Fight!?

[Jess]

Many couples discover love is not sufficient to stop the fighting and arguing.

Actually this problem is fairly common What do you think of it?

[Confucius]

I think a relationship without fighting is dull, and they tend to end quickly, we as human beings dnt like to be with ppl who are VERYYYYY nice and for some reason we hate them for that as time goes on, plus..the best sex is the make-up sex, that says alot about how important fights are. I read somewhere that fighting IS healthy BUT, when u're fighting, dnt say stuff u can't take back! cz it'll ruin ur relationship (like for example..u're cheap, never say that cz u cnt take it back and when u make-up, u'll forever be the bastard that thinks he or she is cheap) so I really think fights r healthy, mech ALOT of fights..bas enno they're not bad

[xcoder]

Fights are normal as long they don't become waiting-on-the-corner fights.

[Justin]

A relationship without fights can last as well as a relationship with fights, it all depends how you and your gf are mature and aware of any situation that you both get into; compromising and understanding are always a solution for any problem as long as you both agree on it.

As for "The breakup" is a decision that both partners can decide, they don't have to wait for a problem to happen to break up unless they want too. IMO, the healthiest relationship is the one that has no fights and arguments but one day both of them have to disagree at something, therefore, compromising and understanding can lead to an agreement.

[SysTaMatIcS]

A relationship without fights sucks , youv always got to warm it up with a fight abt somethin , even abt a little thing

[RAM BÓY™]

Originally Posted by SysTaMatIcS

youv always got to warm it up with a fight abt somethin , even abt a little thing

WTF are you talking about dude ? you think if u get a fight with ur gf or bf will love you more , i don't think so , fights are important bass for something ye7roz not a silly things

[Neoxter]

^ I think he means the same as confucius said , but he said it in a strange funny way

[Adam]

Fighting is the glue that keeps this forum together.

[Miss O.]

Originally Posted by Neoxter

^ I think he means the same as confucius said , but he said it in a strange funny way

cause he said it the right way the actual way everyone feels....we all love the make up after the fight. fights are healthy i know some couples where only one person in the relationship has all the say and i just cant tolerate it i dont know how these people are ok with it. but i guess some people have that kind of push over personality they need someone to do all the thinking. its nice to have conflicting ideas were human in the end no 2 people are the same!!

if you fight i think it means you love each other because you care enough to make the other person aware of your opinion and how you feel. because just ignoring ur thoughts and feelings and letting one person do it all is no fun!! and not lovable !

Miss O.