actualy I disagree, I think love is selfish
the only person we ever love is ourselves, what we feel towards others is simply out of interest. I will elaborate
I love my friend because he(she) is funny, generous, and simply fun to be around. if that friend of mine becomes boring backstabbing and selfish, I would stop feeling the love that I feel for him/her now
when you're in love with someone, you want to be with them. if they choose someone else, even though they might be happy with that someone, you will still be hurt, if that person betrays you, you might even start to hate him, why? because it is about you, love is always about self interest
I hate my chemistry teacher. she gives bad grades, she might be a great cook, a funny person... but that doesn't interest me, what matters is what I get out of this, which is nothing hence the hate
there is no such thing as selfless acts, even when you give a dollar to the poor you're expecting something out of it, whether you realise it or not
we can make a seperate thread about this and I have my arguments
