Crushes in a relationship

[Jess]

I know lots of ppl who are in relationships, but has crushes on other people.
Some argue that you can only have a crush on someone else if you're not satisfied with a partner

So I wanted to ask if people here think that having crushes while in a relationship are always fatal or a sign of deep unhappiness. What do you guys think? and why?
Tell us you opinion

[Gilgamesh]

If we are talking about simple attraction: Out of evolutionary roles, it is biologically normal to have crushes on other people, marriage and long term relationships are good human made ideas but they don't comply with our evolutionary nature. It is not a sign that anything is wrong, these things happen. If it is a crazy crush then something is wrong. In both cases, it is how you respond to such a problem that matters not the problem itself.

[Jess]

No matter how great a relationship is at the beginning, no matter how much thought and effort we put into it, when one person has a crush on someone else other than his partner, that means, eno he found something missing in his partner....

Sometimes two people who care deeply about each other don't belong together as a couple but neither has the strength or energy to get out of the relationship until they meet someone else who shows them what they're missing.

Consequences are inevitable. Even if I don't act on my crush, the existence of a crush and the refusal to eliminate those feelings voluntarily will slowly, silently kill any serious relationship...

So b tari2a moukhtasara: I think if am truly truly! happy in my relationship, then i don't have the time or the interest in anyone else When my emotional needs are being fulfilled by a happy marriage or relationship, why would i look elsewhere? That's how problems start.
So having a crush while am in a relationship will b due to a deep unhappiness with my partner

[Miss O.]

Originally Posted by Jess

No matter how great a relationship is at the beginning, no matter how much thought and effort we put into it, when one person has a crush on someone else other than his partner, that means, eno he found something missing in his partner....

Sometimes two people who care deeply about each other don't belong together as a couple but neither has the strength or energy to get out of the relationship until they meet someone else who shows them what they're missing.

Consequences are inevitable. Even if I don't act on my crush, the existence of a crush and the refusal to eliminate those feelings voluntarily will slowly, silently kill any serious relationship...

So b tari2a moukhtasara: I think if am truly truly! happy in my relationship, then i don't have the time or the interest in anyone else When my emotional needs are being fulfilled by a happy marriage or relationship, why would i look elsewhere? That's how problems start.
So having a crush while am in a relationship will b due to a deep unhappiness with my partner

You must mind read or something

EXACTLY....honestly when im in love/find "him" i'm too blind to even see anyone else

[Tawa]

I Find "Having A Crush While In A Relationship" Something Very Normal... And It's Up To The Person To Handle It. And This Doesn't Show That He's Not Happy In His Current Relation Or Something Like That... But It's Up To Him How To Act...

[wissam1991]

I didn't read all the replies but I can say that "crushing" doesn't mean anything.. you can crush on a thousand people but the 1 partner whom u're in a relationship is the one who matters... and you should not get angry of ur partner if he has a crush on someone when you know that you have a crush on dozens!

[Jess]

So guys what do you think of this amazing topic ?

[Sogelec]

Never!, I Should be Loyal to the 1 I LOVE!, ok i admit you might c ppl that may yelefto l nazar, but still they cant be considered as Crushes, I Believe that when you have the "Neye" to ask another girl/boy out 4 a date aw chi, you are forgetting the 1 you love, and even if you have a crush W/O telling the other 1 who u had a crush on, your Real love is decreasing while you r thinking of the crush you r havin!

[TAREK®]

gr8 thread Jess (gharib kif ma shefto )

anyways, I think thats the hardest situation someone in a realtionship could face, halla2 we both know no one can be in love 2 people , so he or she should take a pick and fast la2eno the more he or she hold this the more his or her beloved one would be hurt

[Sheriff Ice]

its not related to happiness or not its about controlling ur hormones its pure sexual/physical stuff this is my opinion,