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I Had A Relationship Last Year, Where I Felt That The Girl Was More Important Than Me, And It Was My Fault, Cause I Made Her More Important, And I Gave Her Everything She Wanted, And Did Everything She Asked, And I Hardly Got What I Wanted In Return, I Wasn't Treated The Way I Deserved, I Learned A Lot From That Relationship
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you posted this in 2007, and in 2007 it started happening to me, why didn't I read this then ? :P
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I Think That Dignity Is More Important Than Love, And I Don't Know How People Can Find Love With A Person That Doesn't Respect Them Or Doesn't Treat Them The Same Way That They Treat Him...
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well for me, it did not start out like that, it starts pretty equal and great and mutual and whatever you wanna call it, and you don't keep counting who is getting more and who is getting less
until a mysterious day comes along, and something I could not explain happens, the other person starts caring less and less, now a wise person(a person I was not back then) would walk away right there and then, but no I couldn't, I loved things as they were and I wanted to keep it that way, so you start pushing harder, you start giving more and more without getting an exact equivalence
and as I learned, humans get attached more when they give, when you sacrifice for someone you actually start liking that someone more, and that is how you find yourself stuck inside a loop, that by the end of it, you are left with nothing