do you believe in friendship between a boy and a girl?

[Sheriff Ice]

somtimes it depends on the person, sometimes a guy like a girl so he try to chase her and he endup with friendship so i think here the friendship wont exist, but when the two agree on friendship from the begining it will be sucessfull w i think it can be better than a boy-boy/girl-girl friendship

[General]

depends, but rarely exists...

based on my lifetime experiences boysss fall for the one who's supposed to be their "best friend"

the question is why?

here's a list of answers: (the red points)

• great girls
• understanding on everything
• going out too much
• getting used to each others
• sharing secrets and unshared things
• feeling comfortable while talking
• etc ...

after that, a girl feels comfortable because she found a real close best friend biefham 3laya, but the boy keeps on digging to reach what he wants which is something beyond best friendship...

why?

Generally and in most of the times, Girls are not easy, boys are fast teased creatures... this is well known... a non-easy girl = friendship is something sacred for her and for her, friendship comes 1st... kill me, but don't kill my best friend!! a fast teased boy = the red points achiever and these red points mean everything for a boy... that's why, the percentage of a boy falling for his best friend (girl) is ways higher than a girl falling for her best friend (boy)

kind of boys falling for their best friends (girls) :

• unexperienced boys
• boys who have lack of self-confidence/self-esteem
• friend with a very good girl (almost perfect or perfect)
• kind hearted and scared

kind of girls falling for their best friends (boys) :

• being a friend with a hot boy (only)

Cheers and forget about it waste of time... just be her friend in order not to lose her!! break freeeeeeeeeeeeee

[General]

Originally Posted by General Rami

depends, but rarely exists...

based on my lifetime experiences boysss fall for the one who's supposed to be their "best friend"

the question is why?

here's a list of answers: (the red points)

• great girls
• understanding on everything
• going out too much
• getting used to each others
• sharing secrets and unshared things
• feeling comfortable while talking
• etc ...

after that, a girl feels comfortable because she found a real close best friend biefham 3laya, but the boy keeps on digging to reach what he wants which is something beyond best friendship...

why?

Generally and in most of the times, Girls are not easy, boys are fast teased creatures... this is well known... a non-easy girl = friendship is something sacred for her and for her, friendship comes 1st... kill me, but don't kill my best friend!! a fast teased boy = the red points achiever and these red points mean everything for a boy... that's why, the percentage of a boy falling for his best friend (girl) is ways higher than a girl falling for her best friend (boy)

kind of boys falling for their best friends (girls) :

• unexperienced boys
• boys who have lack of self-confidence/self-esteem
• friend with a very good girl (almost perfect or perfect)
• kind hearted and scared

kind of girls falling for their best friends (boys) :

• being a friend with a hot boy (only)

Cheers and forget about it waste of time... just be her friend in order not to lose her!! break freeeeeeeeeeeeee

Part II
The revenge
(how it ends)

it ends:

• with ending the whole relationship (no more friendship) based on a will from the girl to end everything because the boy was either lying to her or trying to hide his feelings which is something totally inacceptable *u know, girls stuff...*

• another un-happy sad end with a girl (if she's a snake) telling all her friends about her best friend (boy) he likes me I never though of that I'll never talk to him again

• ends as it was aka the friendship remains in case a boy kept on hiding his feeling, which is something unfruitful and destructive because at the same time, a boy knows everything about her but he cannot be more than a friend aka love from one side

• 1% of best friends end it with becoming real lovers... this is something rare... in case a boy agreed and the girl feels the same (e3jeb exists), she won't accept because she has the "I'm the girl" feelings and this cannot happen... what would my friends say if they knew that I'm dating my (the one who's supposed to be my) best friend etc...

ya3ne conclusion: stay away from that whenever you feel that you're falling for your best friend, end it with finding a new (girl/boy) or die trying just for your safety and health

cheerrrrsss boys, break freeeee once again

[Josee]

Originally Posted by General Rami

Part II

The revenge
(how it ends)

it ends:

• 1% of best friends end it with becoming real lovers... this is something rare... in case a boy agreed and the girl feels the same (e3jeb exists), she won't accept because she has the "I'm the girl" feelings and this cannot happen... what would my friends say if they knew that I'm dating my (the one who's supposed to be my) best friend etc...

