Why do we love one person and not another?

[Jess]

After reading here for a while it appears that loving someone isn't necessarily based on how attractive they are, how nice they are, how much they love us, how much money they have, how stable they are in their life, how responsible they are, or even how well they treat us!

Of course, these things are all valuable and factor into our logical side, but even all of these things don't equate loving the person. In fact, it's possible that someone could have all of the above positive traits and we still could not be in love with them.

Share wiz' us and tell us why

[Gilgamesh]

I think the criteria differs from a person to another...and unlike you said, many people will be hung up on looks,education,wealth,job...or other criteria which hinders the possibility of any affection or love to be born....

But sometimes people are stunned by falling in love with people they might have expected to reject outright from the first moment...

It is a very complicated process that differs from and individual to another....what I can firmly say that it happens at the level of the unconsciousness and we will never figure out what inner cries,insecurities, or flaws a lover answers to qualify him/her to be a lover....

[abousoun]

The way to distinguish yourself is by showing your Individuality

Thank You ...

[Sheriff Ice]

simply cuz we fall in love with and we dont why
there is no clear explenation for that till now
eno somtimes u fall in love with person that u dont even think about wiz ppl whom u hate

[Jess]

It's important not to forget our need to be coupled either .... I mean, someone could be the exact wrong person for us, but we will never see it because the joy of being part of a couple is something we can't give up

And I agree with the other post that said it is possible that you just don't click with the people .... If you spent all your time using the logical part of your brain picking out people to date, there would never be any excitement in this relation

We have the ability to love an infinite number of people, in part because love is often a conscious choice, in part because of those infinite variations, and in part because even over time our OWN criteria change based upon our maturity and experience

[J()e]

I have a story to tell

bl seconde,a new girl came to our school,at first i didn't have that much of a contact,then bl 1ere we sat next to each other in class so we became friends,best friends,after a while i stared to like her more and more ma3 2enno fi banet 100 a7la menna...then she became my gf,w halla2 we are still together,in the same class sitting next to each other..so i think what makes som1 fall in love,is not appearance it's knowing the other,spending time with the other ...