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Old 07-19-2007   #1
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Default Let's Be Honest

Is telling the absolute truth a gd or bad thing? I mean isn't it better 2 be honest with someone instead of lying 2 them? So what is the best approach not saying anything? Does it depends on some circumstances?
If telling the truth is only going to cuz hurt & not really serve a purpose than u think that it should be better left unsaid? Does it considerate a lie?

When we talk about truth, we can talk about children too... If a 3 years old girl , any girl , asked an adult: "What is rape & Murder?"
The truth in the answer would have to be altered cuz of the sensitive nature of the question & of course u might ask " y do u ask that question? "
so my other quetion is this: What age should truth be administered to a child ?
How much honest u are?
WHY??

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Default Re: Let's Be Honest

its good to tell the truth but el the most important thing is to know how to tell it
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Default Re: Let's Be Honest

well im used to say the truth whatever the circumstances are...
hala2 abt the issue of age, i dont think that a kid of 3 years old is goin to ask me such quest wizout hearing it from somewhere, so if he's able 2 ask me abt it, so he most be able 2 know from where he heard it, once he answered me, my answer on his quest must be related to the situation, ye3ne l answer bado ykoun bitari2a mazbouta wel walad yet2abala 3a ad 3a2leto, donno if u get my pt
i cant imagine som1 askin me if her new haircut is cute and i say "wow bet3a2id w leb2etlik" w hiye betkoun ma helwe, eno shes askin abt my opinion so she must accept my answer "bi ra7abt sader" or mnel asel dont ask me if i shld save the face wiz her :s
sure sometimes truth hurt other, but hiding it might hurt them more, so we shld take risk sometimes
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Old 07-19-2007   #4
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Default Re: Let's Be Honest

Whatever the truth was hard and will hurt just say it... Saying the truth eventhough it hurts is much better than lying... w "7abel el kezeb 2assir"...
For the age enno even if a kid asked such a question u should be honest with him of course in a way that will make him accept the truth and understand it easily... and as blyblu-dima said a 3 years old kid won't ask u such questions... and if he asked he has to know the truth cuz he'll know it sooner or later, which won't make a big difference if ur way of telling him it is gd...
So we just have to know how to tell the truth...
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Default Re: Let's Be Honest

sometimes u need to lie to save urself :P but telling the truth is better. 3am be7ke metel jede!:P
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Default Re: Let's Be Honest

Well,the most important thing is to always tell the truth no matter how much it hurts,it may hurt at the beggening but at the end it will make persons feel better...
And I think the best age to tell truthes to child is almost 9 or 10,because bekoun l child balach you3a
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Default Re: Let's Be Honest

You Want The TRUTH ? YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH !
Sorry i always wanted to say that

Well of course someone should always say the truth, unless his wife or gf asked :"do you think i'm fat?" ... here always says No

Concerning children, well i feel we should worry more about how to make our children say the truth ... coz if they learned that telling lies is okey, then they'll grow up with this attitude ...

So here our responsibility towards them is to be a good example for them, to show them the benefits of telling the truth and the harm of lies ...

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Default Re: Let's Be Honest

of course saying the truth is good
but sometimes lying is crucial and vital
one has to find the best way
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Default Re: Let's Be Honest

i voted for "no" but in my whole i tell the truth i never lie im honest in everything but by experience saying the truth lead almost time to bad consequences, why?! cuz simply ppl dont accept it easly, and what im sure abt it that saying the truth always will put alot of obsticules in front of you cuz alot of ppl around the world are affraid of the truth, i wish that i have the power to not say the truth all time, honesty is killer
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Default Re: Let's Be Honest

well if tokin wth gud behavior nd religion nd so on, then telling the truth is the proper good thing we shud do, but in real life its not the case, well all of us lie, bas we'r nt all liars!...i dunno how 2 elaborate it exactly,, but i kno wer i shud tell the truth nd wer i shudnt ( nd that wont be the state that am a liar,,,)
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