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Originally Posted by deAtheganized

Jayde jayde...7abbet l 3arabe wabbekha eh abousoun l kabbani

تبا لك يا هذا ... أتتمسخر على كتابتي باللغة العربية؟؟؟؟؟؟
Seriously i really laughed when i read what i wrote ... l3ama min wein jebta hayda "wabbi5a"

back to the topic ... I think i'll go with the second option although it's unlikely to happen with me (me making out with a girl in the cinema or my sister with a guy, i think her husband would be very disappointed )

Thank You ...

[KeXasthur]

Ok if you want to put scenarios, I would like to extend it to include that the guy my sister is with is the brother of the girl I'm with, then both me and my date's brother can go show how ludicrous we look like and how much hypocrites we are, by bashing each other to death because we are dating each other's sister.

Yes it this is how ridiculous it is to go hit your sister or even go shout at her at home until she ____ her pants, especially you horny guys who wait for some move by your date to kiss her or get closer to her and make out.

If you have this inner gut-like feeling that makes you not handle seeing your sister making out, then just not look, do whatever you want other than interefering, but remain rational with your actions.

[Gilgamesh]

Originally Posted by KeXasthur

Ok if you want to put scenarios, I would like to extend it to include that the guy my sister is with is the brother of the girl I'm with, then both me and my date's brother can go show how ludicrous we look like and how much hypocrites we are, by bashing each other to death because we are dating each other's sister.

Yes it this is how ridiculous it is to go hit your sister or even go shout at her at home until she ____ her pants, especially you horny guys who wait for some move by your date to kiss her or get closer to her and make out.

If you have this inner gut-like feeling that makes you not handle seeing your sister making out, then just not look, do whatever you want other than interefering, but remain rational with your actions.

Not all girls are alike and that is a fact. We come from different backgrounds and different traditions and house values. I said that the scenario is impossible to happen because I know that some girls won't be even at the movies only with a guy. Thus the opportunity to make out at the movies is non-existent. Whereas the girl I am out with accepts such behavior and maybe her brother does, maybe she is from a different religious background and her perspective on these things are different. You can't expect the same reaction from her brother and me without studying all the circumstances and motivations that will come into play.

[KeXasthur]

Originally Posted by deAtheganized

Not all girls are alike and that is a fact. We come from different backgrounds and different traditions and house values. I said that the scenario is impossible to happen because I know that some girls won't be even at the movies only with a guy. Thus the opportunity to make out at the movies is non-existent. Whereas the girl I am out with accepts such behavior and maybe her brother does, maybe she is from a different religious background and her perspective on these things are different. You can't expect the same reaction from her brother and me without studying all the circumstances and motivations that will come into play.

What I am criticizing here is my reaction as a brother.
I understand that you are trying to say for instance that the girl I am with has backgrounds and so that make her accept getting kissed and making out, so her brother would not mind me kissing her, but if her religious/or whatever backgrounds don't allow her to kiss me then her brother would definitely mind me kissing her, that is what you mean right ? If so, This is exactly what I am calling absurd anyway. If I am from backgrounds that don't allow my sister to get kissed, then I SHOULD as well not allow myself to kiss any other guy's sister. It is just Absurd to have me kiss a girl and expect from my sister not to.

[P337]

Okey , lets see.
In my case ( if i had a sis ) ill drop the subject , after all its normal .. and to have more fun ill just msg her " Hey sis , im having a lot fun right now , i hope ur having fun too , kisses <3 )


P.S : i hope some thread will be opened on how would be the reaction of a girl if she saw a guy she's dating making out with another girl and vice versa( It would be some fun with the reactions muahaha / and as for me its a way to update my precautions )

[Sheriff Ice]

Originally Posted by deAtheganized

I really meant the second option...lol I just noticed when I read my post...anyway..second option, wabbikha

deAtheganized, my question is why? why did u choose to "Twabekha"?

