Out of love...
 

When a person falls out of love but has children that are still young, what do you think is her/his best course of action?

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Being in love isn't enough to qualify a person to neither get married nor to have children. You need to be smart and reasonable to be qualified to have children, therefore falling out of love isn't reason enough to split up if you have children. It's a commitment when a person has kids and that person has to stick with that commitment, it wouldn't be fair to the child otherwise.

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It wasn't proposing that there should be a ban on stupid people getting married :D, It's just the people has to let go of the idea that there could be a "Lived Happy ever After" in real life. Those people who are in their 70's and are happily married aren't still living on that heated flame that was lit up when they were teenagers, that flame has been put out and lit up again multiple times, that's why they'll tell you that you have to learn how to be friends in order to have a marriage that long.

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Every kid has the right to have both of his parents together...

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Bas also they have the right to have both parents bi7ebo ba3doun w to live like a family ): mich keep on fighting everyday right?
So i guess the best solution in here is the divorce thingy isnt?

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As I said in the first post, marriage isn't for everybody, only a small percentage is qualified. Smart and reasonable, those are good qualities, anger management problems and promiscuity are bad ones for a marriage. People have to think a little bit before getting married, see if they would be fit parents for example. And they shouldn't start trying having kids immediately on their wedding night. Live together for a few years before trying. Think hard and long before making a choice this big.

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Got ur point :)
Bas what i meant eno sometimes a couple , a happy one, get married and after a time (short or long) one of the too or even both of them start/s to feel out of love ): so in this case i think eno sine one or both isnt/arent happy, so their responsibility is to remove their children from the toxic environment and place them in one that is more conducive for healthy emotional and physical growth :)

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In that case I agree with you, the divorce should be handled quietly with the child being put through minimal harm.