ok let me add a question, what do you suggest when it comes to laws and regulations and treatment in society?
by the way, I happen to know some women that I really respect and admire, the type that did race me to the check

drove me home, offered to drive me home many other times

and they kill their own spiders, and I really think these women deserve equality in everything, so they can't beat me in arm wrestling, big deal. a short guy also cannot beat me in arm wrestling or a street fight, should we reduce their rights, put them in a separate class of humans?
other women on the other hand...get full credit for half the work