Betrayal
 

Which is more difficult ?
- To be betrayed by your lover ? or your friend ?
- and why?

Share us what you think :)

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well abosoun betrayel is betrayel it doesn't really matter if it is from a friend or lover cz it is a lie. in the two cases this will be a very hard thing but it depends how u define ur realtionship with each person

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exactly that's why i compared between a lover and a friend's betrayal ... and let's say not just a friend but a "best friend", and not just a lover but a "future partner" ... from whom it will hurt more ?

looool while writing this i got a new idea : what will be your reaction if you find out that your lover (future partner) is cheating on you with your best friend ? :lool:

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Which is more difficult ? - To be betrayed by your lover ? or your friend ? - and why?

i think that betrayal is the worst thing that could happen to a person,and in my case, i dont care if it was from my beloved or from my friend,i think it's the same,and i'll be shocked cz the idea of being betrayed from the 2 persons that i trust the most in this world wont "enter my head"

my reaction would be :o:o:o,enno what is happening for god sakes:),and i dont i'll be able to forgive these 2 persons in my life,eventhough i think time can heal evrythingO_o

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yes like they say betrayed is betrayed whomever is the person and if he's more close to you it will hurts u a loootttt

what will be your reaction if you find out that your lover (future partner) is cheating on you with your best friend ?

anno i'll die akiiiiid , awal chi l cha5es li b7ebbo 5sorto w l cha5es li mettekle 3leih w bousa2 fi la ywessine w you2af 7adde bel aw2at l so3be kamen 5sorto w chi ktir bye2har w bi wajje3 :( :(

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Originally Posted by abousoun Which is more difficult ?

ACtually its hard I think to be betrayed by a friend especialy an old friend because its the trust that has grown btw both of u that is hard to build with someone else.As for a lover well you took them for love so u used ur heart not ur head so no matter what you can't see the faults even sometimes when they betray us........thats what I think

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Betrayal is betrayal no matter by who you were betrayed...And to be betrayed by your lover is as much as difficult as being betrayed by a friend because you was hurt by someone you really trusted...

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Well as most replied here both betrayal are difficult and hard to deal with ... but for me they are not equal ... i think getting betrayed by your lover is more difficult than your friend ...

Here i'm talking about your soul mate, your true love, your future partner, the one you've planned to spend your life with ... once all these features are present in one person you'll be already found yourself a best friend ... that's why when he/she betrays you, you'll feel like you've been betrayed twice

But If you have a friend and betrayed you, it will be very difficult too but less in case you have a lover by your side coz he/she can make it up for you ...
(in my opinion a lover can be both, but a friend can't take the place of your lover)

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A real friend cannot betray you... and in case he did then he's not a real friend.. so there's no need to get hurt ...
When it comes to lovers .. as i said b4 .. the one i'll love will be my friend , my best friend and my lover ... so if wosil to the point eno i considered him a best friend then kamen he'll never betray me ...
Friends can betray ... but Real friends will never do it ... and ils sont tro rare anyways ...