your mind isnt related to him ... ur only thinkin about him because your heart tells u 2 and because YOU dont want to get over him ... people fight cancers with their mind ... we only use un petit pourcentage men our brain so if we really want something and we really try so hard we can do it ... we can even fly if we really believe in it (just like the buddhist) so u cant say " i can't" because u can but u just dont want 2