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Guilt
2 months ago , i was playin soccer in the uni with some friends and some people that i dont know .
now theres corner that i shot and the ball kept goin to hit some guys balls.. he fell to the ground for half an hour , then got carried to the bus and taken home . for a month he couldnt walk normally , some "water bags" grew on his balls , and a doctor removed em , now he cant carry anything , and he still walks somehow funny , and theres a still an unknown problem down there , and hes gonna see a doc on sat. i feel alot of guilt and responsible for what i have done , and am afraid of what will the doc say on sat. maybe theres a possibility that he lost his manhood.. maybe somethin else. whatever it is , it aint going to be good . question is , am i responsible or not?? and if not then why do i feel so much guilt and pain :S |
this is like second degree murder
technicaly yes you are guilty after all if you hadn't been there, that kid would have had beautiful kids in the future I still don't get where exactly that dude was standing and how far from you? |
Well, shit happens man, and guilt is normal in your case.
Well it sure ain't funny and the guy may be seriously harmed, but since you can't change it and it happened unintentionally, just try to show the maximum of readiness to help and hope that his manhood will be preserved. Good luck Systa.. |
well lets hope for the best
it might all be curable after all |
ouccchhh that must of hurt
well ur nt really guilty coz it wasn't intentional therefore u dnt really have to blame yourself bass that guiltiness is gonna stick with u coz u dnt know if he s gonna get well anyway hope he turns out fine w gd luck with that feeling of urs |
what makes it worse , thats hes so good and forgiving! and im friends with him now , and he even jokes with me , that if he cant have any children , then im responsible of giving children to his wife lool .
his attitude makes it worse :( |
yeah smtg like this happened to me once:p but i wasn't in a bad situation like urs:p.....and u'll always feel guilty and i think it's normal until u'll find that there nothing wrong with him......anw try helping him, be by his side, and everything will workout just fine.....
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It's normal for you to feel guilty, but it's not technically your fault, or at least you didn't intend to do it.
Hope this feeling disappear when he gets better :D |
ya dili 3leik what ure going through im sure is worse than him. nothing is worse than the feeling of guilt/ helplessness.
it was not ur fault. u didnt do it intentionally. from my point its just what god wanted to happen at that time. he was standing there too. instead of saying just why did i kick it that hard. ask why the heck was he standing there. nchallah kheir and that there isnt any permanent problems. and im sure god knows ure true intentions and feelings tikil 3a allah ya ibne -miss o. |
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You Poor Thing, Don't Feel Guilty Man, It's Not Your Fault, It Could've Happened To Anyone. And You Didn't Intend To Do It. |
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