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View Poll Results: Are you with or against having sex before marriage?
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Old 09-17-2007   #61
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i'm totally against it, because usually boys fool young or stupid girls in order to make sex with them,
lol , you can find the opposite story frequently in our society .

girls have needs too same as boys, and maybe more than them.

if it's just that our society gives the males more freedom and

flexibility to deal with such issue , that doesn't mean that

girls don't have sexual organs & hormones


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Old 09-17-2007   #62
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heheh ok guys i'm now under attack by the majority of you .

what i meant in my previous post is that making sex before marriage just for the sake of fun without having any feelings toward the other person is very wrong and we mustn't accept it in our Lebanese community (in my oppinion), because we are Human beings and not animals ! and the only difference between Humans and Animals is something called Brain and the capability of controling our hormones.
In addition of that and in addition of my previous question to guys in here about their sisters, i will add :How many of you will accept to marry a girl who's not virgin ?

I'm not saying that i'm against sex before marriage, i didn't even vote in the poll beause i have two points of view. If a couple was about to marry or have strong and real feelings toward each others it's not a big deal if they had sex (or love or whatever), but i'm just against the social corruption brought by western communities to our country.

It's true that the Western countries are more developped, but it's just in some domains (Technologies etc..) but concerning the family ties and ethical standards no one can deny that these communities are the worst..
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Old 09-17-2007   #63
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heheh ok guys i'm now under attack by the majority of you .

what i meant in my previous post is that making sex before marriage just for the sake of fun without having any feelings toward the other person is very wrong and we mustn't accept it in our Lebanese community (in my oppinion), because we are Human beings and not animals ! and the only difference between Humans and Animals is something called Brain and the capability of controling our hormones.
In addition of that and in addition of my previous question to guys in here about their sisters, i will add :How many of you will accept to marry a girl who's not virgin ?

I'm not saying that i'm against sex before marriage, i didn't even vote in the poll beause i have two points of view. If a couple was about to marry or have strong and real feelings toward each others it's not a big deal if they had sex (or love or whatever), but i'm just against the social corruption brought by western communities to our country.
It's true that the Western countries are more developped, but it's just in some domains (Technologies etc..) but concerning the family ties and ethical standards no one can deny that these communities are the worst..
I don't have a sister to answer you about your question but i can assure you that i don't mind to marry a non virgin girl.
However i just can't understand why you try to show "sex" as a holy thing it's just sex you can call it love making you can call it for fun or anything else but after all it's sex with many masks.
Having sex before marriage is not brought from the west it's just when you don't apply your religious rules you'll find out that sex before marriage is not forbidden and is an individual choice to make.
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because usually boys fool young or stupid girls in order to make sex with them
Being stupid is not other's fault lol especially that you're a law student you should know that "law doesn't protect fools" same thing applies to social acts.
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Old 09-18-2007   #64
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Sex comes with a lot of complications that even an adult would find hard 2 handle, not 2 mention sexually transmitted diseases... Love waits... Sex before marriage is religiously wrong, read what the bible says... but I'm WITH sex before marriage... it doesn't have to be about love only..

lemme give u a simple and normal e.g: if u went into some kind of a dirty dancing party and u find someone that made u look like this: " OMG!! " and u start ur imagination n u couldnt even handle urself anymore ... so u'll go for it isn't that right? not cuz God said if its right or wrong.. its ur instinct who told u to do so...

by the way, don't blame the guyz its not us who dress half naked in the middle of the street lol...
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as for me I'm against akid, for two reasons as a girl bkoun me7terma 7ale and my family, and second bkoun 3am be7terim the right person for me! ya3ne don't u think it's weird to sleep ma3 100 chakhes 2abel ma 2etjawaz!!! w as what people say kelchi bwa2to 7elo
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In the lebanese community sex before marriage is forbidden.
you, the new generation. what do you think about this?
this question is addressed to guys & girls.
vote with or against and plz justify

Note that out subject posts will be deleted.
Again the same question, this eternal debate , the eastern thiking and the social enviroment

guyz even if u alrady gave your answer repost again and try to elabroate ur idea more

and dont shift from the topic
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and the conversation continued:

the right person.... the right person.... the right person.... the right blah !...
the blah blah !... blah blah blah!

WELL HAVE YOU EVER ASKED YOURSELVES: WHAT IF I NEVER FOUND THE RIGHT PERSON !? :huh THEN WHAT !? :huh .... humm... then what !?... what will you do then !? WHAT WILL YOU DO !?

so if we want to look at the social point of view... we must take away religion... thus comes in science:
it says that we ar animals and it is ok for us to have sex... so from the scientific point of view i agree...

now we look at the religious part of view:
sex goes more deeper that "LA TAZNI"
in christianity we have the TRINITY:
for us GOD is one... he has one NATURE but he is 3 persons who are equal to each other...
the church teaches that sex is a reflection of the relation of the 3 persons between each other for we have the FATHER who speaks the ONE word which is his SON... for the SON is equal in every way to the FATHER exept that he is not the FATHER FOR THEY ARE ETERNALY DISTINT... and the HOLLY SPIRIT proceeds from the father throught the son... thus they have one natur... the y are equal... they are ONE... yet they are 3 distinct persons

NOW TAKE WHAT I JUST SAID AND APPLY IT TO THE FAMILY:
THE MAN IS THE FATHER, THE WOMAN BECOMES THE HOLLY SPIRIT AND FROM HER PROCEEDS A CHILD...

sex is a reflection of the relation of the 3 persons between each other so premarital sex is a disfiguration of this relationship

THE BOTTUM LINE IS: YOU HAVE PREMARITAL SEX... YOU BURN IN HELL
so from a religious point of view i must disagree

however man (mankind) is a social being by nature...

so i agree and i disagree... thus i can't vote
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I choose not to, not of religious reasons. Strangely am not too eager to do it just yet.
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Old 05-06-2008   #69
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Default Re: Sex before marriage

Religiously: Don't have a problem.
Morally: Go for it.
Socially: Due to our multiconfessional country, it's up to each community to choose what's right and what's wrong, without involving the law.

I have nothing against sex before marriage, if you want to do it do it, but don't go around half f*cking in the street.
Also, I don't want topless beaches and nudist resorts in Lebanon.

My philosophy is: If you are going to have sex, do it in PRIVATE!
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أنا ضدد لسبب كتير بسيط إنو أنا كشخص لي بحائلي أعملو بحئ لا مرتي تعملو لهيدا السبب ضدد
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