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Old 02-21-2009   #1
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Ladies n Gentlemen Would u adopt an orphan child who's not ur son/daughter??? some religions forbids, do u agree and why??

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If I ever found out that it's impossible for me to conceive a child, I would definitely consider adopting one...I don't understand why many couples who can't have children spend their life suffering and never try adoption...
I know it's almost every girl's dream to give birth to her own child after waiting 9 whole months, but i think that this would only be the beginning of a wonderful journey: the motherhood...a mother is not a person who gives birth and then never care for the child, a real mother is the person who dedicates her life for her baby, who offers love and tenderness and always keeps the best interest of the child in mind.
Adoption can be very beautiful as long as the parents love their child.
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I doubt I could adopt
it's just too weird, living with a kid that's not yours and not related to you, you need to take care of him watch him, he's gonna make mistakes, he's going to do embaracing stuff, he's going to need your help

(I used he by default same goes for a girl)
so if it's not my kid, I doubt I can handle stuff like that with the patience and care I would have if the kid was biologicaly mine

I don't know...
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Of course i would, what would be the difference?
Blood relation and traditions?
Some people treat their children like animals and think they own them, what does tradition and blood relation is doing any better in such cases?

When you want to raise a child and take care of him, it wouldn't really matter about blood relation or not. At least for me.
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it's instinctivly
it's not because of some traditions thingy
it just feels weird
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like aurora said if my future husband and i couldnt conceive a child i would definetely adopt. and with todays technology u can bascially create the baby before he/she is born. you pick the charasteristics u want.
i would want to adopt thought from the second the baby is born that my only requirment.

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I Might Adopt A Child One Day, Only If It's Impossible To Get A Biological Child.

There Are Many Medical Ways To Make A Woman Pregnant From Her Husband If That's Not Possible For Them To Do Naturally.
If None Of Those Ways Are Possible For Me And My Wife, I Might Consider Adopting A Child.
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