Love And Marriage

[Tawa]

No, This Thread Isn't About That Old Lame Comedy Serie.

I Was Wondering, And I Thought About Talking About This Subject With All Of You In Here.

١st, Do You Think That There Shouldn't Be Marriage Without Love?

٢nd, Do You Think That A Person Must Forget The Person That He Loves And Marry The Ones With Promising Future?
For Example, A Girl Is In Love With A Poor Guy, But There's A Rich Guy That Can Offer Her More In Life Than The Other Guy, Which One Should She Choose?

٣rd, Can Love Be Born After Marriage? Or If A Person Isn't In Love With Someone, It's Impossible To Fall For Him Even After Marrying Him?

Finally, Does Marriage Without Love Work?

[Miss O.]

Originally Posted by Tawa

No, This Thread Isn't About That Old Lame Comedy Serie.

I Was Wondering, And I Thought About Talking About This Subject With All Of You In Here.

١st, Do You Think That There Shouldn't Be Marriage Without Love?

1st - In my opinion if only those who really loved each other got married. but we all know its not the case for many reasons whether its financial reasons, religion, parental issues, or simply prestige.

Originally Posted by Tawa

٢nd, Do You Think That A Person Must Forget The Person That He Loves And Marry The Ones With Promising Future?
For Example, A Girl Is In Love With A Poor Guy, But There's A Rich Guy That Can Offer Her More In Life Than The Other Guy, Which One Should She Choose?

i think it depends on the life style the girl is willing to have. Some girls will say they dont care about what his financial status is and mean it. others will say they dont care but then when she sees something she wants and cant afford it and it starts to happen more and more it becomes a problem. each guy and girl know the living standards they expect so if she expects much more than he can afford they are sure gonna be in for one hell of a ride. Marriage is about compromise and love. So if they really love each other they will compromise.

Personally i make sure i am ok with what this dude is doing for a living...etc. before i jump in head over heals (thats where ur mind plays a big role instead of ur heart)

Originally Posted by Tawa

٣rd, Can Love Be Born After Marriage? Or If A Person Isn't In Love With Someone, It's Impossible To Fall For Him Even After Marrying Him?

I don't think a non existing love is born after marriage. Yes, you become used to the person and used to the idea that you are living with him/her and they are not your partners in life but do u love them unconditionally i dont think so i think its more of an agreement and you may become best friends but not lovers? (i dont know this is weird i know people who it has happened to and right now he's cheating on her. so the experience i have seen isnt the best)

Originally Posted by Tawa

Finally, Does Marriage Without Love Work?

depends on each persons definetion of work.

My mom has a friend who is married has three kids but her and her husband are like stangers with each other. she does what she needs to do at home for him goes to work carrys on her own life and so does he since he has a gf outside the house. Now everything seems picture perfect in public (so u could say its working) and she doesnt want to leave him so the family doesnt fall apart but is she happy? hell no. Theres surely no love there but is it working in some peoples point of view it is.

i dont think it works the PROPER way with out love.


-Miss O.

[abousoun]

Originally Posted by Tawa

No, This Thread Isn't About That Old Lame Comedy Serie.

It's not lame ... it's so damn funny (assuming talking about Married with Children :P)

Originally Posted by Tawa

Do You Think That There Shouldn't Be Marriage Without Love?

No, it's not a must for a successful marriage ... it may happen later on

Originally Posted by Tawa

Do You Think That A Person Must Forget The Person That He Loves And Marry The Ones With Promising Future?
For Example, A Girl Is In Love With A Poor Guy, But There's A Rich Guy That Can Offer Her More In Life Than The Other Guy, Which One Should She Choose?

Removing external factors i.e the girl is free to choose and nobody can influence her opinion ... akid she should use the one who love w bterta7lo

Originally Posted by Tawa

Can Love Be Born After Marriage? Or If A Person Isn't In Love With Someone, It's Impossible To Fall For Him Even After Marrying Him?

Love can be born after marriage of course, it's not like a thing you can control it ... it happens at any time or it just doesn't, you can't schedule it

Originally Posted by Tawa

Finally, Does Marriage Without Love Work?

It may work ... but it will be hard ... depending on the couple

Thank You ...

[Ingrid]

-First of all, I don't think that there shouldn't be marriage without Love....A true marriage is based on understanding, respect, responsability...love can always come later...

-A girl should stick with the guy she loves even if he is poor on one condition: that this guy is trying hard to find a solution for his financial problems...after all who knows? the wheel might turn for him again...

-Yes i do think that love can be born after marriage...as much as I believe that love can disappear after marriage...

-Finally, of course marriage can work without love...love isn't the reason behind it, but Respect,loyalty, understanding...actually I think it can work even better than the one based on love...

[Sheriff Ice]

well tawa i look to mariage like "massale7 mouchtarake" eno the guy wants something this girl can offer, also the girl wants something that guy can offer it, they try to find some common point sometimes its love they find theirselfs in love the other times they dont fall in love just the common affairs between them overcome feelings and emotions.

even in love marriage is a business

[SysTaMatIcS]

love fades away , wat remains is harmony and understanding .

[Gilgamesh]

Originally Posted by Tawa

١st, Do You Think That There Shouldn't Be Marriage Without Love?

"Shouldn't" isn't the right word. I would say marriage that starts out void of love is not recommended. It might still work however.

Originally Posted by Tawa

٢nd, Do You Think That A Person Must Forget The Person That He Loves And Marry The Ones With Promising Future?
For Example, A Girl Is In Love With A Poor Guy, But There's A Rich Guy That Can Offer Her More In Life Than The Other Guy, Which One Should She Choose?

As the doctor said, she should take the decision alone and if I could advise her I would tell her to marry the guy she loves. I wouldn't have married a person I don't love.

Originally Posted by Tawa

٣rd, Can Love Be Born After Marriage? Or If A Person Isn't In Love With Someone, It's Impossible To Fall For Him Even After Marrying Him?

I don't know, but love can happen after marriage I think and it might never happen....These things are so specific on personal levels, it is hard to make one general rule that applies to everything..

Originally Posted by Tawa

Finally, Does Marriage Without Love Work?

Most of the time, not it won't..

[The Cheese]

On a side note I hate that stupid show they're all so annoying
Back to the thread though
Marriage isn't a good idea if it doesn't have love in it because love helps the couple overcome a lot of problems that could've been exaggerated otherwise
Love could happen after the marriage though
It just depends on the people
If they get to know each other better,they might realize that they had the wrong idea about the other person before marriage
No one should marry someone depending on their financial status though.If a girl loved a guy when he was rich,she should love him all the same if he gets poor

[Tawa]

Originally Posted by SysTaMatIcS

love fades away , wat remains is harmony and understanding .

You Didn't Even Read The Topic!

FFS, Stop Doing This.

[SysTaMatIcS]

I Did read it , and thats what i have to say