is killed, then life has no sense, n love is the flame of life

The Cheese 04-24-2008 10:13 PM

Re: Killing the Flame?
 
Well,I hate it when people say that word to anyone :S
They aren't killing the flame because the flame is barely there,they're just abusing that word :Tawa:.
However,if the two really mean it,and they understand the impact it has on the other person :yayi:,then the flame never dies,and the love never dies,it just grows stronger and gets sweeter :)

Jess 10-29-2008 01:18 PM

Re: Killing the Flame?
 
What do u think guys :) ??

AnGe|ic 10-29-2008 02:48 PM

Re: Killing the Flame?
 
love cant be killed by sayin i love u esp when u really mean wat u r sayin and when u have some committment...

sayin i love u always even though u know that the person u r tellin it 2 or the person that is sayin it to u knows pretty well that u love him/her brings joy to the heart

that is , i know that u love me bt everytime u say i love u my heart beats like its the 1st time i hear it from u ever



Tawa 11-02-2008 11:39 AM

Re: Killing the Flame?
 
Well, Love Could Be Killed By An Overdose Of Itself :Tawa: Yes Yes, Believe Me.

Love Can Be Killed Mostly By 2 Factors:
- Long Distance For A Long Time, And Here I Mean, That Couples Stay Away For A Long Time, Then Meet For A Short Period Of Time, Even Though They Are Always In Contact, Love Could Easily Vanish In This Situation.
- Love Overdose :p And Here I Mean, When A Couple Meet So Often, Sometimes Everyday, They Will Reach A Point Where Love Is Something Usual For Them, Which Is Something Not Good, Cause Love Is Supposed To Be Always Something Special For Both Of Them, And Definitely Not Something Ordinary And Routine.

I Have Heard That Couples Are Advised To Take A Break Every While, And This Is Very Useful And Helpful By The Way, Cause A Married Couple Who Live Together And See Each Others Everyday, Will Reach The Point Of Routine Love. This Is Why Every Year Or Two They Should Take A Small Break.


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