Help....

**Jess** · 05-23-2009

Okay so here is the issue:

when I have problems I'm absolutely crap at dealing with them but when its someone else I'm helping it seems to be a real aide.

Do you face the same problemmmmmmmm ???

**Miss O.** · 05-23-2009

oh yes yes. story of my life. haha

i really dont know why we are so good at helping others but when it comes to our own problems we draw a blank when we have probably helped friends and family in the same situation 100 times before.

all i can say is something i know im trying ot change. is when a friend comes with a problem i always try to encourage them to do something about it and try to change it. Don't just sit and watch the things u dont want happen. And lately i have been TRYING to apply it. so just take a deep breathe and do whatever u can although it might be hard.

good luck

-miss o.

SysTaMatIcS · 05-23-2009

i complicate my own problems and other people's problems

Novak · 05-23-2009

It is kinda funny when you seems invincible when dealing with other problems and not with yours. Usually this is because you don't get emotionally involved since usually you ask them to do things that for you is impossible to do it yourself; you can simply advice your friend to leave the one she loves and you keep insisting on her that she will forget him and such, while when it comes to you, it seems a very difficult task.
I deal with my problems no matter how hard they are and what kind of decisions I have to take simply because others can't think like me and what I am up to...

Justin · 05-23-2009

I have no problem dealing with my issues, same thing goes to other ppl problems

**7alewi** · 05-23-2009

Well all I do is, dnt think about them and leave it to god inou haydi bas tsakir akeed

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Miss O. Community Moderator Last Online: 05-13-2014 Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 658 Thanks: 761 Thanked 475 Times in 285 Posts Groans: 0 Groaned at 1 Time in 1 Post	oh yes yes. story of my life. haha i really dont know why we are so good at helping others but when it comes to our own problems we draw a blank when we have probably helped friends and family in the same situation 100 times before. all i can say is something i know im trying ot change. is when a friend comes with a problem i always try to encourage them to do something about it and try to change it. Don't just sit and watch the things u dont want happen. And lately i have been TRYING to apply it. so just take a deep breathe and do whatever u can although it might be hard. good luck -miss o.

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Novak Registered Member Last Online: 12-01-2010 Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 38 Thanks: 7 Thanked 33 Times in 13 Posts Groans: 0 Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts	It is kinda funny when you seems invincible when dealing with other problems and not with yours. Usually this is because you don't get emotionally involved since usually you ask them to do things that for you is impossible to do it yourself; you can simply advice your friend to leave the one she loves and you keep insisting on her that she will forget him and such, while when it comes to you, it seems a very difficult task. I deal with my problems no matter how hard they are and what kind of decisions I have to take simply because others can't think like me and what I am up to...

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7alewi Vcoderz Team Last Online: 09-03-2014 Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 1,438 Thanks: 776 Thanked 1,299 Times in 786 Posts Groans: 1 Groaned at 1 Time in 1 Post	Well all I do is, dnt think about them and leave it to god inou haydi bas tsakir akeed

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