chou ossit "tu es tres gentil"??!!!

[Sheriff Ice]

hey guys im a lebanese guy.
u know i meet girls every day we go out w heyk,
im having a little problem its not precisely a problem its an action
every time im dating a girl enno at the begining im so nice with girls i do treat them very nicelly, but when it comes to be serious i always hear this compliment :"bta3rif, tu es tres gentil" bass i cant get anything zero titi mitil ma rehti jiti no GF.
i think girls likes bad boys, they like to be treated in a bad way.

i hope u post ur opinion
and i hope that girls helps.

[xcoder]

ok look, i m not an expert or anything but just try to be honest. don't treat them likes guys nor be bad to them and don't be extreme nice to them.
just be nice normaly and say what you think and what you want that's the faster way to do it. it needs to be brave a little bit and go straight to the point

[Ghnadine]

Originally Posted by xcoder

it should be 'tu es tres gentil' :P
ok look, i m not an expert or anything but just try to be honest. don't treat them likes guys nor be bad to them and don't be extreme nice to them.
just be nice normaly and say what you think and what you want that's the faster way to do it. it needs to be brave a little bit and go straight to the point

I agree with Xcoder, Since I'm a women I well Liked guys, Before I got married, Don't know about now,but Honest,Decent and being yourself and being romantic thats Important.

[Justin]

Well, What does a guy love? he loves trust, simple needs of life, (shoulder 2 cry on), someone to be heared, some1 to hold n to be hold, some promises without fake lies, a love to survive...

so I GUESS, treat them as u want to be treated, eventually, we all float in the same boat of life, MEN WANT FROM A WOMEN WHAT A WOMEN WANT FROM A MEN... so what do u guyz love to have is somethin ALMOST exaclty what girls loves to have...
got my point?

[RockGurl]

Originally Posted by crazysimo

when it comes to be serious i always hear this compliment :"bta3rif, tu est tres gentille" bass i cant get anything zero titi mitil ma rehti jiti no GF.
i think girls likes bad boys, they like to be treated in a bad way.

Don't pretend to be someone you're not, just be yourself !
Be honest with the girl, tell her how you feel towards her and if she doesn't like who you truely are, there are plenty fish in the sea

[pink]

u tuk him so general...enta..wn u wana aproach a gurl..let her kno men l awwal wut ur newe 2 be mesh teje as a frnd w ba3den tseer wantin some other relation..se3eta ma 7a t2ellak gher''enta betjannen w mnee7 w,,,,,bas we'd better b frnds''..so far as i thnk...coz mainly guys dunno how 2 play safe 4 themselves

[sarah32]

i wonder why people who always do english/french even arabic mistakes are the one yaleh byete2do ghayron! goooooooosh! u all got his point so no need to make this thread "a french lesson" give him a break ghalta w sariT!

anyway .. dude try this after they tell u ur so good zbelon and stop being nice (dont be mean) be neutre and c how they'll be le72inak with the "why r u changing?""i did smtg wrong?" ...

[Tawa]

Originally Posted by xcoder

it should be 'tu es tres gentil' :P
ok look, i m not an expert or anything but just try to be honest. don't treat them likes guys nor be bad to them and don't be extreme nice to them.
just be nice normaly and say what you think and what you want that's the faster way to do it. it needs to be brave a little bit and go straight to the point

yes... xcoder... you're right... one of the reasons that ended my last relation was that I was so nice with the girl... and she didn't want it...
Girls wants the guy to be evil and rough lol... just kidding...

Originally Posted by TMM-Killer

btw, was putting "crazy" in your username a mistake ?

Damn it, Ive totally lost my mind.

Well... it seems that crazysimo should change his nickname to gentilsimo

Originally Posted by RockGurl

Don't pretend to be someone you're not, just be yourself !
Be honest with the girl, tell her how you feel towards her and if she doesn't like who you truely are, there are plenty fish in the sea

You're right too RockGurl... pretending isn't good for both sides.. I mean... why to pretend something, if you're willing to keep on pretending it for a loooooong time? just... be yourself...

