[Miss O.]

Originally Posted by Tawa

No, This Thread Isn't About That Old Lame Comedy Serie.

I Was Wondering, And I Thought About Talking About This Subject With All Of You In Here.

١st, Do You Think That There Shouldn't Be Marriage Without Love?

1st - In my opinion if only those who really loved each other got married. but we all know its not the case for many reasons whether its financial reasons, religion, parental issues, or simply prestige.

Originally Posted by Tawa

٢nd, Do You Think That A Person Must Forget The Person That He Loves And Marry The Ones With Promising Future?
For Example, A Girl Is In Love With A Poor Guy, But There's A Rich Guy That Can Offer Her More In Life Than The Other Guy, Which One Should She Choose?

i think it depends on the life style the girl is willing to have. Some girls will say they dont care about what his financial status is and mean it. others will say they dont care but then when she sees something she wants and cant afford it and it starts to happen more and more it becomes a problem. each guy and girl know the living standards they expect so if she expects much more than he can afford they are sure gonna be in for one hell of a ride. Marriage is about compromise and love. So if they really love each other they will compromise.

Personally i make sure i am ok with what this dude is doing for a living...etc. before i jump in head over heals (thats where ur mind plays a big role instead of ur heart)

Originally Posted by Tawa

٣rd, Can Love Be Born After Marriage? Or If A Person Isn't In Love With Someone, It's Impossible To Fall For Him Even After Marrying Him?

I don't think a non existing love is born after marriage. Yes, you become used to the person and used to the idea that you are living with him/her and they are not your partners in life but do u love them unconditionally i dont think so i think its more of an agreement and you may become best friends but not lovers? (i dont know this is weird i know people who it has happened to and right now he's cheating on her. so the experience i have seen isnt the best)

Originally Posted by Tawa

Finally, Does Marriage Without Love Work?

depends on each persons definetion of work.

My mom has a friend who is married has three kids but her and her husband are like stangers with each other. she does what she needs to do at home for him goes to work carrys on her own life and so does he since he has a gf outside the house. Now everything seems picture perfect in public (so u could say its working) and she doesnt want to leave him so the family doesnt fall apart but is she happy? hell no. Theres surely no love there but is it working in some peoples point of view it is.

i dont think it works the PROPER way with out love.


-Miss O.