heh good question in the last bit

hmmmm..well yeah i've seen some guys mostly (never girls, or maybe girls just hide it while guys brag about it i guess) that are in a relationship with married elder women, but the thing is..none of them is what i call relationship material, enno they're more in it for the sex, but some are also in it for the money, w few are actually in love or falling..
anyways i can't trust some1 who've had a relationship with a married person no matter what the reason was, if it was all done under her/his own will knowing that the other person is married, then i know that she/he doesn't respect relationships and what they stand for (respect others in order to get respect urself, this person didn't respect some others relationship, ba2a i dnt think she/he SHOULD get respect with their own relationship).
for me bfaddel the cute kind of girls that are somewhat mhazzbin, they never go in a relationship with some1 3endo a girlfriend 7atta, ta yejo yedharo ma3 wa7ad mjawwaz ?
so ofc not is my answer