would you date/marry from outside your religion?

[majousseh]

Originally Posted by MORPHEUSP

1- loving some1 who is not from my religion

Phenomenal

ok I am seeing a lot of such cases these dayz, the question goes like this:

Would u go out with someone who doesn't have the same religion as yours ???

If no why not?

can u justify ur convenience ? (u or those who r thanking u)

[Malek]

Originally Posted by MORPHEUSP

Hmmm, for me i think for each his own, and i don't beleive in the following:
1- loving some1 who is not from my religion
2- loving some1 who is not from my country

i know this is a bit weird but this is me

Lakan when you meet a girl deghre ask her for her ID.

[Adam]

Originally Posted by majousseh

can u justify ur convenience ? (u or those who r thanking u)

I thanked him because he said something that most wouldn't dare to say.
Everybody has a way of thinking and it's nobody's business to judge if it's right or wrong.


PS: I don't have a problem with being with someone with different beliefs than me.

[majousseh]

Everybody has a way of thinking and it's nobody's business to judge if it's right or wrong.

sure. but phenomenal wasn't searching for statistical analysis (just a yes or no).
when we come with a thinkink pal, let's try to discuss it. that's the interesting side of the forum (not the only one ). to discuss. indeed the majority of lebanonese agree with our friend Morph thinking. i don't find it a courage or cowering.
and i am not criticizing his thinking (not yet), i'm simply asking to elaborate our posts.

with all my respect,

[Crystal Soul]

i won t accept ..........
u would say that i m a close mind person and i don t care.
1 st i m a girl when i ll chose the person to go out with i ll not be playing .
2 nd i prefer him to be the right one not only for me but for my parents for my entourage and for the way i live life .
3 rd i don t see myself getting married outside a church , i don t see my own kids from another religion than mine.
i m not saying that i would not communicate with others , i really do have lots of friends from another religion and i have no problem with that bas they should be only friends so that s me

[TAREK®]

yeah but what if the girl/the guy doesn't mind that u have a different religion?? shu u'll break his/her heart bass men wara el din??

[Crystal Soul]

are u asking me????
if yes ...... u re a boy u won t see the difference bas i as a girl gonna change my family name and everything . i don t see it wrong for a boy "christian one" to get marry to a muslim girl because he ll stay the same in the both cases he s gonna get marry inside the church his childrens will be in the futur christians but unfortunatly i m a girl. and iff the partner don t care if i m from a different religion i really do . his heart shouldn t be broken because from the begining if the girl knows that she wont accept him because of his religions so she wont gave him a chance from the begining........

[TAREK®]

I was talking to everyone who said no


Now here is what I think:

I think u should separate love from everything (religion, politics, .....) coz it only get people hurt and for what? nothin, its not that God will accept u in heaven if a christian guy refuses to love Muslim girl and I think that religion is a personal opinion only that shouldn't affect the people we go out with, ok religion is something important in life but still, it should be a personal opinion, shu bo2ta3o la hal sha5es bass la2eno masi7eh (I had to learn that the hard way )

Originally Posted by Bambina

Religion should never constitute an obstacle between people in any kind of relationship whatsoever.
Each one of us has their choice, their taste, their beliefs; two people can be together and can at the same time have different taste of food, different choice of clothing, different majors and different religion!
If they’re perfectly ok together I don’t see any convincing reason why religion should be a problem.

By the way this issue is so common in Lebanon, and its so ridiculous, people are only good at preaching secularism and denouncing secterianism, yet we see them applying it in the tiniest aspects of their daily life.

this is gold

[Jess]

Originally Posted by Crystal Soul

are u asking me????
if yes ...... u re a boy u won t see the difference bas i as a girl gonna change my family name and everything . i don t see it wrong for a boy "christian one" to get marry to a muslim girl because he ll stay the same in the both cases he s gonna get marry inside the church his childrens will be in the futur christians but unfortunatly i m a girl. and iff the partner don t care if i m from a different religion i really do . his heart shouldn t be broken because from the begining if the girl knows that she wont accept him because of his religions so she wont gave him a chance from the begining........

So what?? you are doing this for your LOVER and not for the NATOUR!
In my Opinion, nothing should stand bwej your love!

[Ingrid]

I kinda support Crystal Soul on this one...I don't mind at all having friends from any kind of religion...however when it comes to marriage, I really can't imagine myself married to someone from a different religion only because that would mean that I have to change mine, and this is something that I would never do...It took me my whole life to discover my religion and I've been practicing it since I was little not because I have to but because I'm conviced about it..."losing my religion" would be like losing an important part of my life