Reasons Why A Man Gets Married
 

i saw in this forum a topic about 'divorce'... it's good to know if this is a problem or a solution, but why are men/women getting out of marriage? Many times, the reasons men/women get married are unfounded.

so please ask yourself this question, What exactly does marriage mean to me in today’s world, why do I want to marry (if you want)?..
is it because:
. I love this girl?
. I won’t die alone?
. I won’t grow old alone?
. I’ll get regular sex?
. I’ll have someone to cook and clean for me?
. To have kids?
. Or simply because I have to be married??
and than post your answer in this thread, be sara7a akid..

gher enna 7amir, a guy seeks love, passion, a beautiful woman, one he can relate to in so many ways, bas this woman might be fictional if not DEFINITELY fiction, it's rare to find a girl who's looks 3a zaw2ak w rasa 3a rasak w everything else 3a rasak, so we don't get married w ba3den as we grow older the pressure starts packing up from family and friends, enno yih mech metjawwaz ba3ed walaw ? kel ma ychoufak wa7ad w kel ma ychoufo couple w a baby bi balcho y3al2o 3lek 3a zet el mawdou3 (girls and guys both 3leyon hayda el pressure not talking about guys alone) that pressure makes a person rush into a decision neglecting one of the major points in his tree of evaluation if u wanna call it that, thus divorce takes place and the same ppl who rushed u into getting married "WONDER" why it didn't work and they'll look at u like ur some kind of a loser for not making ur marriage work, anw dnt rush in to things specially important decisions like getting married cz that's the rest of ur life we're talking about mech msa7ab 3a honik sene sentein w kholset, else u'll end up getting a divorce or just live a miserable life :p

Well said "Confucius"...

I'll get married because "NO MAN IS AN ISLAND" ... neither a woman
I won't spend my rest of my life alone... so someday (maybe not in the near future) I'll find the girl that I'd like to marry her, but I'll take my time with this no matter what people say... everyone of us needs a soulmate !

I have been trying to answer that question myself lool
not many people find someone "rasa 3a raso" and even if... with marriage comes bigger responsibilities, higher risks ...
plus some people have kids, they spent their lives and energy raising them, and their kids kicked them out of the house, threw them in an old folks home etc... so they ended up with the same fate anyway

and lets assume your wife dies 10 years before you do, are your married kids going to bring you to their home?

no

so it's the same thing anyway, the end of your days you will be alone

Dont give them a nickle before u die :W they will keep kissing ur A$$ with their wifes till the last day of ur life :W

There is no such thing called "rasse 3ala rassa". if both couples share the same views, same opinion, same way of thinking, same habits.... doesn't make that a boring relationship?? Moreover, two couples with different kind of mind, style, opposite views and etc can tear the relationship apart. so in order to live a successful relationship, both sides should have two ways of thinking but ONE TARGET. for e.g: religion, different religion but eventually SAME GOD. (this is just an e.g. that explains the fact that you can all love or think different ways but in the end, it has ONE & SAME conclusion, so keep religion out of this).

I believe that a man gets married for many reasons, and one of them is LOVE. this is the main reason, and if that reason was not present then this relationship is screwed.
When you love someone, and be loved by the same person EQUALLY. can give you that kinda feeling "i love life, i wanna enjoy every single moment of it with the one that i love, i wanna listen to that song with her, i wanna watch that movie with her on my side, i wanna go out to my secret place and introduce it to her, i wanna hold her hand when im walking along with her, i wanna drink from the same cup of life with her and etc..." So you see, life is not about you nor about someone else, its about BOTH. for e.g: when you listen to a song that u love so much & that no one heard of it, don't you really wanna share it with the world? don't you want everyone to hear it its lyrics and feel its meaning? ... well, love is somehow similar, but its not about a song. its about sharing ALL YOUR LIFE WITH THAT SOMEONE ELSE. and what is more beautiful than doing so by getting married, living in the same house, having children and raise them to come better than you. You want them to have what you did not have at their age, you want them to try good things that you wanted to try and couldn't. Furthermore, when you grow old and see them successful, don't you really want them to be with you and say THANK YOU for the things that you have done to them. We all appreciate the fact of being loved and thanked. But some people don’t want that, they dislike commitment because they are afraid of it, they are afraid of losing, of ending up alone, or being betrayed or being stolen and etc… But if there is one thing that I have learned from life is the following:

- Appreciate what you have
- What goes around comes around
- 7assab nawayakom, tourzakoun

And believe me, that this is true. Life is unfair in so many ways, but its up to you to adjust the sails. Do it your way. Love, Live and Be happy. You can make yourself happy, u can live alone, but u can never live without LOVE.