[El-Meghwar]

well i think that Cinema is for watching movies and not a bedroom
so in the first place i won't go to the cinema just for doing such thing with my girlfriend, and i won't be so much proud of her if she accepted this thing..
kel wa7ad 3ando beit yrou7 ye23od fi, public places are for everyone and there is people who doesn't like to see such acts in the Cinema, even if it was just a kiss... so of course i won't accept that from my sis (i don't have one actually)

[Gilgamesh]

Originally Posted by KeXasthur

What I am criticizing here is my reaction as a brother.
I understand that you are trying to say for instance that the girl I am with has backgrounds and so that make her accept getting kissed and making out, so her brother would not mind me kissing her, but if her religious/or whatever backgrounds don't allow her to kiss me then her brother would definitely mind me kissing her, that is what you mean right ? If so, This is exactly what I am calling absurd anyway. If I am from backgrounds that don't allow my sister to get kissed, then I SHOULD as well not allow myself to kiss any other guy's sister. It is just Absurd to have me kiss a girl and expect from my sister not to.

It is different. Here is how it goes. The most important part is to make sure that the girl is actually fine with what is going on and not being seduced/fooled into doing something she will regret later. For certain girls who come from certain backgrounds, making out with a guy is something they will regret let alone something they will have to repent for religiously. I can safely say I haven't ever tried to fool or pressure a girl into something she will regret or she will later have to repent for and I won't do that. So if I will be making out in the movies with a girl, it will for sure be something not only she allows and approves off but also doesn't expect to be scolded or blamed for. If the sister of the person in this scenario comes from such a background then obviously the right answer would be three not two.

Originally Posted by icemaker

deAtheganized, my question is why? why did u choose to "Twabekha"?

Well from my answer above you kinda get what is coming next. In my case, the scenario is impossible to happen but in the extremely unlikely situation that it did, it will be something for sure that goes against what my sister would actually want to do without regretting later. Backgrounds especially religious come into play to determine in each case how the response should be. I won't ever go with the first because it is stupid to solve any family affair in public. The third one might be the option if the conditions stated in my reply to KeXasthur were met, as they should be in the case of the girl I am making out with. So none of these two apply, the one that is closest to what the situation seems to require is the second one.


P.S. I like the word "Wabbi5a" as well and that played a role in choosing the second option jk

[KeXasthur]

It is different. Here is how it goes. The most important part is to make sure that the girl is actually fine with what is going on and not being seduced/fooled into doing something she will regret later. For certain girls who come from certain backgrounds, making out with a guy is something they will regret let alone something they will have to repent for religiously. I can safely say I haven't ever tried to fool or pressure a girl into something she will regret or she will later have to repent for and I won't do that. So if I will be making out in the movies with a girl, it will for sure be something not only she allows and approves off but also doesn't expect to be scolded or blamed for. If the sister of the person in this scenario comes from such a background then obviously the right answer would be three not two.

I kind of agree with everything you said, of course if you love the girl you won't pressure her or make her do anything she will regret , that's very true, and like you, I won't fool such girl into such thing if I love her. But here we are not including these other factors, you just consider every other thing as "perfect" and look at the point behind this discussion itself. Even the fact that this whole situation is very unlikely to occur should be dismissed, and you just look at the reaction you would have as a brother. If you want to take specific situations where the other factors are not all "perfect", then yeh I kind of understand what you mean when you chose the second option, because you would need to advise her as a brother, especially if you think she is kind of lost ( but for sure not wabbikha ), just talk it over.

[mr_j]

old thread but I read it now... I can't believe (some of,I think it was systa )you guys, chou 5askon between your sister, her boyfriend and what she wants to do?! it's her life, based on what logic is a guy seen as a better version or human than a girl?
women have their sexual desires also, and they want to act on them, just as you give yourself that permission, her life, her trials and errors, it's none of your business!

needless to say I would do absolutly nothing and not even mention it later to her.