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Jess 03-03-2008 05:38 PM

Ok to lie?
 
Do you think that lying is alright when done to help someone?

i.e: telling someone how much of an impact they have had on your life when truely they have not impacted your life in any significant way.


Can a lie exist without hurting someone?

TAREKŪ 03-03-2008 05:49 PM

Re: Ok to lie?
 
mmm halla2 it depends how much this person means to u, if he means so much to u, akid la2, if he doing something wrong its ur job to tell him the truth how much how painfull it is, halla2 if he/she is just a friend bet sir el ossa depends on the occation, a little white lie never hurt but still we should be honest no matter what and also if he couldnt take w ze3el that proves he doesnt give a damn about u, he doesnt want a friend but he wants someone to lie to him tellin him he is gr8 and all even though he has nothin special :)

Sheriff Ice 03-03-2008 09:32 PM

Re: Ok to lie?
 
Both Lie and Truth hurts,

but the sure thing the truth will uncover alot of lies and shadows

lies will lead to more hurts

Jess 03-04-2008 05:41 PM

Re: Ok to lie?
 
It always sux to find out someone lied to you to make you feel better; it makes you feel pathetic :( :(

Concerning the exemple that i gave, if the persons are not aware it's a lie, it will hurt even more when they later realise that they don't possess what they thought they have :o So such false praises are basically useless or even harmful :@

Bs eno sometimes,lying in order to prepare a surprise party or gift is not so bad :| i guess? In this case, the lie is temporary and the consequences of a failed plan aren't drastic. The important thing is that the truth comes out in the end.

If the lie is intended to be permanent, :@ you run the risk that the person lied to finds out and that your relation degrades heavily :paddle:

I believe the smartest people find words to keep good relations without lying ;)

The Cheese 03-14-2008 10:01 PM

Re: Ok to lie?
 
Lying to someone to protect them from pain will only lead to more pain on the long run :@...So just speak your mind in a smart way so you can deliver your message and maintain a good relationship with the person :)
Anyway....if the person really appreciates you,they should understand that you're telling the truth for their best interest O_o

Jess 04-04-2008 06:38 PM

Re: Ok to lie?
 
Do you think that lieing is alright when done to help someone?
share :)

Sheriff Ice 04-04-2008 07:40 PM

Re: Ok to lie?
 
as i already mentioned both the truth and lies hurts,

but ill always choose to say the truth and not just saying the truth but the whole covered truth even if it hearts somtimes alot of ppl and made me in front of my friends and my family but i think time will be showing the right thing i did

Jess 04-05-2008 05:10 PM

Re: Ok to lie?
 
DO not lie or deceive in your friendships, relationships, with customers, to your children, with bosses, at school, at home or at work. It diminishes you as a person :)
Also, I believe it will eventually come back to haunt you.

if you lie (even when you've been taught that you're supposed to, even to make things fun), maybe whoever you lie to will never trust you again!

;)

Gilgamesh 04-07-2008 06:57 AM

Re: Ok to lie?
 
Lying is sometimes necessary and in these times saying the truth can be immoral or stupid. It is too hard to put a criteria to when that is the case but everyone is smart enough to recognize when saying the truth will be dangerous and harmful at any level. There are no fixed rules in this.

Jess 10-16-2008 12:55 PM

Re: Ok to lie?
 
So0o0o0o0o0o guys :D any new answers in here :D?


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