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**Jess** · 01-19-2008

It's important not to forget our need to be coupled either .... I mean, someone could be the exact wrong person for us, but we will never see it because the joy of being part of a couple is something we can't give up

And I agree with the other post that said it is possible that you just don't click with the people .... If you spent all your time using the logical part of your brain picking out people to date, there would never be any excitement in this relation

We have the ability to love an infinite number of people, in part because love is often a conscious choice, in part because of those infinite variations, and in part because even over time our OWN criteria change based upon our maturity and experience

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Jess Community Moderator Last Online: 06-23-2013 Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 14,267 Thanks: 7,236 Thanked 8,442 Times in 4,889 Posts Groans: 31 Groaned at 29 Times in 23 Posts	Re: Why do we love one person and not another? It's important not to forget our need to be coupled either .... I mean, someone could be the exact wrong person for us, but we will never see it because the joy of being part of a couple is something we can't give up And I agree with the other post that said it is possible that you just don't click with the people .... If you spent all your time using the logical part of your brain picking out people to date, there would never be any excitement in this relation We have the ability to love an infinite number of people, in part because love is often a conscious choice, in part because of those infinite variations, and in part because even over time our OWN criteria change based upon our maturity and experience __________________ If my smoking bothers you. Don't breathe.