I personally think that we've all sadly grown up

nobody warned us that growing up is just a trap.
Most of us don't have time anymore. Although I still check VCoderZ Daily, but there are no topics to discuss anymore, and if someone starts a topic, there's nobody else who replies.
I miss the old days when VCoderZ was crowded and debates/discussions were all over the place.
I even still write it VCoderZ