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Old 04-03-2007   #3
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Default Re: Spanking Vs Beatings

Should spanking children b allowed?
I never Believed in Spanking and Hitting Children my parents never did they actually Grounded or مئاصصه Like no Tv no allawence or choclate or outing such stuff and it worked.

Sure ur parents can ground u but will it make an impression on u?
Actually they use to ground me for a weekend like my brother and them go to the beach and leave me with the working girl or baby sitter that use to bug me so I behaved better.


Before I continue I would like 2 point out the difference btw spanking & beatings.
Spanking the child is humiliate him n given a small ammount of physical pain delivered with an open hand.
Well kids somtimes need spanking to learn but never make it a habit or it will lead to a reverse attitude too much spanking leads to stubborness ask mew I've seen it happen.

In a beating often a weapon is used (belt, shoe, etc...) or the child may b punched or kicked.
That is cruel and very wrong that is just being dominent and stupid and a child isn't an idiot or a tool where u just hit they can understand and you could talk to them,hitting only leads to more bad actions.
The difference is that 1 mearly inflicts pain n the other actually damages the childs body.

So in ur opinion, does learning respect in this society comes from spanking? beating? both? or letting urself hurt until u learn ur lesson (The e.g. BIKE)?
Do u agree on spanking?
Do u agree on beating?
Now I do agree to spanking but to limit like on the butt spank for a kid that is ok with being grounded or whatever ئصاص but not make it a habbit to hit alot which leads to a bad kid thats what I believe
I am totally against child abuse, but spanking does not necessary equate child abuse. You can slap your child on the hand if she reaches for a hot pot or use a slight spank to correct bad behavior. There is a difference between spanking and hitting and a new law should reflect that. Otherwise, we will be wasting valuable resources putting good parents behind bars. How parents disciplines their own child is up to them…spanking should be allowed.

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