Rape

[abousoun]

Rape is the ugliest and worst thing that a girl can experience in her life ... but who's fault it is ?
- Is it because the society we are living in ... where guyz become sexually frustrated to drive them to do such a horrible act ?
- Is it because the excess freedom that girls are having, the way they dress, they way they behave, they leave and come whenever they like ... ?

Most girls feel afraid if somebody knows about what happened to them ... and they usually keep it secret ...
- Do you think it's the best solution ? or she should report ?

and in case others knew, the problem gets bigger because society usually blame the girl, people start to look at the girl in a disgusting manner as if she was a ***** ... She gets hurt twice, first from the rapist and second from the society ...
- How this will affect her life afterwards ? (relation with parents, friends, opposite sex, marriage, psychologically, etc ...)
- What do you think the fair punishment of a rapist ?
- Do you consider marrying a girl who was raped at a certain point ?
- Do you know anyone who got raped ?

Share us your thoughts

Thank You ...

[Kingroudy]

the reason of a certain rape accident: the rapist is a psycho, suffers from conflicts, and has 'sexual-mental' problems, if the reason was the way the girl dresses, then all the girls would have been raped, everybody goes to the beach i think.

should she report? : what else then? yes she should, it is not a shame, she didn't ask the rapist to do it, it is not her fault, no one likes to hurt himself.

this will affect her for sure, but it is for her to attenuate things. i repeat, it is not her fault. people might think that she is a ****, i don't think that way, i hope that people understand what happened to her before they judgement and i also hope that she does not change the way she looks to men just because a sick person raped her.

fair punishment: some years in prison.

i would marry the girl i love regardless if she was raped before or no, and i don't know a girl who got raped.

thank you...

[J()e]

1_nice topic bro
as always abousoun u are "7akim"

rape,rape,rape,today i was watching a movie and a girl was raped and this movie represents a situation and from my point of view i think tht it is the cause of the society,people becomes obsesd by sex and start searching for it,the way that children are raised is very important cz if a shild isn't raised carefully he could end up raping a girl or being "az3ar" and go to prison, and this rape thing shouldn't be kept as a secret at all,cz the girl should tell her story to som1 that she trust and together they can go to "ma7kame"and yerfa3o da3wa and the person who raped the girl should end up in jail,and in case the society knew they can yo7daro el ma7kame,and c who is guilty and who is not,and i think when the girl tels her secret and when the society know abt it she will have a hard life for a short period than she'll get over it,and if suddenly i meat this girl and fell in love with her,i think i could be able to marry her knowing that she is telling me the truth so i think tht our relation should be allright...and finnaly i would like to thank god knowing that no1 from my fammily,friendz got raped ...

[Mandy]

Rape is a form of assault where one individual forces another to have sexual intercourse against that person’s will. Most experts believe the primary cause of rape is an aggressive desire to dominate the victim rather than an attempt to achieve sexual fulfillment. They consider rape an act of violence rather than principally a sexual encounter

EFFECTS OF RAPE:

After being raped it is common for the victim to experience intense, and sometimes unpredictable, emotions, and they may find it hard to deal with their memories of the event. Victims can be severely traumatized by the assault and may have difficulty functioning as well as they had been used to prior to the assault, with disruption of concentration, sleeping patterns and eating habits, for example. They may feel jumpy or be on edge. In the month(s) immediately following the assault these problems may be severe and very upsetting and may prevent the victim from revealing their ordeal to friends or family, or seeking police or medical assistance. This may result in Acute Stress Disorder. Symptoms of this are:

• feeling numb and detached, like being in a daze or a dream, or feeling that the world is strange and unreal
• difficulty remembering important parts of the assault
• reliving the assault through repeated thoughts, memories, or nightmares
• avoidance of things -places, thoughts, feelings- that remind the victim of the assault
• anxiety or increased arousal (difficulty sleeping, concentrating, etc.)
• avoidance of social life or place of rape

Some psychologists observed a pattern of reactions which they named Rape Trauma Syndrome.They defined this as having two components which they called the Acute and Reorganization phases.
During the Acute Phase the survivor may experience shock and disbelief, or feel frozen, and may attempt to disconnect themselves from "the person who was raped". They may feel humiliated, confused, dirty, ashamed, or at fault for the assault, particularly if the assailant was an acquaintance. Extreme nightmares, heightened anxiety, frequent flashbacks, and a strong attempt to disconnect from one's emotions are common, as is denial - trying to convince oneself that the assault did not actually occur. If raped by an acquaintance the victim may try to protect the perpetrator.
After the acute phase, the Reorganization Phase begins and the survivor attempts to recreate the world that they once knew. This stage may last for months or even years following the assault and despite their best efforts this phase is often riddled with feelings of guilt, shame, fear, and anxiety. Emotions such as anger, anxiety, denial, and loss (of security) surface.

