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Old 05-19-2006   #27
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Default Re: Sex before marriage

Before starting; I am not saying sex is wrong, it is a human part of life and sex is natural and there is absolutely nothing wrong with it whatsoever. I believe sex is merely for married people who love one another and know what they are doing. Those who are married for such a commitment-eternity is quite along time, well not forever, but long enough to die with each other. Marriage is made for those who are not afraid to commit, not afraid to make promises simply because they are not afraid to keep them....Sex is made for those ready for marriage. Premarital sex is not the answer to love. Babies grown up in a situation where their parents aren't responsible enough to take care of their young. Sex is awesome. Why not wait for the right one?
And let me now go further and discuss it religiously. The seventh commandment “Thou shall not commit adultery” (The Holy Bible), the most prevaricated commandment of the ten, is only implied as the unfaithfulness of a married person to the marriage bed, sexual intercourse by a married man with another than his wife, or voluntary sexual intercourse by a married woman with another than her husband. However, adultery meant in the Bible also includes related offenses such as lust, fornication, incest, pornography, obscenity, divorce... Some of these, we argue about are unavoidable and natural (like lust and homosexuality), and some have just become a part of the modern generation’s culture. Lust is an intense or unrestrained sexual craving. Some would argue that looking at the naked human body is not evil because God made it beautiful, and Adam and Eve were naked in the garden. However, that was before sin entered the picture. Perhaps it is natural to be lured by the sexuality of the opposite gender, but it is the unrestrained thought that commits us to lust. What we look at does affect us spiritually - and can cause us to sin. Scripture gives many examples of men being enticed by the sight of a woman. Shechem saw the woman before he raped her. David saw the woman bathing before he had sex with her. Judah saw the harlot before he had sex with her. it was the same for Samson . Jesus said that if a man "looks at a woman to lust after her, he has committed adultery with her already in his heart." The sin takes place even before the action is executed...
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