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Old 03-18-2010   #1
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Default Mother VS Wife

All Of You knows that in life you will have to face the situation Mother V/S Wife for Males,
As for females You will be inside the event

What Will be your solution your position?!


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I think i can say that based on facts no one in the world could love a person more than his own mother. I can't imagine someone might disagree with me. A person could be a criminal, a thief, or a killer, but his mom will always pray, and wishes the best for him. So intilaqan min hal mabda2, thank God i don't have this issue, if my wife doesn't agree with my mom, i would have a talk with both of them, and try not to expose their flaws to eachother. But defentily put my mother first, and if she was unfair with my wife i will talk to her but not tell her that she is wrong infront of my wife.
Heaven lies under your mothers feet.
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The Situation Mother v/s Wife is only reached is the Male can't choose a Wife who cares about his Mother as much as he does. PERIOD
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God said: "every man should leave his mother and father and stick to his women"
That's life...

A man who prefers his wife over his mother, doesn't love his wife. A wife who makes problem with her husband's mother doesn't love her husband well enough, and a mother who creates problems with her son's wife doesn't respect her son.

As a conclusion, a mother who loves her son, a wife who loves her husband, and a son who loves her wife won't allow problems to happen.

If not, they should search for the main problem and take the right decision, sometimes the mother may be the troublemaker, in this case we can't say that the wife should be blamed wl 3aks mazbout...

So it depends about the situation.
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What do you do when both Mother AND Wife team up on you ?
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Basically long story short, I don't think there should be a conflict between ur mother and ur wife if u had enough responsibility to let BOTH OF THEM understand that its an act of irresponsibility n immaturity behaving like this towards each other, weither it was ur wife or ur mother's fault, it always lead to one concept: YOU ARE OFFENDED AND DISRESPECTED. Therefore, a good communication of give n take policy n other day to day proper between the 2 will never give room for such debates. There should be equal liberty in policies n decisions which will hold for strong mutual understandings n sure benefits. After all, everything leads to the betterment of the family, both should bear in mind then there's no question of Mother Vs Wife...

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hahahahahahaha, u cannot fight the force of nature

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i think that old women have a childish attitude ... they expect death specially when their child is married... but for women who are aged 40 to 50 years they think abt their future if their son will take care of themselves economically, morally, etc.
so the wife must bring them a climate of peace, respect and love as if they were their own mothers. bring gifts, flowers, chocolate...any small gift will make them happy and comfortable...the wife should buy the mother at her side even if the mother is very jealous and mean she would change when she will trust the wife.......
happy mother's day.
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God said: "every man should leave his mother and father and stick to his women"
That's life...
couldn't agree more :P

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i think that old women have a childish attitude ... they expect death specially when their child is married... but for women who are aged 40 to 50 years they think abt their future if their son will take care of themselves economically, morally, etc.
so the wife must bring them a climate of peace, respect and love as if they were their own mothers. bring gifts, flowers, chocolate...any small gift will make them happy and comfortable...the wife should buy the mother at her side even if the mother is very jealous and mean she would change when she will trust the wife.......
happy mother's day.
it always depends on the person herself the attitude of both women, if the wife is living in a world where no body exists except her, it is a problem, and if the mother thinks that she will control her children lives she is wrong too.
both should understand the cycle of life that consist, of giving and taking, the mother has for sure went through this stage so she should consider herself int he same position as her son's wife.

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it always depends on the person herself the attitude of both women, if the wife is living in a world where no body exists except her, it is a problem, and if the mother thinks that she will control her children lives she is wrong too.
both should understand the cycle of life that consist, of giving and taking, the mother has for sure went through this stage so she should consider herself int he same position as her son's wife.

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