Vcoderz Community
We create websites that have it all, beauty & brains
Lebanon Web Design & Development - Coddict
 

Go Back   Vcoderz Community > Community Forums > Vcoderz Lobby

Notices

Vcoderz Lobby « Everything and everywhere. »

Reply
 
Share Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old 11-09-2007   #1
Jess
Community Moderator
 
Jess's Avatar
 
Last Online: 06-23-2013
Join Date: Dec 2006
Posts: 14,267
Thanks: 7,236
Thanked 8,442 Times in 4,889 Posts
Groans: 31
Groaned at 29 Times in 23 Posts
Default The past

I believe the past is the past and should be left there!
Is it necessary to tell someone all about your past when they weren't even a part of your life then? Or just tell them what you feel they need to know?why?


__________________
If my smoking bothers you. Don't breathe.


Jess is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-10-2007   #2
Gilgamesh
Registered Member
 
Gilgamesh's Avatar
 
Last Online: 11-16-2009
Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 2,005
Thanks: 632
Thanked 1,449 Times in 834 Posts
Groans: 12
Groaned at 9 Times in 8 Posts
Default Re: The past

If the "someone" you are talking about is a "someone" as in a relationship, I think it is important you both talk about your past....It gets you closer, you understand each other better, and avoid mistakes that might happen later...After all, it is past, why try to hide it? Better to learn and teach others from it...

Peace
Gilgamesh is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Gilgamesh For This Useful Post:
Jess (11-10-2007), Sheriff Ice (03-30-2008)
Old 11-10-2007   #3
Kain
Registered Member
 
Kain's Avatar
 
Last Online: 05-14-2023
Join Date: May 2006
Posts: 2,412
Thanks: 5,152
Thanked 2,962 Times in 1,439 Posts
Groans: 47
Groaned at 13 Times in 12 Posts
Default Re: The past

The past is indeed important. I believe the " special someone" (if that's what you mean) should know everything about your past because he will naturally deal with you accordingly. Especially if you have matured or changed to be a completely different person . You should be on the level with your partner if it's a serious relationship.
__________________
عميت عين لا تراك عليها رقيبا
Kain is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Kain For This Useful Post:
Gilgamesh (11-10-2007), Jess (11-10-2007)
Old 11-11-2007   #4
TAREK®
~ Golden Boy ~
 
TAREK®'s Avatar
 
Last Online: 06-14-2013
Join Date: Oct 2007
Posts: 11,464
Thanks: 11,906
Thanked 5,073 Times in 3,294 Posts
Groans: 190
Groaned at 82 Times in 72 Posts
Default Re: The past

I think its important to talk about the past if its important to his gf/bf off course I mean ur "special someone" needs to know ur past, "Barkeih ken 5arij 7bouseih" :P , u should tell him everythin, the someon also needs to know about ur sad times in the past to avoid it again in the future, and the good times to make u relive theme
TAREK® is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-30-2008   #5
Jess
Community Moderator
 
Jess's Avatar
 
Last Online: 06-23-2013
Join Date: Dec 2006
Posts: 14,267
Thanks: 7,236
Thanked 8,442 Times in 4,889 Posts
Groans: 31
Groaned at 29 Times in 23 Posts
Default Re: The past

So Is it necessary to tell someone all about your past when they weren't even a part of your life then? Or just tell them what you feel they need to know?why?
__________________
If my smoking bothers you. Don't breathe.


Jess is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-30-2008   #6
Sheriff Ice
info@sync.com.lb
 
Sheriff Ice's Avatar
 
Last Online: 11-29-2020
Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 3,827
Thanks: 1,348
Thanked 2,391 Times in 1,306 Posts
Groans: 0
Groaned at 16 Times in 15 Posts
Default Re: The past

for sure i cant tell my past why?! just for a simple reason i cant remember everthing, i think if im in a relation the past will shown itself with the relation goes on
__________________
http://www.gamync.com Lebanese Produced Mobiles Games by http://www.sync.com.lb
Sheriff Ice is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-30-2008   #7
abousoun
Registered Member
 
abousoun's Avatar
 
Last Online: 04-16-2011
Join Date: Jun 2006
Posts: 4,230
Thanks: 2,159
Thanked 3,965 Times in 1,663 Posts
Groans: 0
Groaned at 2 Times in 2 Posts
Default Re: The past

"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it."
George Santayana

It's true we can't live in the past anymore and what's done is done, but we can always draw lessons from this past

Thank You ...
__________________
Jess' Signature
abousoun is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to abousoun For This Useful Post:
Miss O. (03-27-2009)
Old 03-31-2008   #8
Mandy
Registered Member
 
Mandy's Avatar
 
Last Online: 09-25-2009
Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 804
Thanks: 487
Thanked 773 Times in 395 Posts
Groans: 0
Groaned at 0 Times in 0 Posts
Default Re: The past

Quote:
Originally Posted by Jess View Post
I believe the past is the past and should be left there!
I don't think u can live the present and plan for ur future without remembering ur past! enno akid u should get over it and dnt live it again bass as abousoun said it's all abt learning lessons and gaining experience

Quote:
Originally Posted by Jess View Post
Is it necessary to tell someone all about your past when they weren't even a part of your life then? Or just tell them what you feel they need to know?why?

Well i'm an "over honest person" and I want everything in the relationship to be clear in order to make it stronger so YES I tell evrtg abt my past and I ask my partner to do the same. anw I have ntg to hide or to be ashamed of
Mandy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-15-2008   #9
Jess
Community Moderator
 
Jess's Avatar
 
Last Online: 06-23-2013
Join Date: Dec 2006
Posts: 14,267
Thanks: 7,236
Thanked 8,442 Times in 4,889 Posts
Groans: 31
Groaned at 29 Times in 23 Posts
Default Re: The past

well, sometimes, there is no need to discuss an abusive past boyfriend / girlfriend or a time in your life that you’d rather forget.

for me, The past is a place for done deals i can share some echya but not always!

i do not have to go into detail about any messy break-ups.
__________________
If my smoking bothers you. Don't breathe.


Jess is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-15-2008   #10
RAM BÓY™
Vcoderz Team
 
RAM BÓY™'s Avatar
 
Last Online: 05-31-2021
Join Date: Apr 2006
Posts: 3,915
Thanks: 3,184
Thanked 2,546 Times in 1,373 Posts
Groans: 59
Groaned at 23 Times in 17 Posts
Default Re: The past

انا شخصياً لي بيئطع بسير ورايي
so
ما بطالع ورايي لأن مومكن يكون في حجرا ادمي اتفركش فيا و أوئع
لي فات مات

RAM BÓY™ is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to RAM BÓY™ For This Useful Post:
TAREK® (10-18-2008)
Reply

  Vcoderz Community > Community Forums > Vcoderz Lobby

Tags
past



Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT +1. The time now is 10:05 AM.


Lebanon web design and development
Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.3
Copyright ©2000 - 2026, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Ad Management plugin by RedTyger
Share