Sexual assault can affect an individual forever, changing them into someone living in a constant state of turmoil. In extreme cases the outcome may be suicide

[SysTaMatIcS]

well the main reason for such things lies in the person himself , he mite be metally ill , and sick and theres other reasons like the contradiction in our society , like the guy is seein all the sexually tempting things on the tv , and his chances of having sex is 0 , this combined with other facts can lead to the rape... but ofcourse in our society probably 70% of the rape cases gets burried inside the girl , cuz of the shame shell feel and the rejection from society and the influence caused by the raper himself ...
a rape can seriously affect the life of the girl in the future , it can destroy her personality and cause other phycological effects leading to suicide

a girl whenever gets sexually harresment should REPORT , and the rapist should have his %*%^^ cut off , kiddin , he should be locked up in a mental hospital and released later , abt the marrying part yeh maybe , it aint her fault! i know a girl who got raped , poor her she doesnt deserve it she never reported , she was 13 and she kept cryin and wishin suicide after it ...

[abousoun]

Well from my point of view it's either due to sexual frustration or because psychological illness the guy has and in many times it's because both reasons ...

However the society plays a big role, sadly we are living in a society which consider the sex talk as a sin, children grow without having a proper sexual education, most parents usually ignore the subject or feel uncomfortable to discuss this topic with their children ... this creates an ignorance for most guyz ... and they want to fulfill their ignorance in any way ...

And because we were raised that way, you'll find that some girls even after they got raped, they tend to be discrete about the whole thing ... they feel ashamed of themselves, and they fear the way that other people will look at them ... and this will will have more traumatic effect on them than the rape itself ...

Instead of finding support, the girl finds some judgmental people who will look at her in a degrading manner ... She won't be able to find someone that she could trust, she becomes afraid from the opposite sex, she becomes more and more isolated from her surrounding, and some may even think or commit suicide ... imagine all this because something that it's not her fault ... eno for god sake she is the victim here ... why we have to kill her twice ? once by the rapist and second by our ignorant judgment !!!!

Why Rape should be the only crime where the victim becomes the accused ? Why Rape is the only crime where people don't always sympathize with the victim ?

Rape is not just something that could be easily recovered from, eno "it's okey, get over it, believe in love and peace" ... i was reading the quotes of someone who got raped and she was willing to kill those who thought that way ... coz nobody knows exactly how she feels

Girls should always report such incidents, regardless to what people may think coz by not coming forward, she will make herself a victim forever ... and she maybe endangering other girls to be victims as well ...

We need to have support groups for those who lived such an experience, coz no one will understand her as someone who really lived that experience by all its means ...

If i was a judge, the fair punishment for me is death penalty (yeah i'm cold blooded ) but for me it's the worst crime, ... however if this is considered extreme, then the next best thing to do for a rapist is penectomy and castration (removal of penis and testicles) so that he never forgets what he had done ...

Thank You ...

[Medusa]

Rape is the ugliest and worst thing that a girl can experience in her life ... but who's fault it is ?
- Is it because the society we are living in ... where guyz become sexually frustrated to drive them to do such a horrible act ?
- Is it because the excess freedom that girls are having, the way they dress, they way they behave, they leave and come whenever they like ... ?


i think that we can't have one reason and we can't blame one part .. cz society , girls , and boys are responsable.. such a girl who wear very short skirts and mini shirt , they will attract boys and drive them crazy such it's not the completely fault of the girl cz their parent don't let her wear what she want so she will reflect obviously and wear it without the permission of their parent .. so it's complicated ..

