love on the internet

[mr_j]

inspired by this thread
http://forum.vcoderz.com/showthread....highlight=love

do you believe you can find your future boyfriend/girlfriend/ life partner through the internet?
lately there has been an increase in the number of dating sites and the subscribers to them, and besides that, people are now more often meeting through the internet, like I have met the vcoderz guys (nice bunch of people) and many other groups through personal meetings that were thanks to the internet.

So, the questions, do you see the internet as a potential way to meet new people and lovers? do you tend to trust what is being said through the written media?(MSN, Facebook), do you use the internet to try and meet new people? or do you stick to old fashioned ways?

[TAREK®]

hell yeah u can, I've seen too many relationships turning to love and they met each other here on vcoderz (we should make a publicity )


as for if i use the internet to meet new people, i gotta be honest with u, when i first entered vcoderz i didn't expect to make friends (one or two maybe) and now i know like 3\4 of the active members some of them became really close friends of mine few of them became my secrets keeper. Now would i date someone i met on the internet? well depends i really need to get to know the person ya3neh sheyefa kaza mara, hanging out kaza mara and not just talked to her on fb and msn

but however i dont like this idea : someone searching on fb he sees a hot girl, send her a message " mar7aba ana talib el orob w ente ktir bte3ejbineh fina net3araf" yes it happens a lot but i wouldnt do it


PS: I think tawa once opened a thread about this subject

[mr_j]

I did not know if a similar thread exists

anyway, yes I agree that a person should not message someone else based on a picture, which is partly why I am against the idea of dating sites(in general) and the ****y pics you could find there

but the internet makes things very simple when it comes to meeting people, vcoderz is an example, you join a site or a facebook group where all the members have this same common interest as you... you can be friends with them easier than meeting new peopel you have nothing in common with

[Neoxter]

internet gives u the chance to meet a diversity of people in little amount of time, so it's an efficient way to meet people. That's it's job, it's just a mean. When you meet then you are completely free to do whatever u want, you can befriend them, hate them, love them, f#ck them, marry them, kill them, just about anything.

[xcoder]

Meeting on the internet is possible.
Loving on the internet without seeing that person is total stupidity.

[Tawa]

Meeting people on the internet has a very important positive side.
On the internet you get to know people in a way that their physical appearance don't get in the way, you can dig deep into their personality without being distracted or influenced by the way they look and act.

Now, it is possible that you like a person you met on the internet because of his/her personality, and if you two get along pretty well, the feeling you have for each other can easily turn into love. However, it is necessary that you two meet, so that the physical influence take its place.

Falling in love with a person you never met is not stupid in my opinion, but not willing to meet that person is. If you fall in love with someone that you never meet or see, is like falling in love with an illusion, because you build in your mind the physical behavior of that person in a way that you make him/her be perfect.

In addition, what's the use of falling in love with someone if you never would want to see?

In the end, falling in love with someone's personality before getting attracted physically to that person gives birth to a love that is highly honest, strong and robust.