After marriage

**Jess** · 10-09-2007

Do you think that after having a baby the woman must dedicate her life to her famille,so she simply must remain at the house?

In other meanings, should she quit her job & stay at home....

Share wit'us your opinions and mention why

SysTaMatIcS · 10-10-2007

sure she should quit her job , unless if its not taking all of her time , then she could give the baby for her mother in the mornin , nd when she comes back she takes it back , jst like my sister do , but if her job needs alot of time , then its really haram to give her child to some maid or someone else...

FriendOfZeus · 10-10-2007

Depends on the mother really, things have changed nowadays. Some women just cant accept the fact of staying at home all day and caring for the kids, they need to set and have goals for themselfs in order to feel accomplished.

Sniper · 10-10-2007

If her husband can fully support the family financially, with no trouble, or to put it in other words, the father is loaded

, then the mother should focus her time on the children and taking care of the family emotionally and all that, stay at home...

Crystal Soul · 10-10-2007

SURE notttt she can t quit. as a girl i m not gonna quit my job for anybody either my baby anno why i m going to school than to my uni???? as a woman i m not playing

J()e · 10-10-2007

akiid no

...girls are equal to men....they go to school,university and learn and occupy majors not for giving it away when they have baby!!

this doesn't mean that the women shouldn't care abt her child bass chi w menno

No One · 10-10-2007

same for man, he shld quit his job, eno leh ba2a l mara bada trabe wleda eno rejel chou na2so dont stay home?
since men & women are equal so they can share there responsibilities, i stil remember when we were kids my parents are both teachers, in the morning we were stayin at home wiz grandpa, in the afternoon mami was teachin us kel chi litteraire w dad neyim, so you3a dad tnem mami w houwe y3alemna kel chi sciences

I doubt eno in Lebanon if the woman wasnt working she cant get married cz she has to help her partner cz as we know ma fi wala chab adir wa7do y2asis 3ayle, same thing after gettin married, responsibility btekbar w lezim mara teshteghil to help her husband w at the same time mech eno when she comes back home l Philippiniye daris l wled w tnayemoun w t7amemoun w ta3miyoun, eno akid its the mother's role, so fiya t2asim dawra
Merci

Justin · 10-10-2007

actually, I have 2 different REASONABLE reasons

1- With Woman Quitting her job:

a. she just cannot handle the fact of raising a kid & working at the same time, she's a human being she cannot last for long, she's not a machine...

b. another simple REASONABLE reason of why a woman should quit her job: well... when she helps in the duties for soo long, the man will start counting on her aktar + bi sir fi 2 dyuk bel 3ayle..

2- Against Woman Quitting her job: woman rights, provides knowledge for her kidz (that's why its gd to be an educated person), and sometimes u get paied much better than a man lol

SysTaMatIcS · 10-11-2007

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Originally Posted by Sheriff Justin

actually, I have 2 different REASONABLE reasons

1- With Woman Quitting her job:

a. she just cannot handle the fact of raising a kid & working at the same time, she's a human being she cannot last for long, she's not a machine...

b. another simple REASONABLE reason of why a woman should quit her job: well... when she helps in the duties for soo long, the man will start counting on her aktar + bi sir fi 2 dyuk bel 3ayle..

2- Against Woman Quitting her job: woman rights, provides knowledge for her kidz (that's why its gd to be an educated person), and sometimes u get paied much better than a man lol

abt a. its so true , my sister comes from the work exhausted and she cant even control her children cuz shes soo tired , so most of the times the family takes care of the twins , till shes relaxed , nd usually that would take hours .... but wat if the woman ddnt live near her family?? then shell look like a 60 years old woman when shes 30!

The Cheese · 10-12-2007

It's all a personal choice..If the girl feels like she can handle two responsibilities then she shouldn't quit,and no one should make her.But if keeping her job means that her family might suffer,then it's not worth it.Besides,we're in lebanon which means that the man can't take care of the financial things all by himself.They can both work and still have a happy family...it's all a matter of priorities

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No One Registered Member Last Online: 03-06-2009 Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 963 Thanks: 13 Thanked 480 Times in 415 Posts Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: After marriage same for man, he shld quit his job, eno leh ba2a l mara bada trabe wleda eno rejel chou na2so dont stay home? since men & women are equal so they can share there responsibilities, i stil remember when we were kids my parents are both teachers, in the morning we were stayin at home wiz grandpa, in the afternoon mami was teachin us kel chi litteraire w dad neyim, so you3a dad tnem mami w houwe y3alemna kel chi sciences I doubt eno in Lebanon if the woman wasnt working she cant get married cz she has to help her partner cz as we know ma fi wala chab adir wa7do y2asis 3ayle, same thing after gettin married, responsibility btekbar w lezim mara teshteghil to help her husband w at the same time mech eno when she comes back home l Philippiniye daris l wled w tnayemoun w t7amemoun w ta3miyoun, eno akid its the mother's role, so fiya t2asim dawra Merci __________________ Dima.M Last edited by No One; 10-10-2007 at 08:39 PM.

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Justin Vcoderz Dj Last Online: 04-17-2018 Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 7,916 Thanks: 5,372 Thanked 3,557 Times in 2,050 Posts Groans: 21 Groaned at 16 Times in 14 Posts	Re: After marriage actually, I have 2 different REASONABLE reasons 1- With Woman Quitting her job: a. she just cannot handle the fact of raising a kid & working at the same time, she's a human being she cannot last for long, she's not a machine... b. another simple REASONABLE reason of why a woman should quit her job: well... when she helps in the duties for soo long, the man will start counting on her aktar + bi sir fi 2 dyuk bel 3ayle.. 2- Against Woman Quitting her job: woman rights, provides knowledge for her kidz (that's why its gd to be an educated person), and sometimes u get paied much better than a man lol __________________ Music is what feelings sound like

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The Cheese Registered Member Last Online: 04-21-2014 Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 365 Thanks: 274 Thanked 421 Times in 218 Posts Groans: 5 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	Re: After marriage It's all a personal choice..If the girl feels like she can handle two responsibilities then she shouldn't quit,and no one should make her.But if keeping her job means that her family might suffer,then it's not worth it.Besides,we're in lebanon which means that the man can't take care of the financial things all by himself.They can both work and still have a happy family...it's all a matter of priorities

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