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Originally Posted by General Rami
it's not easy, but forget about him...
you helped him once, he drifted away... he was away when you needed him, you're trying to help him once again, he's not here to listen...
is this friendship or a waste of time?
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Originally Posted by Sheriff Justin
use ur mind & dont use ur heart... u tried to help him cuz u care about him n loved him... he didnt care... u left for a while he came back but still he kept drinkin... now its about time to use ur head instead of ya heart... just leave him... he'll feel much worst within dayz & then he'll realize that he lost u cuz of his stupidity... btw, how old is he? I think he's old enough to know what's gd for him & what's bad...
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you guys it's not that easy to just turn your back and give up. ESPECIALLY if you had a time where you really loved this person. No matter what if something happens god forbid she is going to say i didnt help enough. When she actually did. But you loved him and you feel you could have done more.
It's a very hard situation Sarah, but the first thing that needs to be done is make him believe that this is a BIG problem. Because if he doesnt see it as a problem then it's going to be impossible to change. Some one has to show him how the negatives outnumber the postives in his life right now. Because these positives are only temporary where the negatives will be with him forever.
But at the same time sarah i know its hard, but you have to toughen up and use that mind, that doesn't mean don't help. But be mean and strict then sweet and understanding.
good luck
taratata