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I believe the past is the past and should be left there!
Is it necessary to tell someone all about your past when they weren't even a part of your life then? Or just tell them what you feel they need to know?why?
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If the "someone" you are talking about is a "someone" as in a relationship, I think it is important you both talk about your past....It gets you closer, you understand each other better, and avoid mistakes that might happen later...After all, it is past, why try to hide it? Better to learn and teach others from it...
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The past is indeed important. I believe the " special someone" (if that's what you mean) should know everything about your past because he will naturally deal with you accordingly. Especially if you have matured or changed to be a completely different person . You should be on the level with your partner if it's a serious relationship.
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I think its important to talk about the past if its important to his gf/bf off course I mean ur "special someone" needs to know ur past, "Barkeih ken 5arij 7bouseih" :P , u should tell him everythin, the someon also needs to know about ur sad times in the past to avoid it again in the future, and the good times to make u relive theme
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So Is it necessary to tell someone all about your past when they weren't even a part of your life then? Or just tell them what you feel they need to know?why?
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for sure i cant tell my past why?! just for a simple reason i cant remember everthing, i think if im in a relation the past will shown itself with the relation goes on
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"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it." George Santayana It's true we can't live in the past anymore and what's done is done, but we can always draw lessons from this past Thank You ...
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I don't think u can live the present and plan for ur future without remembering ur past! enno akid u should get over it and dnt live it again bass as abousoun said it's all abt learning lessons and gaining experience
Well i'm an "over honest person" and I want everything in the relationship to be clear in order to make it stronger
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well, sometimes, there is no need to discuss an abusive past boyfriend / girlfriend or a time in your life that you’d rather forget.
for me, The past is a place for done deals i do not have to go into detail about any messy break-ups.
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