[Justin]

Originally Posted by Aurora

...So later on,I was searching his cell phone w I found msgs from her and sent sms to her w hek osas...I wish I never knew cause it really hurts...(Hayde l ossa happened february'06)

Its ur fault... and the proof is u search in his cell which means there's no trust since the beginning...

Originally Posted by xcoder

Trust me, it can happens and you'll never know.

Trust Me, I know... I know what happens behind my back... in all cases, not just relationships... but being quiet means somethin else is being coocked

Originally Posted by xcoder

However i do admit that i cheated and never told, i believe that i owe explanation to no one because i always make sure that my partner understands that i forbid commitments and don't like to be locked in since day one.

Too bad, I have to disagree wit' u... let's say ur girl cheated on u... u just dun want to know that.. y? do u really really love her to not care? do u tell ur girl: "I don't like to be locked in?"... is that an excuse?

... u said:

Originally Posted by xcoder

...as long i m not a married person.

which means u know its wrong cheating on someone u call "lover" or "gf"...

I just have a question to ask: is there any valid excuse or reason for cheating?