Chatting -> Meeting!

[boudi24]

walla me personally no but my friend salem he was talking to a lebanese girl that lives in canada few months ago she only showed him her face so after few months they fell in love in each other yesterday the girl came over to see salem and salem bought hour a diamond ring and a diamond necklace worth more then 3000$ but the surprise at the airport when that girl was over weighted :P.......... my friend left without even talking to her lol

[Sheriff Ice]

Originally Posted by xcoder

That's wrong dude you can't just say that, personality over internet is kinda virtual and people act the way they think they should act and not the way they do. However i don't believe that any kind of relationship can improve over the net and it's always limited. Human direct connections are everything

i agree with you on the direct interface, but as john_a said it always depend on the person itself, enno the question is havent you met ppl face to face and they were liers and dont express themself well?!?!
i think honesty is the most important thing in human communication, via net or directly, im not saying that net is always a good way of communication but u cant deny that it makes communication and expression between ppl easier

[Justin]

Originally Posted by icemaker

i agree with you on the direct interface, but as john_a said it always depend on the person itself, enno the question is havent you met ppl face to face and they were liers and dont express themself well?!?!

what takes you 2 years to accomplish via msn takes u 2 weeks to do it face to face... u just cannot say "it depends on the person himself"... eno, u do meet ppl face to face & they lie & u figure it out from their eyez, actions... but via msn it takes u decates to know that this person is a liar...

Originally Posted by icemaker

i think honesty is the most important thing in human communication,

Couldn't say it better

Originally Posted by icemaker

via net or directly, im not saying that net is always a good way of communication but u cant deny that it makes communication and expression between ppl easier

I agree wit' u BUT... its easy & very easy to express urself via internet, u feel more confortable... but my question goes like this: if u were sooo confortable by chatting via internet & one day u get to meet that person face to face & esitated to be the same guy as it used to be via internet... she will think of 2 things:

1- You are a liar
2- You don't have a personality

& both of them are bad... u can get to meet someone via internet, get out in the weekends, then chat back in the middle of the week via phone or internet... it doesnt matter as long as u see each other...

personaly, u cannot figure a liar via internet that easily.. u can be anybody's bf via msn while in real life u r married

peace

[Miss O.]

Originally Posted by icemaker

waw, well year and a half, it was great we had an awesom relatioship, we got in love, i think it was my most honest love experience, i loved her without seeing her, without touching her, i got inlove with her ideas and her feelings and words

Originally Posted by xcoder

That's wrong dude you can't just say that, personality over internet is kinda virtual and people act the way they think they should act and not the way they do. However i don't believe that any kind of relationship can improve over the net and it's always limited. Human direct connections are everything

I can see exactly where you're both coming from. For icemaker i hear ya been there done that. And you just know for some reason that you both are being sincere and honest.

But unfortunately time didn't allow us to meet but it was only 6 months. But everyone is different and now that i'm out of this "relationship" i understand Xcoder. There's a couple things missing ye3ni bil ekhir bit7is badak tilmos ha shakhis but you cant....And just like Xcoder said it is limited ye3ni you get a point you know soo much about each other. Bas w ekhirta ba2a when this person needs to be with you next to you in hard times your just at the other side of the screen unfortunately.



It's cute how you all understood the question the same way. lol I wasn't just asking about "love" relationships, but also friends what the longest you went online/msn before you met in person?

thankss

[Josee]

Originally Posted by boudi24

walla me personally no but my friend salem he was talking to a lebanese girl that lives in canada few months ago she only showed him her face so after few months they fell in love in each other yesterday the girl came over to see salem and salem bought hour a diamond ring and a diamond necklace worth more then 3000$ but the surprise at the airport when that girl was over weighted :P.......... my friend left without even talking to her lol

Tawa...does this story sounds familiar in some way?

[Josee]

Originally Posted by Miss Taratata

What's the longest you chatted with people for, before you met them in person???

I chatted with a guy on msn for chi 6 months before we meet...And then we met... w tam l nasib...he's my x now

[Josee]

Originally Posted by xcoder

That's wrong dude you can't just say that, personality over internet is kinda virtual and people act the way they think they should act and not the way they do. However i don't believe that any kind of relationship can improve over the net and it's always limited. Human direct connections are everything

Xcoder is completely right...
When he first told me what he's saying now z3elet meno w akhad 3a khatre eno why he's saying that (he told me this in december)...bas from the experience that happened (dany u kno what am talkin abt) i say that he's 100% right...
Relationships can't improve on the net...Eno betdala stable same words w what makes u sure that the person ur talkin to is honest with his feelings w hek..you must see each others hek u improve your relationship with the guy/girl w it's way better...
s2alo mjarib