Saying Goodbyes

[Miss O.]

Ok..so if there's something im bad at, that's saying good bye. I'm a wreck and especially when it comes to people ive grown extremly close too.

So right now im getting ready to say goodbye to my teahers, my class mates (who i have been with for 12 yrs at least). And honestly its just getting worse and worse as the days go on. I have 3 days of school left and im soo sad especially because im leaving a teacher whom ive seen everyday for the past 4 yrs. He's no longer a teacher, he's actually family to me now.

I feel i lack the ability to let go to people i love (family and friends). I'm taking this so badly and i dont know how to accept the fact im leaving this teacher especially.

So my question to you my dears is whats ur advice on goodbyes and how do u deal with them?? And i know many of us are around the same age and do you guys feel this too or have u felt it before when leaving school for good and going off to college?

thankss

-Miss O.

[TAREK®]

taugh question

oh well usually when u want to say goodbye to a teacher bring him/her a small souvenir that makes him/her remember u, very simple gift can make a huge effect specially on a teacher, and well about the goodbye speech u want to give him/her, u could actually tell the teacher how much he/she means to u its very rare to see a student telling a teacher that they care about him/her, thats all I got till now

Sorry for the small info but I never had to say goodbye to teacher coz somehow they keep hunting me whenever I go

[The Cheese]

I'm bad at saying goodbye just like you are,but two of my friends had to go through this last year so maybe I can help
First of all,concerning your teachers,you can take pictures with them,and even invite the one that's like family over for dinner.Also,like KOD said,souvenirs are a good idea.
As for the friends,make the most of these three days ...do something with them: A picnic,go to a resturant ,do something fun and special during those three days
And again take lots of pictures
Also,you should get your friends something,but this time,instead of buying things....make them out of scratch or give them some of your old stuff (something that has a special memory to you guys,something that's related to an inside joke you have) Personal gifts have a strong effect
Also,wherever you're going,remember that you're not loosing your old friends...you're just making new ones

[TAREK®]

Originally Posted by Black_ice

I'm bad at saying goodbye just like you are,but two of my friends had to go through this last year so maybe I can help
First of all,concerning your teachers,you can take pictures with them,and even invite the one that's like family over for dinner.Also,like KOD said,souvenirs are a good idea.
As for the friends,make the most of these three days ...do something with them: A picnic,go to a resturant ,do something fun and special during those three days
And again take lots of pictures
Also,you should get your friends something,but this time,instead of buying things....make them out of scratch or give them some of your old stuff (something that has a special memory to you guys,something that's related to an inside joke you have) Personal gifts have a strong effect
Also,wherever you're going,remember that you're not loosing your old friends...you're just making new ones

very good idea

ba3den u can always call ur friends and stay in contact with them u dont have to say goodbye

[Sheriff Ice]

good question Miss taratatata,

well i spent my whole senior year at school how im gona do what im gona do what is gona happen,

actually i didnt do somthing i just cried like babies

[Miss O.]

Originally Posted by icemaker

actually i didnt do somthing i just cried like babies

currently thats all im doing!! and let me tell you something crying isnt getting me too far in life right now.

like i want to make sure theres a way i can stay in contact with those couple of teachers (im not as worried abou the students because we always find our ways to get together)

ye3ni to make everything better a teacher was telling me ohhh jo its never going to be the same even when u come back and say hi ull never be as close as u were....kinit ra7 ishbi2a bi shi kteb hahahah she made me so mad.

so now ive decided i have to sit and talk to those couple of teachers and make sure we stay in touch...because crying although i relaly cant help it and i know the day of graduation ill be like a running faucet, its just not going to solve anything

i hope it works the way i want it too!

[Sheriff Ice]

Originally Posted by Miss Taratata

currently thats all im doing!! and let me tell you something crying isnt getting me too far in life right now.

like i want to make sure theres a way i can stay in contact with those couple of teachers (im not as worried abou the students because we always find our ways to get together)

ye3ni to make everything better a teacher was telling me ohhh jo its never going to be the same even when u come back and say hi ull never be as close as u were....kinit ra7 ishbi2a bi shi kteb hahahah she made me so mad.

so now ive decided i have to sit and talk to those couple of teachers and make sure we stay in touch...because crying although i relaly cant help it and i know the day of graduation ill be like a running faucet, its just not going to solve anything

i hope it works the way i want it too!

ur right actually im still in connection with a big number of my teachers,

my french teacher is my best friend actually we hangout we go out togheter

the others i do visit them at homes they visit me its very nice really to keep connection with ur teachers

[Miss O.]

Originally Posted by icemaker

ur right actually im still in connection with a big number of my teachers,

my french teacher is my best friend actually we hangout we go out togheter

the others i do visit them at homes they visit me its very nice really to keep connection with ur teachers

oh my god this is exactly what i want. and when i talked to one of my friends she just laughed at me and said seriously its only a teacher.

3an jad some people just dont get it.

thanksss knowing its possible really made me feel better. maybe we'll have less tears this weekend hehe.

[TAREK®]

Originally Posted by Miss Taratata

oh my god this is exactly what i want. and when i talked to one of my friends she just laughed at me and said seriously its only a teacher.

3an jad some people just dont get it.

thanksss knowing its possible really made me feel better. maybe we'll have less tears this weekend hehe.

shu hayda tears? lah ya 3ameh 5alas guyz think of something tayeb how about making a visit to ur old school/uni and to talk with ur teachers ino usually thats what I see terminal doing and u know u could hang out with ur teacher ino its very simple, and maybe if u have a his email adress, send him/her an email asking to see the wanted teacher ino there are many ways

[Miss O.]

Originally Posted by The King Of Dabke

shu hayda tears? lah ya 3ameh 5alas guyz think of something tayeb how about making a visit to ur old school/uni and to talk with ur teachers ino usually thats what I see terminal doing and u know u could hang out with ur teacher ino its very simple, and maybe if u have a his email adress, send him/her an email asking to see the wanted teacher ino there are many ways

Well thats what i planned doing and always going out to eat with them w heik. Since im not going to a very faraway college. BUT someone older one of my parents friends told me this past week that no i cant do that. These teachers are apart of my past and im just beginning my life and future i should just let go when i got this lecture i fell apart and i got so mad

bas from what i see its definetely possible to stay close

thanks