Most girls feel afraid if somebody knows about what happened to them ... and they usually keep it secret ...
- Do you think it's the best solution ? or she should report ?

it's not the best solution , bass in our society l men deyman ma3o 7a2 wel mara 7aref na2es m it's like this !


and in case others knew, the problem gets bigger because society usually blame the girl, people start to look at the girl in a disgusting manner as if she was a ***** ... She gets hurt twice, first from the rapist and second from the society ...

100% right

- How this will affect her life afterwards ? (relation with parents, friends, opposite sex, marriage, psychologically, etc ...)

she will have a complexe w she will be always shy w lost her hope in life ,, she will be a sad person , hurted..

- What do you think the fair punishment of a rapist ?

There is no fair punishement cz 5alas nkasar kel chi bel benet alba w nafsiyeta w sita ... (reputation).
maybe jail for 15 years minimum with a big work
but finally God is upstair and see everyone..
- Do you consider marrying a girl who was raped at a certain point ?

duno..
- Do you know anyone who got raped ?
i read it in a magazine there was a corner for those girls , so most of them haven't thought of mariage and have a broken heart and they lost the sens of their live cz most of them society blame them and make them bad girls and never let them work or make their future

[Omeros]

Rape is the ugliest and worst thing that a girl can experience in her life ... but who's fault it is ?

الخطا ، هو خطا المجتمع المكبوت جنسيا والذي لا يعرف ان الجنس وكبت الرغبات لحد الانسحاق قد يولد افات اجتماعية كتلك ( الحق ليس لا على الفتاة وليس على المغتصب بصورة قريبة) الحق على سلسلة من الاحداث : التربية الثقافة الغريزة ولكن الاغتصاب واقعة قد يكون حافزها آني ولكن لديه تبعات وعاقبات سابقة

- Is it because the society we are living in ... where guyz become sexually frustrated to drive them to do such a horrible act ?

ان السبب : الكبت الجنسي والمجرمات المفروضة من المجتمع : على الامراة والفتاتة وبالتالي الرجل .. فمن يقول ان المراة عليها ان تكون عذراء؟ المجتمع ومن يكبت مشاعره اذا ؟ الرجل ، كيف يفجرها : اغتصاب عاهرات ... وينشى ان الجنس هو اساس التعبير عن الحب

- Is it because the excess freedom that girls are having, the way they dress, they way they behave, they leave and come whenever they like ... ?

لا علاقة للامر ، كل انسان حر في ملبسه .... والملبس لا اقول لا قد يكون دافع اغتصاب لرجل مكبوت جنسا

Most girls feel afraid if somebody knows about what happened to them ... and they usually keep it secret ... - Do you think it's the best solution ? or she should report ?

شخصيا ، افضل السكوت .. لم؟ لاستطيع تخطي المشكل والفكرة فكما قلت سابقا انه امر صعب كيف اذا اعدته في راسك ؟

and in case others knew, the problem gets bigger because society usually blame the girl, people start to look at the girl in a disgusting manner as if she was a ***** ... She gets hurt twice, first from the rapist and second from the society ...- How this will affect her life afterwards ? (relation with parents, friends, opposite sex, marriage, psychologically, etc ...)- What do you think the fair punishment of a rapist ?- Do you consider marrying a girl who was raped at a certain point ?- Do you know anyone who got raped ?Share us your thoughts

Thank You ...

هذا كان فيما مضى حين كانت العذرية معيار ولكن الان مختلف الامر ، فحين تجد من تحب ويحبك لا يهمه ان دخلت رجلا او العكس الا ان ما يبقى من الاغتصاب بعض الاثار والتي تعالج بالحب والروية ..
لا عقاب للمغتصب .... هو يعاقب نفسه

[Omeros]

ان هذا الجرم من اسوء انواع الجرائم لانك شهيد حي .. لان المراة رات موتها ورات اسوء من الموت والاسواء لا استطاعة في ايقاف المغتصب تشعر المراة انها ادات وانها منهوبة الكرامة فتنظر لنفسها كانها دون قيمة تمضي ايام وسنين تتساءل ما قيمتها تشعر انها تعيش حلم تدور في فلك من الاحلام البشعة ، لا امان ، خوف دائم ، خوف من الاخر ، خوف من الحب بذاته ، خوف من ان تنكسر كرامتها او ما تبقى منها ..

انه جرم اسوء من القتل خصوصا ان القتيات بعضهن يتمنين الموت على ان يغتصبن وانا افهمنهم