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My 1st question...
Do we love our families 4 who they r? Or what they do 4 us? Or cuz they r just there when we need 'em?
That sounds kinda hard 2 explain, so I will give an e.g.
Imagine ur mum is actually ur friends mum n ur friends mum is actually ur mum (switching personality:p...). Would u love ur new mum cuz she's a nice person n society teaches us 2 love our mums? Or cuz she's the helpful one or she's the one who brought u 2 life?
Or would u love ur friend's mum cuz she has a nice personality? Would u tell her u love her :p?

My 2nd question...
How long do u think it takes 2 get 2 know some1 properly? Do u believe in love @ first sight?
"I love u! I love u! I love u! Dun leave me!!!!! It was love @ first sight!! u're so beautiful! n that crap...."
Can u love some1 then hate 'em? Get 2 know 'em better? Is it all first impressions?

So what's love in our society? What's ur thoughts about this:)? what does the Word "I LOVE U" mean 2 u?

1st answer :
My love for my family is devided in 3 parts :
50% cz they're just there when I need them , 25 % for who they r & 25% for what they do 4 me.
If I switched my mum with someone else's mum , my feelings will never change & I'll always love my real mum , she's the one that brought me to life:p & I'm so proud to be her daughter. (of course I'm going to appreciate my friend's mum & thank her:p cz she accepted to replace my mum:p ) & even if my friends mum have a better personnality then my mum (I doubt:p ) this isn't going to change anything.

2nd answer:
It's hard to say how long it takes to know someone properly , cz it depends on every person (there's people u can know them from the first time u talk to them or even see them {li bi2alboun 3aras lsenoun} & there's people u need months sometimes to know them )All depends on everyone 's character & personality.
I beleive in love at first sight & I don't beleive at the same time ... What we call love at first sight , actually is an admiration & not a real love ,but sometimes this admiration becomes a love (this is when we call it love at first sight)
U can't love someone & then hate him but sometimes u think that u love someone (when actually u don't) & then u hate him (All of these are first impressions that never shows the reality of a person.
In our society , love means to meet someone that the parents & all of the family apreciate & accept & then make the girl/boy get married with.
Actually , love is a very big word , that can't be defined , but for me to love someone is to accept & respect him like he is (accept the way he talks , acts , screams, wears....without putting any rules) & to trust him ...

1- i love my parents la eno 3alamoune 7eboun, wa2ta terba 3a fekra m3ayane nzara3it fik betsir tnamiya ma3 l wa2et, akid l mou3emale btel3ab dor, eno if they treat me in a nice way w keno mne7 ma3e, 7a yetghayaro mache3re men fekra rbit 3laya la we2i3 w 7a2i2a 3am b3isha, w eza ma keno mne7 ma3ak hal fekra 3a tetghayar w tsir tekrahoun
i love my parents la eno they learn how to respect, love, appreciate them and i love them bcz they r adorable wiz me

2- a friend of mine once told me if som1 hurt me even if i tried to hate him bkoun btari2a gher moubachara 3am barhin eno bye3nile... so i learned to ignore others n never hate them
premiere impression, eno akid chi mhem hiye metel 1st page in the chapter tell u the objectives of this course, so 1st impression is important bas mana kel chi

its likely 2 be a project:)
1) my love 4 my parents is bcz dunno theyr the ppl whom got me here (wether i thnk em or not) but theyr the 1z whom gave me the chance 2 be here nd explore everythng wth ther presence besides me,...w i dunn just luv them bcz im supposed 2 ..but bcz theyr the ppl whom has pure love 4 me ..nd werever i go nd how far i go..i can still find them ther 4 me wen i need ..nd id rather lose anythng in the world but not my parents...coz theyr always by me nd am so weak wthout they bakin me up always...
2) justin 4 knowin sm1 really ?it cant be told or even asked..ya3ne sometimes u live wth ppl ur whole life wthout knowin them properly or on ther real personalities...bcz ''those r ppl''...w abt love at 1st si8?! nahhhh nd definitely no bcz thats liking not love,,, for u dun just luv the eyes nd lips nd so on ....those r motives 4 ur luv which is based on ur partners thoughts nd so on...
and as for me ? yes i can love some 1 so bad nd hate him so bad ....w that wud b bcz of them not of me...for theyd b givin me a really gud excuse 2 hate them after crazy love:)
nd justin u know wut its all abt wut i thnk abt this:)!!

Answer To The First Question:
I love my parents for the three reasons above...I Love them for who they are,because they are here when I need them and for what they do for me...But the main reason for loving them is that they are here when I need them...They are always there for me...
Imagine my mum is actually my friend's mum? I can't even imagine switching personnalities...T3awadet 3a my mother...And no one will love me as my mother does,not even her friend...Maybe i'll just apreciate my mum's friend but I can't love her the same way I love my real mum...
Answer To The Second Question:
It needs a lot of time to know someone properly...Few months maybe...Or more...And no,I don't believe in love at the first sight,maybe I just like someone but I need to know him better and be more close to him to love him...
And yes,in my philosophy, love can turn to hate, or let's say I try to hate him...But I can't really hate someone who means a lot to me...
Love is a very big word that cannot be defined...
And the word 'I love you' has a huge meaning for me...And I don't say it to anyone...And I say it when I really mean it...

1) i do love my parents for what ever they are even if i dont like them, i do love them on what they are or what thery are going to be.

2)LOVE @ 1st sight,huh, well i used to believe but now noo its an argument and a reason to satisfie our self with the other, love is like a mask we put it on the others face so we are unable to see her or his badand ugly sides.
for me love if it really exist is to dare to spend ur life with another person to keep discovering what he or she is for the rest of your life,
love isnt just sweet words and romantic dinners, its a road full of problems and obsticules.