distance....

[Jess]

With the current situation in Lebanon, as you can see most of the guys are leaving
Honestly, what do you think of long distance relationships???

[pouta]

long distance relationships are downers in my opinion cause....i know many people who experienced it mni7 ma sarle 3al shi ba3ed...trust is the most essential thing in long distance relationships.

[god]

..okkk what does emigration have to do with long distance relationships :P ? i dont see any logical link 8-)

anywayz i think they're normal, unless if they fall under these 2 cases:

1_The person is soo sensitive and gets attached very fast, cause you cant trust a person a thousand miles away like you trust them when they're with you, so a hear-break is more likely to happen.

2_If the relation started on some chatting client, if the two say "we're in love" w ma ba3rif chou before meeting in person, thats bullshit, i say if they think they match and stay 2 months without any meeting, thats idiotic..

[pink]

ive got frnds havin tht state, 1,her fiance showed up 2 b havin an affair wer he lives knowin that they wer 2 get married in the comin summer!...nd my other frnd knew some 1 for only 4 months nd he travelled nd hez been away 2 years till now nd theyr really gr8 nd so0o well ,,
but in my opinion it is crazy ,..2 hav all that distance btwn 2 ppl connected 2 each other...eventho if i was in the case i wont give up but..its so hard nd needs real mature ppl

[Tawa]

Originally Posted by pink

but in my opinion it is crazy ,..2 hav all that distance btwn 2 ppl connected 2 each other...eventho if i was in the case i wont give up but..its so hard nd needs real mature ppl

I Support Pink's Theory ... And The 2 Examples That She Gave Are Perfect For Your Question Jess...

Well, You Asked About Long Distance Relationships... And All The Answers Leads Back To The Couple's Responsibility.
Well, Of Course, The Couple Is Responsible Of The Relationship, So They Must Think About It From The Beginning.
Each Person Of The Couple Should Think About Those Two Things:

• Can He/She Carry On With The Relationship, Even If His/Her Partner Is Away?
• Can His/Her Partner Carry On With The Relationship, Even If He/She Is Away?

Hmmm... Well, Sometimes A Person Might Think That He Can Carry On With The Relationship, But He Ignores The 2nd Question I Mentioned, And He Might Get Shocked Just Like In The First Example Pink Gave...

I Think That's All What I Have To Say...

[Sheriff Ice]

im my opinion the worst relations ever, long distances destroy trust and honesty in good realtions, there is a proverb in arabic says:"b3id 3an el 3ien b3id 3an el aleb", enno lets say ur lover is away from you enno the comittement will be weak, enno u can meet ppl online but in the end u have to meet them u have to touch them and to feel them,
even phone relation are bad, they are worst even then internet.
personly im against this type of relation, i do refuse to spend my time on phone with a girl, cuz i have to see her to see her face her body languages.

[Jess]

Me, as Jessy lol don't believe eno a long distance relationship can really work. (bs deyman fi small exceptions)
As we all know, It's a busy world. So many options; so little time.

Different wants and needs in life, things change...believe it or not.

ana am a jealous person, and i can't be in love with someone who is just so far away from me

[Justin]

To keep a long distance relationship alive, i think both couples should have a main goal... for e.g: there has to be an agreed upon goal to look forward to when u 1st embark upon long distance relationship... for like, a COME BACK, you should agree on a time, where you or he/she would come back again to meet each other, 6 months or even a year... but, I,personaly think its very very hard to do so cuz u can't get the feel if u are so far away... Basically long story short, I don't think that there's a reasonable man that can last for almost one year without meeting "a passing by somebody" during that relationship with his partner... it's just NATURE REACTION... and vice versa...

[Sogelec]

Originally Posted by icemaker

im my opinion the worst relations ever, long distances destroy trust and honesty in good realtions, there is a proverb in arabic says:"b3id 3an el 3ien b3id 3an el aleb", enno lets say ur lover is away from you enno the comittement will be weak, enno u can meet ppl online but in the end u have to meet them u have to touch them and to feel them,
even phone relation are bad, they are worst even then internet.
personly im against this type of relation, i do refuse to spend my time on phone with a girl, cuz i have to see her to see her face her body languages.

What are u talking about?
the worse relations ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!???????????????
1st of all, long distances relation ships BUILD Trust n Honesty
when u try a long distance relationship, bta3ref shu me3nat l trust w shu me3net l honesty
sometimes u feel without seeing, where is da problem
i believe long distance relation ships is the highest rank of sacrifice between 2 lovers
in our days, distance is never an obstacle

what about if you know that girl previously, or she was ur GF & traveled with her family, would u leave her????

Originally Posted by Jess

Me, as Jessy lol don't believe eno a long distance relationship can really work. (bs deyman fi small exceptions)
As we all know, It's a busy world. So many options; so little time.

Different wants and needs in life, things change...believe it or not.

ana am a jealous person, and i can't be in love with someone who is just so far away from me

ana as HsN i believe eno a long distance relationship CAN REALLY WORK!, i knw an example some1 sarlo more than 2 years with his GF, she is living abroad, w akeed he saw her many times during these 2 years
w about jelousy, even if some1 was close 2 u, he might lie or "yel3ab b daylo", while far lovers might be very honest & trustfull than close 1's

Originally Posted by Justin

To keep a long distance relationship alive, i think both couples should have a main goal... for e.g: there has to be an agreed upon goal to look forward to when u 1st embark upon long distance relationship... for like, a COME BACK, you should agree on a time, where you or he/she would come back again to meet each other, 6 months or even a year... but, I,personaly think its very very hard to do so cuz u can't get the feel if u are so far away... Basically long story short, I don't think that there's a reasonable man that can last for almost one year without meeting "a passing by somebody" during that relationship with his partner... it's just NATURE REACTION... and vice versa...

tab, eno, ma3ak 7a2, people or a man meets many many "a passing by girl" in his life, bas eno as U know, Man's Race is a smart Race especially in Love stuff. if you are really a trustable and honset person, such pass by girls won't even exist in ur life, the matter is, u just need to believe in your other far away partner, and trust him, things will work really fine, a year w more than a year n more more than a year

[Sogelec]

ID WEHDE MA BETZA2IF ... dont u ever think that ur partner will think or have the same ability as you do... this is how i feel (by experiences, gd ones and bad ones) ...it starts with a trust, ends up with breaking up, not cuz u dont trust.. its just... the passion for love will fade away time after time til will no longer exist... (it an be from you or from her)...

Mr. Minister, we or da other partner must be creative in how we maintain our relation in order to avoid the fade of love n passion, 7ata to compare in close distance relationships, sometimes love n passion fades away w they are close n they see each other w kelo hool, it's not the matter of long distance, its the matter of are the 2 ready to face the fact they are far away from each other?are they from the type they can handle such thing? its a big big sacrifice that not all ppl can do