That happened to me twice...In both cases we became real lovers,wahad refuses to talk to me,and the other one i dunno lol

[might3d]

the human being is made to be social , and i cant believe that any guy or girl has no friends ( near friends )from other sex .

usualy we hear that a guy uses to tell secrets to her girlfriend or vice versa .
the relation between girl and guy is more stable ( as friend of course ) then two guys or two girls , i think it depends on ihses el binet el hanoun w ihses el shabo yalle shway khishen , heik bikaffo ba3don w byifhamo ba3don aktar .
the friendship is built over : honor , honest , politeness , congence ...

while they are both have them or almost have them , i belive a good and nice and unbreakable friendship ha toulad w tdall mada el hayet

[sarah32]

I didnt believe in it until i met my best friend 2 years ago ... and then i started believing in it ..
Why do i believe in friendship between me and MY best friend:

1- I know how he thinks and i know all about his love/sex life and i know that the way he thinks doesnt suit me and vice versa ...
So first of all we have 2 different way of life and we think kel wa7ad bi tari2a .. and kel wa7ad is looking for something in a relationship ... So when 2 pers. are not looking for the same thing ktir sa3beh eno ysir shi ..

2- My best friend wont fall for me because of my looks because when we go out or when he comes to my place we're usually like mrawbsin ... eno wala marra zabatna 7alna la nshouf ba3ed ...and i'm not even the kind of girls he likes wala houweh my type of guys ...

3- We got used to each other ... he's one of the few who really understands me and is here for me and vice versa and i was always here for him to help him with his gf and he was here to help me with mine ... and we both know how much kel wa7ad loves/loved his partner ...

Those 3 points are enough for me to believe in our friendship .. other than that when i think about it the first thing i say to my self " eno comeon its HIM" eno this pers. can never be my bf and houweh ct think of me n him as lovers 2 ...
But as i said this me n my best friend and i'm not talkin in general ...

[Justin]

Originally Posted by Justin

Actually, I don't believe in this kind of a relationship

Still Having the same old same statement/opinion ... With all due respect Sarah32... I think u made a wrong conclusion... As the matter of fact I know boyz more then u know 'em... Cuz Im a guy... & u know girlz more then I know them... eventually, u're a lady... so What I mean that 99.9% of the Guyz do fall in love with their best friendz (my statisticz )... Usually as the relationship progresses 1 of 'em wants more...Like a relationship of a bf/gf thats y best friends that r opposite sexes r more likely 2 date n even marry. They r attracted 2 each other from the start otherwise they wouldn't even be friends...

as for the rest of the 0.1% is dedicated to ppl who has nuth in life but to be fagots... (again.... my statisticz)... From experience I would say it can never happen or if it happens, it wont last 4ever... I wish I was wrong but we r not made 2 be close friends with the opposite sex without intense emotions or cultural dilemas...

peace

[EDITED I forgot to say somethin too:] Best friendz btw a girl & a boy isnt always 100% true... cuz both sex feel shy to talk about "some things"... + btw, guyz best friendz... la72o 3a msabbet ben kel 7aref w 7aref

[SysTaMatIcS]

well i was never more than frnds with girls so yeh sure

[pink]

ur all talkin due 2 experience..but 1 cant generalize..well.. i BELIEVE in such friendship...becoz 4 example my frnd the guy! wud b understandin stuff my frnds the grls wont... nd he can get me better advises...w abt wut u wer discussin enno wen it turns 2 smthng else, well it happens w kteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeer! w i define it becoz ..wen we thnk we r frnds wth him, hed b takin me as a frnd too...bas ba3den w 3ashen we r gd frnds ya3ne we thnk 2gether positive hed find me matchin 4 him w poooof! 3ashen hek frndship ends...frnds become luvers but lovers will never turn into frnds( hayde eza 3anjad keno lovers )
so as a conclusion!, i believe in such friendship becoz i well know how 2 manage thngs w i even prefer frnds 2 b guys more thn gurls..nd i have more boys frnds thn grls!

[General]

Originally Posted by pink

becoz 4 example my frnd the guy! wud b understandin stuff my frnds the grls wont... nd he can get me better advises...

that's what makes a guy fall for a girl when they're best friends