Originally Posted by pink

u tuk him so general...enta..wn u wana aproach a gurl..let her kno men l awwal wut ur newe 2 be mesh teje as a frnd w ba3den tseer wantin some other relation..se3eta ma 7a t2ellak gher''enta betjannen w mnee7 w,,,,,bas we'd better b frnds''..so far as i thnk...coz mainly guys dunno how 2 play safe 4 themselves

I had this problem with a girl here in Qatar... sarah32 knows the story and you too pink... and how this problem ended? We became friends lol... 2ana qtana3et bel ai5ir 2enno she's right...

so... bel mou5tasar ya 2a5 "gentilsimo"... be yourself... w2eza fik... sometimes be shouay evil with the girl

[ZeRaW]

Originally Posted by crazysimo

hey guys im a lebanese guy.
u know i meet girls every day we go out w heyk,
im having a little problem its not precisely a problem its an action
every time im dating a girl enno at the begining im so nice with girls i do treat them very nicelly, but when it comes to be serious i always hear this compliment :"bta3rif, tu est tres gentille" bass i cant get anything zero titi mitil ma rehti jiti no GF.
i think girls likes bad boys, they like to be treated in a bad way.

i hope u post ur opinion
and i hope that girls helps.

well u got it u answered ur own question. same thing used to happen to me.
1st every girl in the forum will tell u noo i like good ppl w ma ba3rif chou. i like guys who dt get into fights and 99% of the time they do not even know what the like so best u can do is be a friend to a beautiful girl u like then zbela and treat her like shit and u ll get her
i think it is something in their genes.
and about pretending: most girls are actually fake so it depends what u want from this girl? a 1 night stand or an actual relationship. if all u want is to get into her pants then fake else be honest but dt expect results directly :P u ll need to check most of the fish in the sea to really get in a gd relationship :/
anyways how old r u? cuz u know, u ll be very lucky when u ll be 24+
girls above 23 will start thinking about their futur and will usually take anything that can have children :/

Originally Posted by sarah32

anyway .. dude try this after they tell u ur so good zbelon and stop being nice (dont be mean) be neutre and c how they'll be le72inak with the "why r u changing?""i did smtg wrong?" ...

advice from a girl on how to get girls, this i trust.

but then again i see u want someth more then getting a girl and it is harder, getting her as a gf is the easy part, maintaining the relation is the hard part


and btw iza chi girl bet2elleh tu est gentil, belbeja kaf bi arda. gentil = na3nou3 and i can take advantage of u as much as i want (in lebanese). metel ma we7deh btejeh bet2ellak: i like u like a brother or i am ur little sister (sister min wel nes neymin) usually my reply is: if u r my sister then we will have lots of problems in incest :/ w ya bteda7ak w ya betfell and as pink said dt be friends with a girl for more than 2 dyas before letting her know exactly what u want from her else u r trapped in the "friendship" circle

[xcoder]

Originally Posted by ZeRaW

well u got it u answered ur own question. same thing used to happen to me.
1st every girl in the forum will tell u noo i like good ppl w ma ba3rif chou. i like guys who dt get into fights and 99% of the time they do not even know what the like so best u can do is be a friend to a beautiful girl u like then zbela and treat her like shit and u ll get her
i think it is something in their genes.
and about pretending: most girls are actually fake so it depends what u want from this girl? a 1 night stand or an actual relationship. if all u want is to get into her pants then fake else be honest but dt expect results directly :P u ll need to check most of the fish in the sea to really get in a gd relationship :/
anyways how old r u? cuz u know, u ll be very lucky when u ll be 24+
girls above 23 will start thinking about their futur and will usually take anything that can have children :/


advice from a girl on how to get girls, this i trust.

but then again i see u want someth more then getting a girl and it is harder, getting her as a gf is the easy part, maintaining the relation is the hard part


and btw iza chi girl bet2elleh tu est gentil, belbeja kaf bi arda. gentil = na3nou3 and i can take advantage of u as much as i want (in lebanese). metel ma we7deh btejeh bet2ellak: i like u like a brother or i am ur little sister (sister min wel nes neymin) usually my reply is: if u r my sister then we will have lots of problems in incest :/ w ya bteda7ak w ya betfell and as pink said dt be friends with a girl for more than 2 dyas before letting her know exactly what u want from her else u r trapped in the "friendship" circle

I don't agree with everything you said.
as i understood you kind support being rude with a girl to get her and that's WRONG.
just be normal and say what you want. don't fake it or pretend to be someone else because it won't last and she will find out real fast even in the same night.
but i agree about the one night stand in this case girls prefer bad guys in the meaning of active and not violent.
don't be so soft to them or shy because when you do that you're screwed.
i know sometimes when u go straight to the point you will have 50% chance to get her and 50% to lose her but if you do nothing but pretending to be nice for quite along you will have 0% chance to get her.
and also about mantaining the relation is very important and harder than going into a relation.
you need to show that you care about what she does because if you really like her than u will like many things in her life and not only her look and her body right?
in a shorter meaning be honest is the key even for long sexual relationships just let her know trust me sometimes it works even if u don't expect it.