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Infertility vs. Adoption

... So after a couple of years of marriage and trying to have children ... and after several tests for both of you, you discover that your partner can't have babies ... and both of you dreamt to be parents someday and just can't wait to be ...

- Do you leave your Husband/Wife and marry someone else to fulfill your dream of becoming a parent?
- Or you adopt a Baby/Child and raise him as if he's yours?

in case you choose to adopt a baby or child:
- Are you willing to admit when he/she is grown up that he/she was adopted and you are not the real parent?

... tab you met this guy/girl and fell in love with ... then he/she admitted that he/she can't have babies due to certain problem that happened before ...
- Are you willing to marry this person even though you know he/she is infertile?

Share what you think :)

Thank You ...

Re: Infertility vs. Adoption

- Do you leave your Husband/Wife and marry someone else to fulfill your dream of becoming a parent?
- Or you adopt a Baby/Child and raise him as if he's yours?

I Would Probably Adopt A Baby Or A Child And Raise Him As If He's Ours.
- Are you willing to admit when he/she is grown up that he/she was adopted and you are not the real parent?

Hmmm... Sure, I Think That Every Adopted Child Should Know About It.

- Are you willing to marry this person even though you know he/she is infertile?

Sure That If She's Infertile It'll Be A Hard Fact To Accept It, And Having Children With The Ones That We Love Is One Of The Best Beautiful Feeling A Person Can Feel. But I Don't Think That I Would Break Up, Or Not Continue My Relation With The Woman That I Love If She Can't Be Pregnant, Sure We Wont Be Able To Feel The Beautiful Pregnancy Experience That A Couple Loves To Feel, But We Can Simply Adopt A Child And Raise Him Like He's Our Real Son, And We Can Experience The Feelings Of Raising A Son Or A Daughter...
So I Think That I'll Marry That Girl Even If She's Infertile...

Re: Infertility vs. Adoption

well i prefer adoption over leaving her....
but as my relegion says the baby must be named after his real father name....
as for the 2nd question,if we were deeply inlove i wont let her go , cuz i may never find another her ever.....

Re: Infertility vs. Adoption

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Originally Posted by systamatics

but as my relegion says the baby must be named after his real father name....
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u might never know his name..so ma hadan ye2leble el ossa religious:p

- Do you leave your Husband/Wife and marry someone else to fulfill your dream of becoming a parent?
I will be downed but i wont leave the person that I love

- Or you adopt a Baby/Child and raise him as if he's yours?
adoption is the only SENCE OF REASON to have a child if u couldn't have kids

- Are you willing to admit when he/she is grown up that he/she was adopted and you are not the real parent?
At the age of 13, i'm willing to do it, cuz it's HIS/HER RIGHT to know...after all... every1 can have babies... even cows can have babies... but who was here to educate u? to take u to hospital when u were sick n a lil kid? who did give u a home around u n protected u n loved u, whom is that person that u remember from since ur childhood... that's a parent:) ... so I do not have any regretting telling my son/daughter that she was adopted..after all...the ones who loves her/him are always their fo' her/him

- Are you willing to marry this person even though you know he/she is infertile?
yeah, y not... isnt she human..dont I love her...;)