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Old 01-14-2008   #5
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Default Re: Pre-"After-Marriage" Rules

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Originally Posted by FriendOfZeus View Post
She should accept the way i am, i have a few quirks that might make life with me not so pleasing, but i am against changing my personnality for someone. Either they accept my good and bad sides and try to adapt or leave.
This Is A Very Good Point Man...

Well, I Think That People Passively Start To Figure Out The Rules That Their Partners Make When They Start Dating And Seeing Each Other...
And This Point That FriendOfZeus Talked About If A Very Good Example... And I Am 100000% With It.
For Example, If A Girl Meets A Guy And He's So Handsom That She Really Likes Him, But The Proplem Is That She Doesn't Like His Tast In Some Stuff.. She Tries To Change Him Into The Perfect Guy In Her Eyes...
I Am Really Against It, And I Find Guyz Who Change Themselves Just Because Of A Girl, Very Stupid I'm Sorry Poeple But That's What I Think About You

Anywayz, My List Is:
1- Accept Me As I Am - Althought I Think That This Is Not For The After-Marriage It Should Be Accepted Before.
2- Take Full Responsibility Of Teaching Religion Stuff To The Children, And Accept That Fact That I Don't Want To Baptise My Children Before They Reach An Age Where They Can Choose Their Religions Very Freely...
3- She Should Treat Her Parents As If They Were Hers...


Those Are The Main Three Points That I Have, And I Don't Force Her To Do Anything She Doesn't Want Everybody's Free To Accept These Terms And Everyone's Free To Go
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